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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??  

merlot5555 67M/57F  
1472 posts
1/20/2020 4:50 pm

....genetics determine your body shape... plus or minus of course depending on how you take care of it.... confidence is a plus because it enables you to be yourself and relax in your sexuality.... now curiosity, curiosity is the key because that pushes you to explore... and that curiosity makes anyone a more interesting and attractive person.... imvho...


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:25 am

    Quoting Busyguy6264:
    I am personally more attracted to a curvy woman, but yes the personality is the biggest and most important
Personality is important to me as well. I so appreciate you stopping by and participating. Happy Tuesday to ya.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:28 am

    Quoting kumswaloer3:
    I find sexy to be a combo of mind, and body. I like all shapes and sizes. I think a naked woman is a work of art. She needs to feel, and express her sexiness.
I learned once someone is comfortable with themselves, their sexuality, and body it brings confidence. I find that sexy. Great to see you friend. Happy Tuesday to ya


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:29 am

    Quoting MonsterCacti:
    I would go with body type. However if they arent confident u wont get anywhere with them cause they dont like being naked
I agree the lack of confidence can be unattractive no matter what body type you have. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:32 am

    Quoting SelflessLover068:
    Actually I find it's her looks and personality that comes first... And of course major points for honesty too... The body is just what she uses to move around with... A model type woman with a terrible personality doesn't do it for me.
    And besides... I think you have a fantastic body hon.
    You're a as far as I'm concerned
Thank you. Outter beauty does come in all shape and sizes but I agree personality is very important. Thank you for participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:32 am

Thank you sexy friend


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:34 am

    Quoting scott6250:
    You look very lovely my friend. I am attracted to a confident woman and her intelligence. O do love a nice body too. Happy Thursday my friend.
I would not fault anyone for being attracted to a nice body but I agree that the mind is important. I always appreciate you input Scott. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:36 am

    Quoting luvhandle14:
    A little bit of both. I am attracted to curvy, full- figured ladies, so the body type is important (but not essential) for me. Once we met in person I am also attracted by her personality and her confidence. I like ladies that are confident with their looks and are aware that I find them incredible sexy.
Everyone has a preference of what they desire but I agree confidence is the key. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:37 am

    Quoting Trapper69:
    For me, it's a combination of everything....I've met some women who were beautiful and sexy with "perfect" bodies.....however, their personality had serious flaws..... Of course, not all beautiful women are like that......a lot of them have great personalities. I like a woman who has confidence……..and I like women who lack confidence. I However, if they are too confident, and try to force their opinions on others all the time, or totally lack confidence, it can be a turn off.... Some of the best women I've been with, have carried some extra pounds.... I'm far from perfect, and don't expect others to be perfect.....
That is a excellent point. Someone with too much confidence is a turn off. Thank you so much for participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:39 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you. I agree beauty comes within. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:40 am

    Quoting andifisayyes:
    For me it is a combination of about 75/25. That is 75% mind and 25% body. Maybe more like 80/20 actually. Ya, I'd say 80/20 now that I'm thinking about it. Don't get me wrong, a hot body is nice but it is one of the less important factors. After all, everyone has a body with similar parts. A sexy mind is much less common and it can more than make up for any physical shortcomings.
I agree. A sexy mind is less common. A beautiful body is not. I really appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:42 am

    Quoting ULIXBIG:
    I found that women are women's harshest critics. So, your experience is not surprising to me.
    I love it when a woman has confidence. And with regards to physical attributes, I think that there is some beauty in any body, no matter what size or shape.
    Having said that, I do find you very attractive, body and mind.
Thank you sweet friend. You are correct woman are their worst critics. It is annoying. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:42 am

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    You are gorgeous!! Keep showing off that sexy..sexy body of yours!! XOXOX!

Your always too kind to me sweet friend. Always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:43 am

    Quoting slo2600:
    That's been happening to me, too.
So annoying...lol


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:44 am

    Quoting Desir4Fire:
    Queen Janeane,
    Those are some sweet cheeks.
    It has always been a mixture of both mind and body.
    I have met super skinny girls who had complicated sex life due to their mind.
    Keep it all in prospective, love yourself, love your body, keep peace in your mind and heart.
Great word of wisdom my friend


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:45 am

    Quoting tomcutt4fun2:
    Definitely a mix of both....shake and bake!
A mixture would be ideal. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:46 am

    Quoting dwz5234:
    Confidence an a mind works for me Beauty comes from within the heart ,all woman are Beautiful
I agree. I think everyone is beautiful as well. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:47 am

I am attracted to confidence as well. I appreciate your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:49 am

    Quoting FunSuburbanDude:
    I find I'm attracted to confidence and personality. That must be the case because I don't have an ideal body type I'm interested in. If a woman feels comfortable with herself and is nice to others, that's a turn-on. Right now there are a few women I'm crushing on, and that's the only thing they have in common. Some are curvy, others skinny, big age differences and hair colors.
I do not have a ideal body type I am attracted to well . That is why personality is quite important. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:51 am

    Quoting  :

I agree inner beauty is way more important than outer beauty. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:52 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex.

    Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..
Thank you sweet friend. I understand people have personal preferences but no need to be so rude about it. Perfection does not exist. I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:55 am

    Quoting coolpoolguy3:
    I'm going to have to go with confidence and personality are far more attractive to me than looks. Don't get me wrong I like looking at good looking women but it doesn't hold my attention as long as confidence and personality.
I agree. Ofcourse we will first be attracted to someone because of their looks. However with no personality it gets boring so to speak..lol.
I appreciate you participating. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 10:57 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello sweetheart!
    The size of your body has nothing to do with anything it's wants in your heart that makes a good person. I have never seen anything wrong with your body I like it very much your very ! Never let anyone take that away from you sweetie. I know there are other ladies on here that will do anything to knock you down they are jealous or just assholes!
    You one of the best don't let anyone take that away from you.
    Butch
Thank you Butch


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:31 pm

    Quoting seems6666:
    I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything.
    I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape.
    Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule"
    With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without
I think you right about older men. It seems the younger are more obsessed with physical appearance. Truth be told I do not think a man would go without if the Skinny girls did not exist...lol.. thank you for your input. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/21/2020 3:32 pm

Thank you so much.


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