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miysha123 59F
439 posts
4/29/2015 7:48 pm

I have no idea why a man would cheat on his wife or significant other and stay locked tight to that person. Maybe because he can't live without her but he is not being fulfilled. Maybe because it's cheaper to keep her. Maybe because they have children together.

Speaking only for myself, if ever I wanted to sleep with another man it was because, for some reason, I no longer wanted my husband/significant other and decided I would not stay with him any longer.

Regarding your question I think you know the answer. Why else ask the question. Let her know and if she steps out on you keep your mouth clamped shut because you would have gotten what you deserve.


kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
4/30/2015 11:12 am

As the "other woman" for a 3 year period, I fell in love with my married man. He told me when we met that he is in a very unhappy situation and that it "is what it is." I told him that I would take him any way I could get him. Our connection was so strong and so deep that I just KNEW he would leave her and be with me because we loved each other. Boy was I wrong! She has NO knowledge of what he was doing and I began to feel sorry for her. After spending 3 Thanksgivings and Christmases alone it finally hit me....He is never going to leave her and I am continuing to waste my time and crying on holidays so I stopped seeing him. I miss him so much but it has to be this way - I know for me, I wouldn't want my husband with other women when he is married to me and I am his faithful wife. So in answer to your original question here... NO! it is never okay for a husband to cheat.

{=} {=} KCClaire


granmak41 62M/63F  
5 posts
5/1/2015 4:43 am

I agree only if she can do as he is ( post 3625277)

granmak41


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
5/1/2015 4:18 pm

I'd bet the wife wouldn't think so.

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fun4usin313 47M/47F  
15 posts
5/3/2015 12:15 am

Absolutely not- you took a vow, you need to honor it. If he really wants the company of other women, he should bring it up with his wife- she may be into it. I know I am. I find it extremely hot to both watch & hear about my husband with other women, & encourage it. No secrets, though- that would be cheating.


gottaring 51F
15850 posts
5/3/2015 4:10 am

If a woman cares for her family (whether she contributes to the household income or not), keeps the home tidy, feeds them and ensures their general happiness, it is permissible for her to take a lover without her husband's knowledge?

Didn't think so.

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


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