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The Power Of Letting Go  

Bernie4E71Again 54M
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6/30/2015 1:54 am
The Power Of Letting Go

I recently had the best first date of my life. It happened, in part, due to letting go. You see, I am an overthinker & an overplanner. It actually helps me in my job, but not as much in the rest of life. It gets in the way of enjoyment.

For this first date, I left my overthinking & overplanning in the car. Instead, I went with the flow and lived in the moment. Yes, it did lead to sex on the first date which is not my style, but maybe my style needs to be improved with some letting go.

I do have to say that she & I had been communicating for 2 1/2 weeks before the first date and there was a very strong connection going into the date. That connection just continued as soon as we met. We also had a health & safety talk ahead of time. So, yes, we knew there was a chance for sex.

This woman is actually like me with the overthinking. She is also like me in many other ways, which just strengthens the bond between us. One of the big things is that she enjoys my humor; finding that is like finding gold.

And I have found gold; this one is amazing. And to think I almost gave up when trying to communicate with her earlier. Something kept me trying. Did I sense something? Or was it the universe just wanted us together?

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