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Missing One of my Friends!!!  

nicelipss66 48F
51454 posts
11/3/2016 12:07 pm
Missing One of my Friends!!!


I have a good team of friends. a few weeks ago I was missing my friend Jay. I was sending emails, calling and text messages and nothing from him. eventually after almost 3 weeks. I got a call from him last Tuesday. he had been in Europe. cause of his job, couldn't tell me more. he said they were not allow to bring any personal cell phones or computers. and they were not giving much notice. everything was work. anyhow. I was so happy and relief to hear from him. That same day (Tuesday) He stop by to see me. told him how worry I was. I was even asking the other guys if they had heard from him. had 2 of my others friends (one of them a cop) looking for him, I was just worry cause I know he is a good friend. for him to not answer to me is cause something is happening. good or bad.

Anyhow, Jay is good and he is back with the gang. we are happy about that. But now my friend Kyle is missing in action Lol. I have been texting, calling and sending emails and nothing. have not heard from him in over 10 days. that is strange cause Kyle always answers. I asked the guys if they have heard from him. and nothing either. they said not to worry. that Kyle is a tough Marine. He is probably traveling or busy do to work (Military). but I can't stop worrying about him. We have a tight little group. usually I know where they all are or what is going on with them. when I don't hear from one them in days. I worry. cause we usually communicate daily. and see each other every week.

I know that in the past. when I have need them, they have been there for me a bunch of times. not matter what time it was. one time it was close to 4am. Matt show up to find me where I was and brought me home. ( I didn't even knew where I was. Long story). I know I need it help. I didn't feel safe where I was. need it to get out of there immediately. but I didn't drive and didn't knew exactly where I was. called him and gave him some landmarks. 20 minutes later he was calling my phone saying, I think I am outside that house. step to the door. and sure enough. there he was. God oh God, was I happy to see him. Got in to his patrol car and drove me home. His only question was, Are you Ok?. I said yes. Next day when I was sober up I ask him. where was I and how did you find me. he said. don't worry about it. I'm a Cop. I have my resources, but don't do it again. don't you ever get in a car or go along with people that you don't know.

I know this may sound a little crazy. We have a little pact to look after each other not matter what. we promised to look out for each other. and if someone is in need of help we all will come together to help. is like a little extra insurance for all of us. And of course, The one common thing or link between all of them. Is Me Lol. they know they all have me but nobody ask questions and nobody get jealous. Mark, Kyle, Jay. Jason. James, Matt, Brandon, Cody, Shawn and Me. we are our own small community but very caring for each other. wherever you see me. more than likely one, two or more of them is there with me Lol

Friends are like the family that we choose to have. If you have friends. you feel fulfill. Friends always make your problems easier to fix. cause they all take a part of it to make it smaller for you. Friends make you laugh not cry. not matter where you are. you can always make a friend. don't ever close yourself to that. True friends or friendships are beautiful. they will make your life richer. Be always available to be part of someone else world. cause you don't know what you can be missing by not doing it. Just make sure to be a true friend. otherwise. you will be wasting your time and theirs.

Have you ever been worry cause you haven't heard from one of your friends in days? and what was the outcome?




nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
11/3/2016 12:10 pm

Cheers to Friendship

I know is a long post...But need to talk about friendship.

Now to keep looking/tracking my friend Kyle down


Endlesspassion79 49M
152 posts
11/3/2016 12:16 pm

I agree, friends are very important to me and I will always help a friend in need! It's nice knowing that you have friends that will also help when you are in need! I don't have a whole lot of friends, but the ones I do have are awesome!


nicelipss66 48F
24236 posts
11/3/2016 12:20 pm

    Quoting Endlesspassion79:
    I agree, friends are very important to me and I will always help a friend in need! It's nice knowing that you have friends that will also help when you are in need! I don't have a whole lot of friends, but the ones I do have are awesome!
Great, and that is fine, cause what counts if the quality of your friends, not the quantity. better have one friend that will stick with you thru mud, than 20 that will run away cause they don't wanna get dirty.


tedbear472 76M
807 posts
11/3/2016 12:25 pm

It is great that you look after your friends. You have to be a very special lady.


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
11/3/2016 12:48 pm

Yeah, twice
In both cases someone - not the person I was trying to call, but someone else also close - died

P


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/3/2016 6:45 pm

Yes, I'worried after not hearing from a friend. Often it's nothing but in at least one case the truth was that friend just did't need anything from me. As soon as he actually neede something he'd have been sure to call. He and I aren't friends anymore.

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rm_raging_hard1 53M
200 posts
11/3/2016 7:32 pm

"A friend in need is a friend indeed." No truer words ever spoke.


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