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Voyeurs and Long Distance Play
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Voyeurs and Long Distance Play If You have read my profile and decided that it is just a bit too complicated to arrange a meeting to play with me, or if You live in another state or country and really want to see Your fantasy for using me fulfilled, don't give up just yet. You could still be a voyeur. For those out of state, You can skip down to Long Distance Play. Many submissives or even Dom/Dommes can be shy about approaching to do a scene. Maybe you are in an important position and You don't want others to know You are into kink. Perhaps You are just into being a voyeur. Whatever the case, if Your attracted to me, i'd be very happy about performing for an audience. Unfortunately, I have trouble finding someone to host. If You know someone who might be interested in using me before an audience, pass my info along and see where it goes. Since it is so risky for me to hold an event, I am all into making it as big and kinky as possible. Therefore, as it would be very rare... I plan to make it as elaborate as the host is willing. While I am bi-sexual / panssexual, that doesn't mean i'll play with just anyone. Very often, someone will write to me and indicate they want to play with me, but either my instinct will tell me they won't be equipped to handle someone in a wheelchair or they live too far away for a preliminary meeting. In such a case, I will sometimes suggest that the person might be better off to watch someone else play with me. Because of my vulnerability outside my wheelchair... I actually prefer an audience. So, if a Dom or Domme was willing, I am more than happy to let others watch. Sometimes, i'm simply not physically attracted to their profile photo or someone approaches me online and makes a bad impression. Attending an event as a voyeur is a good way to have a second chance at a shot at using me. I thought i'd use this blog to write some rules for what I would expect of a voyeur. First off, I would want any voyeur to be more involved than simply sitting in a chair at a hotel watching as someone fucks me. I'd hope that You would be willing to help plan the event and maybe even help me get dressed, make-up on, or be cleaned up after. If You just want to watch, that is fine, but as long as Your there, why not share some of Your fantasies too? Join my group at https://fetlife.com/groups/125909 and help plan and volunteer for setting up an event. While I may have some physical preferences for the host... anyone over 18 can be a voyeur regardless of age, sex, sexuality, etc. If you appear to be under 18, someone may ask you to show identification. My only requirement is that a Voyeur be respectful, courteous, and obey the host wishes. Voyeurs must also be drug free at the time of the event, not have drugs or weapons on their person, and be sober. I am open to being photographed and or video taped, but You must follow the rules of the host. If the host does not want pictures or videos taken or taken only at specific times, you must follow their directions. I don't mind my pictures or videos shared on adult websites, but I prefer they not be posted to vanilla sites like Facebook. You MUST share all photos taken with me, and may not post any pictures I reject. You may not sell photos for profit without my permission. I retain the rights for all pictures You take of me and may sell them at will. If there are other voyeurs present, You may only include them in pictures with their permission. If someone notices their picture taken without their permission, I may ask you to delete the picture or give me your SD chip. It may be handy to bring a self addressed envelope and mark your SD /camera card in case your chip is taken so it can be mailed back to you after it is reviewed. Since I do allow my host and guest to take pictures of me during a scene, i'd suggest that any voyeur in attendance who does not want to be seen wear a disguise. I find that for a bdsm scene, the environment is important to setting the mood... so if You do decide to wear a disguise, make sure it is something classy and not a Halloween mask. Something like a martigraw mask or a costume like You might see in the movie “Eyes Wide Shut”. Because any event is likely to be held in a hotel room, voyeurs are expected to dress vanilla when approaching the scene location, but may change into fetish attire when in private. If You want Your identity hidden (perhaps Your worried someone might know You), my suggestion is to wear a robe like http://LesbianPersonals.com… and a mask like http://LesbianPersonals.com… or http://LesbianPersonals.com… Nudity, once on location is encouraged, but i'd ask that voyeurs who plan to be nude or masturbate while watching move to the far side of the room from the door location and mind their personal space for those who feel uncomfortable. Feel free to bring food and snacks as long as your willing to share. I encourage comments and conversations, particularly suggestions for the host, but voyeurs must be mindful of their surroundings. If located in a hotel, due to the nature of the play, volume must be kept low so as to not bring attention to the management. If You want to see the host use a specific toy on me or dress me in a specific costume, bring it along. Just keep in mind, you may not get it back. Anything that goes on or in me may not be returned. While during the scene, Voyeurs are not allowed to touch me unless the host request assistance. At the end of the event before I am dressed, if the host permits, attendants may touch or fondle me as long as there is no insertion and individuals who have masturbated have washed their hands. Pinching, slapping or other touch that incurs pain is not permitted by voyeurs. If a voyeur brings a recent medical notice stating they are STD free, additional play may be permitted for those individuals depending upon the scene and the host. LONG DISTANCE PLAY For individuals who live out of state, it is my desire to try to setup a live webcam for them to interact during a scene. It would also be cool for individuals in other states/ countries to be able to suggest acts or what is done. How this might work and planning would have to be coordinated through the group athttps://fetlife.com/groups/125909 |
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