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Blogs > AJCookie2015 > Ranty Bitch Blog

Ranty Bitch Blog #1 - How fucking hard is it ....  

AJCookie2015 55F
47 posts
8/20/2015 6:41 am
Ranty Bitch Blog #1 - How fucking hard is it ....
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RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
8/20/2015 7:48 am

 Well said... thanks for saying what a lot of us are thinking.
Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/20/2015 7:53 am:
You're welcome ... thank you for the support! Super hot pic, btw!

coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
8/20/2015 8:55 am

 You are seeking common courtesy and that is a commodity that is rare in today's world.
Be safe, relax and just have fun!


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/20/2015 9:08 am:
What a novel idea ... "common courtesy" ... wow ... mind blowing, huh? Thanks for perving!!!!!

tommcgavin 52M
Ask me for a photo
5 posts
8/20/2015 10:37 am

 I totally agree with everything you said. Seems common courtesy or tact is rare in today's society. Even if not interested it would be nice if the other person said thank you, but I don't think were a match etc. I am not the a fan of just signing of or just dissapearing and hoping they will get the hint. One of my best chat buddies is actually someone that didn't actually care for my picture and was tactful enough to let me know that but somehow we became good enough friends to vent to about other people that we may or may not be interested in.


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/20/2015 2:04 pm:
Hey at least you have one great chat buddy!!!! And I'm sure there are lots of 'good' ones out there ... it's just the bad/annoying ones that seem to stick in my mind till I 'rant' a little and get it out of my system. Happy Almost Friday!!!!

Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
8/20/2015 10:45 am

 Thank You.
I never received a 'thank you' or anything when sending my picture out.

What about kissing? There is A lot talking about the other stuff.
Cool,

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/20/2015 11:40 am:
Well ... THANK YOU for commenting ... and here is a kiss ... {=}

elmo30108 67M  
4 posts
8/20/2015 4:24 pm

 I read your blog. Yes I totally agree with what you said. We have been ignored and rudely disconnected just because some folks happen not to agree with our profile or our guidelines. I sure hope that you do not feel that I fit into anything that you mentioned. If by chance I do please let me know. I am grown and I can take the bad with the good. Have a thumping Thursday and a super freaking Friday.


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/20/2015 5:04 pm:
Thanks for reading and comment ... and absolutely NOT do you fall into my rant. You seem to be one of the 'good' ones!!!!

pureromnce 58M
324 posts
8/20/2015 7:31 pm

 You must be new around these parts

I couldn't agree with you more. You would think with the girl/guy ratio here, the guys would be willing to do anything, even, gasp, be kind or show some kind of manners or proper raisin', but it doesn't seem to be that way...

Hope you stick around and blog more...


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/21/2015 5:41 am:
LOL ... i almost used the phrase ... "act like you've had some raisin' ..." but i figure it was too 'southern' to translate well to a blog post. But happy to see great minds think alike!!! Thank you for commenting!

storm8732 67M

8/21/2015 5:56 am

 I agree with you completely....I always try to show respect and appreciation. Nobody likes to be ignored.


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/21/2015 8:10 am:
Very true! I'm not on here 24/7 and don't do LesbianPersonals on my phone ... so I don't always have a chance to respond to every message or IM I receive ... but I don't think I'm being hypocritical in posting this because I'm very specifically talking about when someone ASKS for something and the person sends it ... not talking about unsolicited pics or messages or IMs ... I know those can get overwhelming at times. Thanks for commenting! Happy Friday!

IPreferPassion 45M
Ask me for a photo
420 posts
8/23/2015 9:07 pm

 Yeah, totally! It's like when someone says "It can't hurt to meet and see what we think" and then completely ignores you when you ask when they're free!

Sure, we're all adults here (supposedly), and we can take a hint that sudden silence means someone's not interested, but if we're all adults, we shouldn't have to. It should be okay to say you're not interested instead of playing along until the moment of truth.

I don't know, maybe things are only rude when they're done to you and not when you're doing them to someone else. Manners should be a two-way street, but I bet women would be a lot nicer on this site if men didn't treat them like vending machines for free sex. I can't imagine what it's like to wade through a sea of shit constantly. It has to sap one's hope.

I find it fascinating that we're all on this site looking for something similar and yet it's so hard to find. The second you throw in a common goal of sex--one time only, repeatability, FWB, whatever--it's easy to forget there's a person on the other side of the screen, and poof! manners disappear!


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/24/2015 9:16 am:
If your comments are directed specifically at me and not about LesbianPersonals users in general ... I messaged with you. I chatted with you. I told you " I mean i wouldn't mind meeting and seeing how things went ... but I know it's quite a long drive for you ... and I know that I'd really like to find a truly local FWB just to make things simpler ... and not have to worry about long drives or getting a room and stuff like that."

I'm not on LesbianPersonals 24/7. I don't LesbianPersonals on my phone. I message here via the regular message system or IM as I have time. If you had suggested an evening you would have liked to have made the drive over and met for drinks or dinner we could have.

FWIW ... my 'rant' here in this blog had to do with people asking for and receiving PICTURES ... it had nothing to do with setting up dates.

Thank you for reading and commenting. Good Luck on the site and be safe.

IPreferPassion 45M
Ask me for a photo
420 posts
8/24/2015 3:11 pm

 Yeah, they were directed at you, but in a playful way. I know you're busy and not on LesbianPersonals 24/7, which was why I asked "When are you free?" I thought that was both direct and respectful, but live and learn, I guess.

To be fair, I did make an effort to talk to you more in the hopes of setting something up and did get ignored. I understood the context of your rant, and agree entirely with it, but thought it was interesting that manners should extend beyond requests, and yet because of the experiences people have on here, they usually don't.

Don't worry, though. I'm not taking anything personally, and certainly not stalking you--this was just a post that came up on my feed and piqued my interest. Thanks for replying! I'll try to apply what I've learned!


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/25/2015 5:57 am:
No worries. If you'd like to go back to the non-blog private LesbianPersonals message system and continue our discussion about meetingin person there we can ... if not we can let it drop.

rm_riky_02 46M
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11308 posts
9/20/2015 6:23 am

 todo puede ser...........


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