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Ranty Bitch Blog #3 - Yes, I see ... you have a DICK ...  

AJCookie2015 55F
47 posts
8/24/2015 11:04 am
Ranty Bitch Blog #3 - Yes, I see ... you have a DICK ...

Yeah yeah ... I know ... this is a SEX site ... it's a HOOK UP site ... you want naked boobies and cunts and dicks ... and stroking and fucking and sucking ... But being a Ranty Bitch that blogs about the mundane, unsexy side of things .. I just have to say ...

DUDE!!!!! It doesn't take 13 repetitive dick pics to show someone that you have a dick. We get it ... we see ... it's nice ...you're proud of it. Check, check and check.

But does it really take an entire page of basically exactly the same thing to get that point across? At least change up SOMETHING ... clothing, position, how you are holding it, what you are doing in the pic ...

I mean sure I have several BOOB pics ... but it's not 13 pics that look like exactly the same pic posted over and over and over. And I do try to post a little bit of something else from time to time ... and share much more privately that I don't post publicly. Honestly i feel like they are a bit repetitive, (sorry ) but guys ask 'what are you wearing today' or 'show me your boobs right now' so I make pics ... and post some of them. But I have no issue with someone NOT being into repetitive boob pics either.

One guy responded to my saying that I didn't need to see anymore pics of his dick by telling me all about the trials and tribulations of internet security and safety and not wanting his FACE on LesbianPersonals ...and I get it ... you don't want to post a face pic ... but how about ...

* chest
* shoulders
* arms
* lips, mouth, chin
* hands
* legs
* nice ass
* naked ass
* ass in tight jeans
* ass in nice khakis
* ass in boxers
* ass in briefs
* ass being grabbed
* your package in a pair of tight undies
* your package in jeans
* your package making a tent in your dress pants at work

When you do want to show off your amazing dick ... how about a little variety ...

* dick peeking out of your undies
* dick soaped up in the shower
* dick being shaved
* hand lazily stroking a slightly aroused dick
* hand gripping a raging hard on tight at the base
* hand wrapped around a dick covered in cum
* dick standing up from a reclined body
* dick lifted to show the balls
* dick pressed to your inner thigh by your big strong hand

Sooooooooo many wonderful possibilities ... and a million more i didn't mention ... WHY settle for just close up repetitive nothing but a dis-embodied dick pic???

And ... NOPE ... you don't OWE anyone anything. No one HAS to look at your pics. But ... if you happen to want to stand out from the flock of flying dick pics ... and impress & attract the most 'likes' comments and repeat viewers ... I'd say it's probably worthwhile to try to change it up a little. Stand out in the crowd ... and be more than an anonymous dick.


bfjinthesouth 70M
175 posts
8/24/2015 11:12 am

I like your suggestions. A lot more variety is a good thing.


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/24/2015 12:57 pm:
Look forward to seeing what you come up with

AJCookie2015 replies on 9/18/2015 5:04 am:
Hey!!! You added some pics didn't you??? Nice!!!!

RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
8/24/2015 12:05 pm

Some good picture ideas in there... thanks I think I will use one or two. By the way... I don't have any dick pictures, I would think they all look pretty much alike after a while.

Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/24/2015 12:56 pm:
Yep ... always nice to see hot pics ... with some variety! Thanks for 'getting it' ...

IPreferPassion 45M
420 posts
8/24/2015 3:24 pm

I generally don't send dick pics unless I'm asked to. I figure the women on here have seen one before, and they'll let you know if they want to see another!

I'm convinced this is a gender thing. Men want to feel virile and strong, and we want to women tease us with objects of lust--therefore, we assume women want the same thing. This is my cock, imagine it stretching you!

But... women don't quite work the same way. Things like variety and mental stimulation also matter. It's easy to think this is a sex site and your dick is all that matters, but just as it's a mistake to think of someone as nothing more than their boobs, it's a mistake to want them to think of you as nothing more than your dick. That's not really offering anyone anything unique.

And yet, I'm still a guy, and I have a dick pic up. I can't help it! I thought it was clever and playful...


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/25/2015 5:44 am:
Very creative! And again ... I don't have a problem with a guy having a dick pick ... or even a few ... but my 'rant' (and I hope folks read it with a bit of 'snarky' humor in mind) is more about when i open someone's profile page and LITERALLY there are 12+ pics that look like they could be exact duplicates of the same dick pic ... same angle, same position, same hand placement, etc. A couple (or even lots) of different dick pics mixed in with the others are no where near as repetitive as that kind of thing.

Thank you for reading and commenting.

elmo30108 67M  
4 posts
8/24/2015 5:35 pm

I agree with you about the dick pics. I am not one to post dick pics. I will send the ONE I have if you request it. To be honest I do not have many pics of me period. If the one or two I have posted spark any conversation then I will try to do better. After who would look at our profile if the pics were of me. Just saying.


AJCookie2015 replies on 8/25/2015 5:54 am:
You never know Everyone likes something different... I may be the 'odd duck' on this one. Thanks for reading and commenting!

AJCookie2015 55F
74 posts
8/27/2015 6:10 am

Another unfortunate issue with all the random anonymous dis-embodies dick pics being used as the main profile picture (avatar) ... .unless I've really gotten to know someone, and had meaningful conversation .... all the messages start to run together in my feed and I don't always remember which dick belongs to which dick ... and I end up repeating myself ... which some of the dicks have found to be offensive.


rm_riky_02 46M
11308 posts
9/20/2015 6:22 am

bueno................


AJCookie2015 replies on 9/21/2015 5:32 am:
Thanks for reading and commenting!

rm_tombhouston 48M
1 post
9/20/2015 12:42 pm

While you are not an offender of this, I find ladies on here to be similarly guilty with vagina pics. They've got a ton of them and no other body part pics. So, I feel your pain.


AJCookie2015 replies on 9/21/2015 5:32 am:
Interesting ... I haven't really checked out all that many female profiles and galleries, but yes ... the same idea would apply to any and all disembodied genital close-ups ... un-necessary and un-interesting in my personal opinion. Though it does seem to me that in general, guys are more into seeing them than most girls that I know ... but I'm sure even that varies from person to person.

bfjinthesouth 70M
175 posts
9/23/2015 6:20 am

Glad you liked my pics. I will be adding a few more soon. Would love your comments on them.


AJCookie2015 replies on 9/23/2015 7:41 am:
I look forward to seeing them ... and commenting!

AJCookie2015 55F
74 posts
9/24/2015 5:30 am

    Quoting  :

Okay, since you were nice enough to comment ... we'll jump right to a 'what all the boys ask to see' pic ... and YES it really is!

Now ... your turn!!!


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