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Why do Black men On This Site...  

xxwhipzxx F
38 posts
10/27/2015 1:10 am
Why do Black men On This Site...


Why do black men on this site get so disrespectful when rejected? i mean prefrence is prefrence and i feel as though we should have all learned to how to take rejection at this point in our lives its apart of life.. i notice that out of every race of this site and i hate even have to make it a racial thing but. Black men have cussed me out if i show no intrest and even spammed my inbox wrote disrespectful comments on my photos and my videos. and i ask myself do you really think thats going to make me change my mind? or go hmmm he might have been a nice guy maybe i should give him a chance.

xxwhipzxx *Y*


LoveEatingKitty 59M  
12 posts
11/2/2015 1:36 pm

I think it is such a shame that ANYONE would insult someone for what they choose to want. After all She who has the pussy makes the rules correct?
Bob{=}


Vavavoom_23452 49F
896 posts
10/29/2015 12:28 pm

In my profile, I clearly state my preferences. Men listed as those I am not interested in meeting still contact me daily. Which is why, amongst other reasons, I also state in advance that I'd rather initiate contact and to *only* be contacted if someone fits exactly what I'm looking for. People that don't fit my preferences STILL contact me daily lol. But, I simply don't answer, and don't even read messages 9 times out of 10. Too bad if people don't read my profile and think I'm being rude, because I know I am not.

I am not into every ethnicity sexually and won't even begin to justify anything because anyone who thinks sexual preference has anything to do with racism is too dumb or insecure to even matter.

If you don't want to be with a Black man sexually *at all* that's your right but then make sure to complete your profile to reflect that. But, if you do like some Black men and were just making a remark about rejecting some of them, please disregard this advise.

Lastly, but very important: been here about a year, contacted by hundreds of Black men, I don't reply (for reason explained above) and have NEVER gotten a disrespectful message from a Black dude. Maybe insisting, repetitive messages, but not a single insulting word. maybe I'm lucky, or maybe clearly stating it in profile makes it easier on everyone?


yourassisnot2fat 47M
118 posts
10/28/2015 12:06 am

Depends on the man, but I think a person will receive more backlash for appearing to reject their same or perceived to be same race even if, that's not the case.


The ass ambassador


Ringlos 57M
456 posts
10/27/2015 3:45 pm

All right I can hardly offer more than a bit of parlor psychology but who knows I might stumble of a tid bit of truth. If I am accused of not being good at something I am convinced of excelling in, I get iritated...

It may be a backlash of the myth of the sexual prowess of black men. Especially on a sex site many may be reduced to the myth alone (and a few do this to themselves) and when you reject them this may lead to nothing being left.


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