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Transaction or SEX There are beautiful women who do Porn, who escort, etc., I don't judge but I'm not a professional anything so I'm confused. I know this is controversial but here goes... I've had messages left on my page or even made to me on chat about hookers or that I should get a job. I have not asked anyone for anything and am upfront about my job situation. I'm broke, never played this down. As a MAN you don't want to pay for sex or break the law - I get it. As a WOMAN, I don't want to be taken advantage of or break the law - get that. What am I to do? I don't have a job but do want sex. I don't want to have random men picking me up but can't afford to pay for gas, tolls or whatever to meet men either. I want sex! Where is the line? If I mention that I don't have gas or whatever, I upset the person. If I attempt to meet someone and can't make it safely back home, was it worth it? My sense of independence and pride (still a little left), won't allow me to ask for anything so I end up not getting anything. NO, I don't feel safe meeting someone for the first time at a residence. NO, I'm not hooking up in a car! But I don't understand why it is okay to pay for access to this site but invest nothing when you find someone you like, especially if its ongoing/mutual? It's like catch and release fishing - is there a point? I have a lot to learn! |
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Actually it should be easy. First meet should be a place in public. As you do not have gas money it should be in your area. It is not too much to ask to pay the bill in a nice cafe. When you get more serious, you can meet your place or his or if he prefers a Hotel, he can pay for it. Nothing wrong about that. It is not as if you are asking for on overseas flight and a five star vacation. 
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 i say, wait it out and find what you want , time is on your side, what are you rushing for ? i understand you want sex and your financial situation isn't the best, but think about it you can't have both..
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Thank you, I was just being honest. Those lines are not CODE - they are literal. I removed the unemployed part but the other lines were not alluding to anything but trying to let men know that I'm not here to be an experiment, first black woman, or conquest for anyone. Here's the issue with your logic here. Language is imprecise. For example, let's say three boy nod their heads. One might be saying hello, another might be silently telling a pretty girl he thinks she's attractive, and a third might be signaling to a co-conspirator. Just because *you* say something is not code doesn't mean that it is not code to the rest of the world. That means that what you are trying to say might be misinterpreted. Ultimately, you'll decide what you words you want to use to explain who you are and what you want. However, now you know that some of your choices might be interpreted differently than you intend.
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As a MAN you don't want to pay for sex or break the law - I get it. As a WOMAN, I don't want to be taken advantage of or break the law - get that. Unintentionally, you sprinkled allusions to hooking all throughout your profile. I'll do some translation for you.... I'm not here to give free samples (But if you pay me.....) I need a generous lover (Generous is pretty much always code for "willing to pay me money for sex) I'm currently unemployed so my schedule is a little flexible. (Referring to being unemployed is a very common tactic used by "professionals" to indicate that they are in the business. The woman's story becomes, "I don't normally do this sort of thing but I lost my job and need money for rent...) I'm willing to travel a few times a month ( If you're unemployed how can you travel? The man is expected to pay for your travel, lodging, and time) into giving as much as receiving (willing to give money and receive sex). Generally, it's best never to mention anything about your financial situation.
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It has to be almost a 50/50 trade off, if you meet someone on here you feel you may want to meet in public first. Do so close to your home where you won't be out alot of money you don't have and if the meeting goes well him knowing your situation hopefully has no issue footing the bill when you go get a room and picking you up and bringing you back home. Nothing to be ashamed of honey.
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Well said 
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