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Blogs > bipolybabe69 > "..yes I said yes I will Yes."

"Do you date married guys?"  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
1/29/2016 3:27 pm
"Do you date married guys?"

The answer is "yes" and "no."

I don't judge how others enjoy their bodies. I think sex is important enough that if you're not getting it at home or not getting what you desire (maybe you want her to initiate or dominate and she doesn't), I think you have the right to go find what you need.

Honestly, I'd suggest you have the difficult conversation with her first and say, "Honey, I love you. I love sex with you*. I want our sex to be great. Are you willing to work with me to make it great?"

* As long as that's true and you do actually enjoy sex with her.

But, if she's not willing to work with you on your sex life with her, I suggest you talk to her about having an open relationship. I am an advocate for polyamory aka "poly."

Wikipedia says: "Polyamory (from Greek πολύ poly, "many, several", and Latin amor, "love") is the practice of, or desire for, intimate relationships involving more than two people, with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved."

That means...because I'm poly, you need her permission to date me. I need to know that she's okay with it. You need to figure out how to demonstrate that.

It's not just ethical. I've found it's practical. It does not serve me to date men who are unavailable. Even if you are recently divorced, chances are your heart is just not available. And that will break mine.

805_MAGNUM 51M  
23 posts
1/29/2016 5:08 pm

 Welcome Back! So good to see your blog again, love it!


bipolybabe69 replies on 1/31/2016 8:57 am:
Thanks, Magnum! So happy that you're not emotionally attached to that handlebar mustache.

love2pleasu13 56M
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6472 posts
1/29/2016 5:16 pm

 I would date a married woman.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/29/2016 5:19 pm

 Yes I am a swinger...Bring it all on!!!


I_BRANDY 75M

1/30/2016 12:30 pm

 yeah, I'm with ghost, what if she doesn't agree at all? The marriage is over?


bipolybabe69 replies on 1/31/2016 8:59 am:
As I wrote to Ghost, in my opinion, if you want to stay married, you can get a divorce or hire a hooker. Going with a professional is less likely to blow up your marriage than having an affair.

292penumbra 75M
20 posts
3/7/2016 1:58 pm

 There is a great deal of wisdom to this post. Well done.


bipolybabe69 replies on 3/7/2016 3:04 pm:
Thank you!

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