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More Than One: How to Get the Action Going  

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2/22/2016 10:21 pm
More Than One: How to Get the Action Going

​ Porn fuels pretty much every straight guy's fantasy: The Pizza Delivery Guy walks in on two beauties who are happily going way down South in Dixie, and all they were missing was his deep dish, err, deep drilling.

Anyway, one potential suitor wrote asking: 1) how I got started with women and 2) how​ he could get the action rolling when it's more than one-on-one.

Short answers: 1) I was mad at men at the end of my marriage (15 years ago) but I still wanted sex. A one-on-one relationship with a woman offered me both safety (as women are a safe harbor for me) and an opportunity to be adventurous (because I'd never had an experience with a woman before). Last year, I learned from a pretty girl at Sin City 5 in Las Vegas: "If you see a pretty girl and you want to kiss her, go ahead and ask because, otherwise, you might not see her again." I asked, kissed her and then ended up in a shower with half a dozen women and a few lucky guys, including the Partner in Crime who was just not that into me.​ (Read previous posts where I rant and work on getting this OUT OF MY SYSTEM.)​

2) Find a woman, like me, who is interested in women and let her lead. Which means you need to give ME what I desire which is your attention. My female friends and I say, "Bitches be tricky." Women, who value themselves for their relationships rather than other criteria of life success, tend to be competitive with one another. If you're the man wanting more than one woman, you need to be sure to make your ​ partner the center of the experience. While also making sure to include the third person so she doesn't feel like a 5th wheel. This is why "Bitches Be Tricky."

However, I have discovered that in the absence of a man whose attention I'd like to claim, I enjoy the geometry of 3somes with another bi woman. There's something fun for everyone. Especially if ​the couple is QUITE INTO ME!!!

2a) Water. Put all the bodies in a hot tub, and they tend to move and groove together more organically. Otherwise, it ma​y​ take too much conversation or alcohol to get the action going. (​Too much talk or alcohol puts a damper on sexy fun.)

So, while there's a lot more I've learned about group sexual situations over the past few years, these are just a few tidbits to keep you tuned in. Til the next time...

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Angie aka BiPolyBabe69

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