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What do you call it? You know that f*@king thing?
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What do you call it? You know that f*@king thing? Here's something that gives me pause when I'm talking to a new suitor on this site or any of the various online dating options. Tangent: When I say "talking," I actually mean talking in person as we walk along the beach. Or some times talking by phone. When my 21-year-old says he's "talking" with a girl, it almost always means he's texting. I hate idle texting. I disdain those "Hi there" or "Good night" messages. However, I love sexting which, for me, means trading naughty jokes rather than nude photos. Back on topic: As a Sex Coach, I talk a lot about sex. In fact, it's my favorite topic. With , I may use clinical terms like penis, vagina, intercourse or oral sex. In my personal life, I'm pretty forthright about my interest in pussy, cock, fucking and sucking. And I relish the sound of the "f" word in its proper context. So, it stops me in my tracks if someone talks about "making love," especially if we're talking for the first time as we walk on the beach. For me, making love is something that happens with intimacy over time. It's not just a style thing. Some people can talk about fucking and sucking (as I do) and they can actually be quite slow and sensual in their approach (as I can be). I can also be a raunchy, rowdy cowgirl who likes to ride hard. "Making love" implies to me that a heart connection is present in the experience. How could that happen on the trial run? NOTE: I already wrote in When is the right time to have sex for the first time about how I prefer to fuck early on. Then, I may become infatuated if the sex is good to great and frequent. I don't talk about making love until I'm actually practicing Tantric sex with a partner to whom I'm prepared to open my heart and lay down my defenses. And he or she is willing to do the same. Oh, and I prefer "get naked," rather than "play" when it's a group gathering. What about you? What words do you choose for this sex thing? {=} {=} {=} BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie  |
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Calling it "having sex" has always worked for me lol...although I do use the term oral to differentiate. I agree on the making love thing, someone on here says that to me and I'm likely to run in the opposite direction.  ~Snow~
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Is it something about the word that's displeasing?It's just a universal saying.I'm not going to let it ruin my day. I suppose if you take everything in the literal sense there is nothing wrong with it. Using more than all the road!
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When I first met my ex-husband, he would call it "making love" and I would call it "happy screwing". Is it any wonder that we are now divorced? Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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I agree about the (mis)use of the term making love. That implies a level of intimacy, emotional commitment, and vulnerability that develops over time *if* it's properly nurtured. It certainly doesn't involve sport fucking.
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Any phrase may suffice -- all depends who you're with and the degree of growing up comfortably with sex -- age, economics, experience...
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Sex... that's what I use more often than not. But whatever word one chooses, it is what it is. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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