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Nothing Succeeds like Sexcess!
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Nothing Succeeds like Sexcess! I flatter myself that I'm kind of picky about my sex partners, most of whom learn rather quickly that I'm certainly picky, well, discriminating in how my body is touched. It's a tricky thing to be a picky slut. (In my vernacular, being a slut --someone who likes sex a lot and likes a lot of sex-- is an entirely good, no, great thing. I am determined, with my slutty gal pals, to re-brand the word as a virtue.) Last night I had one date rather early in the evening with my new Bi-BFF and her hunky Boy Toy (he is a sexy, smart hunk and he's all of two years younger than she, so "BT" he shall be). I was the gracious/grateful recipient of their practice on how to, maybe, open up a new female partner to the girl-girl experience, something on the agenda, if all goes well, for next week. I explained to them that lots of women may be interested in experimenting with women but feel handicapped, so to speak, by lack of sexperience and concern about how to get it on with the girl parts, even though they possess those same parts. In my first outing as a "Unicorn Virgin,"in a 3-some a dozen years ago, I was most comfortable being given direction about how to do something to one of the couple, rather than have all the attention focused on me...at least at first. So that's how I suggested they start with lots of slow, sensual touch, perhaps switching to allow each one of them to be the focus of the loving touch. And then kind of go with the flow. I'm sure they'll be great. They're sensitive, caring and sexy as hell! Oh, I nearly forgot...we made progress on my desire to have my BBFF fist me. I haven't been fisted since I was in my all girl, all the time (two-year monogamous lesbian) phase 15 years ago. My pussy has forgotten how to relax into the intensity...but it's coming back to me. BBFF got her darling tiny fist inside, and it felt good but I wasn't yet ready for her to start pounding yet. (Have I mentioned that I'm wired for intensity? I love intense sensation, as well as soft, soothing, slow, smooth. Which reminds me that I have another blog inside me ready to bubble out. It has to do with a particularly rich, smooth experience. More on that in a later blog.) Anyway, I had an exceptionally lovely time as they both lavished attention on me. With time, we've grown more comfortable with one another and it's now starting to feel more natural to have a threesome. 3somes are even relatively new to me as I've generally preferred to have sex one-on-one. In fact, I launched my campaign to figure out how to have 3somes be fun when I was turning myself into a pretzel to be able to enjoy swinging with The Unavailable Guy. I'd almost forgotten that was the impetus, yet another positive thing I gained from a painful year. I've found one other couple, passionplayers96, with whom I've had really fun 3somes where all parties feel integrated into the action. I've ALMOST decided that 3somes are much easier than the "couple dating" thing that's common to swinging. With 2 couples, it seems like someone has to always take one for the team because there's not usually the same level of attraction on the part of both partners. Unless both people like having sex with new people, just for the sake of having sex with new people. Which is not the case with me, hence why I consider myself picky. So, what a pair of characteristics to draw: picky and a horny slut! (Not as horny, say, as a teenage boy. My libido goes up and down but when it's up, it's way up. And when I have sex that's really fun, as I did over the weekend in Phoenix, I tend to want more of it.) So, last night I had a lot of fun with BBFF and BT. Then I got a text from a new potential suitor (a first date via Tinder) who'd managed to get himself free from entertaining his . (I'd suggested by text that he send them off to the non-alcoholic "gentleman's club" Spearmint Rhino and then come do a lap dance with me. But he couldn't ditch them early so his text arrived around 9 pm, shortly before my friends departed.) He and I arranged to meet at the Mexican restaurant near my studio. When I arrived, the bar was a madhouse, packed with people shouting to be heard over the din. Whoops! It's a problem, my never reading the news or focusing on the calendar. I'd forgotten it was Cinco de Mayo. Tall, Blond and Handsome (TBH) suggested we push through the bar and walk back into the restaurant. I was scandalized. I realized last weekend in Phoenix listening to one of my gal pals talk about jumping the chain barrier to explore the "Do Not Enter" part of the Spanish castle that I'm not much of a rule breaker. "You can't go in the restaurant if you're not sitting down to eat!" I thought. But, I mutely followed him as he took my hand and led me to the side of one of the back rooms where we pulled up against the wall, using some stacked extra chairs to hold our margaritas. TBH and I talked about food, my #2 passion. TBH's pushed him to enter a Top Chef-type cooking competition. Sadly, he took second place...and none of the $50,000 prize money. But, that indicates he can likely whip up dishes that will please my picky palate. Standing next to one another and talking into one another's ears in order to be heard felt oddly intimate in the crowded place. I was wearing boots with just enough heel to put my lips nearly level with his. I put my hands up around his neck and kissed him. His lips on my mouth were soft, not sloppy and just enough breathing to know that he didn't have foul breath but that I was really aware of that he'd eaten something flavorful for dinner. No matter! I suggested he finish off my margarita, too, and we go back to my place...where my massage table was already set up from my earlier play time. I've been experimenting with how to make that transition from "Nice to meet you, TBH," to "Would you like to take all my clothes off?" Anembarrassing admission: I suck at seduction. I'm way too straight forward. "I wanna fuck," I'm thinking. "You probably do, too, so how do we get it on in a way that feels natural?" Since I adore being touched, I've found that suggesting that someone give ME a massage serves well on two counts: 1) I get touch that I adore, and I always request some soothing of my eternally hunched and tight shoulders (victims of my use of a laptop to write!) 2) I get to find out if he's someone who likes to touch me and shows any potential for the kind of slow sensual build of desire I most enjoy. He did! Hurray! One other big, big, big victory. No, not that.  Stamina is what I meant in this case. But, in answer to that question, yes, it was. We had a safer sex talk and were good to go. I explained how I use Reality Female Condoms (buy online at amazon or undercovercondoms), which he'd never tried, with food-grade organic coconut oil as a lubricant. I rode him on the massage table, he bent me over it. I put my feet up in the stirrups that I can suspend from the ceiling so he could stand at the end of the massage table and pound my pussy long and hard, just the way I like it. As a break from hard, fast pounding, I asked him do 9 short strokes right at the introitus (entrance to the vagina) and then one deep one. Feels so great cuz the short strokes create a vacuum that will build desire to suck that dick back in. All the way back, yes, there, yes, yes, yes. You get the idea.I tried to avoid using the coconut oil bottle that smelled like sort of minty. My BBFF identified the scent as lemon verbena. I have no idea why my coconut oil bottle would smell like that but, inevitably, when all the other bottles disappeared, I ended up sucking lemon verbena dick. It's not an unpleasant scent, mind you, but it's a little too reminiscent of soap to be truly dick-like. Here's another sort of embarrassing admission: I think I suck at cock sucking. I'm enthusiastic. I adore the sensation of a cock in my mouth, but I'm handicapped by having a small mouth. See  The cocks that appeal to my pussy are not "the perfect suck-me size," as Liz Phair sings. You may be surprised to learn that, as a professional Sex Coach and Pro Domina, I don't believe in blowjobs. It sounds like work. Who wants sex to sound like work? In addition, since the men I prefer to fuck have stamina, it can make getting them off orally a chore. As a lazy slut, when I'm done, I try to make it sound sexy for the guy to yank it over my naked body. TBH wasn't buyin' that one. I told him I was game (to suck soap-scented dick) as long as it was fun for me. I love popping the head of the cock out one side of my mouth, popping it back in and then out the other side. I shifted positions a couple times to take the strain off my neck and pretty much just bobbed the knob or I'd have risked jamming his dick into my molars, but that got the job done. And it was a little bit like work but, well, some times it's okay to be generous and extend oneself a bit beyond one's comfort zone. So what's next with TBH? Honestly, I have no idea. I told him I like to get a text the next day acknowledging our time together and that I don't believe that means we're immediately "in a relationship." Maybe he could be an occasional Fuck Buddy. Maybe it will just be a one-off. At this point, I don't really care. Since I'm currently once bitten, twice shy, I'm determined not to have sex with anyone (unless he's crazy about me) more than once a month. I know that for me, frequent sexual intimacy leads to a yearning for emotional intimacy and not everyone is available for the second part. Good thing I have a flexible schedule that allows me to continue fishing for fun! I don't know how people who actually work full-time manage to get their sexual needs met. Apparently, there are a lot of people whose work computers are open on LesbianPersonals all day, too. And with that, I'm off to fish for more Sexcess. {=}{=}{=} BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie |
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Here's to all of your suck-sex-ess! Funny thing about small mouths...or I guess big cocks, my friend says the same thing (I would rather her say I'm too big  but that's for a different time)So I told her not to sick the whole thing in her mouth, it was rather a hilarious dialogue; Anyway with that said she now just sucks the head of my cock which is phenomenal and and hen she does alot of licking the shaft. OK, sorry for the digression (and the bragging -  )So I would say just suck his cock helmet and it may be the best BJ he's gotten...something different. Many cums and kisses
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That sounds like a wonderful encounter there bi girl. I've never been one for large crowds so yelling is required for communication. Unless you count the college years. *S* I do like your massage approach and he seems to have responded nicely. Of course every man enjoys having his cock sucked on. But, you don't have to bring them to orgasm, just use it as either foreplay or as a way to wind us back up during a little pussy break. Personally, having a partner suck my cock during sex, is such a turn on for me. That's just me though. BTW, you look like you know what you're doing with that cock in your mouth. I hope you have a sex- ssesful weekend. I do enjoy your lust for life. Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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My grandmother once advised me "Marry a girl with small hands, this way she will think you have a big dick" 
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