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Postcards from the Edge...of the Central Valley
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Postcards from the Edge...of the Central Valley Yesterday I drove in a van full of women through Yosemite. Snapshot: Half Dome and the rest of her crew are lookin' fine. Though the air was a little smokey. As I don't read news, I have no idea where the fire was. But smoke is not the point. The point is...I shared myself. I was vulnerable. I pulled back just enough to avoid freaking the shit out of them (I wore my bathing suit in the communal hot tub but slept naked) and (to paraphrase Sally Field)... THEY LIKED ME. THEY REALLY LIKED ME. Back story: It's challenging to "live an invitation to freedom." My goal is to help women and men express themselves (sexually and otherwise) without shame. In Bass Lake over this past weekend at the "Keeping the Love You Find" workshop, which is the imago therapy training for singles, I shared myself honestly with a group of women (35-62) who, like me, desire partnership. (Spoiler Alert: It's not about "finding the perfect partner." It's about BEING the partner you desire. Dammit! More work to do on me so I don't continue to be attracted to unavailable men.) I did NOT push my polyamory agenda down their throats. Instead, I told them up front that I'm a survivor of serial monogamy, bisexual, make my living as a Sex Coach and am inclined now toward polyamory. And that --even though I love sex-- I'm not easy. I'm a pretty picky pussy. Anyway, at the end of our workshop, the 35-year-old woman wearing the small gold cross on her throat stood up and said to me, "I'm so glad you were here. You made us think outside the box, inside the box and realize there are a lot more boxes than we ever imagined!" Bravo, Christian Chick! Thank you soooo much. Today I drove with a van-full of them through Yosemite. The darling blond from Indiana who will go in this week for breast reduction surgery (Please...NO!) said her two sisters are dying for her to bring back three tips from The Sex Coach. So, while driving through the park, snapping photos in front of various waterfalls and talking with people from a variety of countries, I shared three ideas: 1) Have a frank conversation about mildest and wildest fantasies and note what has to happen before, during, after and three days after to keep the woman from being upset about trying something different. (It may sound sexist but women have a higher need for safety around sexuality so deal with it!) The best way to make something new and exciting happen...be part of my upcoming teleconference to discuss that topic. 2) Each in the couple makes a list of special treats s/he would like to receive. The other partner will rate them on likelihood of being willing to provide that experience. Negotiate how to make it work for both...by being part of my teleconference to discuss that topic. 3) Pussy licking tips from my Tantra Teacher, including some thrown in about kissing from "Sex Secrets from a Lesbian for Straight Men." Demo your technique for your partner on a peach or mango. Have the woman demo what she likes by kissing the man while he passively receives. And...you guessed it...learn it all by joining my teleconference. I offered the beautiful blond (please-don't-whittle-your-38Ds), her sisters and all the other women in the workshop the opportunity to beta test with me the first round of my teleconference series: "Monogamish: Explore the Options...Safely!" Can't wait! BiPolyBabe69 P.S.--Let me know if you'd like to join in the beta test of this teleconference series. |
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That is some sound advise about licking pussy. I suppose the same can be said about sucking cock as well. But, testing and being open about learning the best technique to please your partner is so wonderfully open and needed to help both reach their highest sexual peeks during sex. That does sound like a great learning retreat. Bud Always Ready for Fun.
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