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Dickonomics  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
2/15/2016 1:45 pm
Dickonomics


You need to understand there are a few rules you are living under when contacting single females on this site, or any internet dating site, whether you realize it or not:

1) Be interesting and interested.
2) Be forthcoming.
3) Convince the interesting female that you are a worthwhile and reasonable risk.

The unfortunate reality is that society, generally speaking, views women as prey, overall, and women who own their sexuality as disposable--see Stoya, see many serial killers, see 1/4 of females who have been r****. Unless you can convince me you are a worthwhile and reasonable risk, you won't get past my inbox. The minute I think that you think your need to watch your back is more important than your need to make sure that you have my back is the minute I send you packing. I'm both fun and intelligent...and I will treat your intentions as suspect until you've given me reason to feel otherwise.

If you are outside my predetermined age range, I won';t reply.
If you are outside my predetermined area, I won't reply.
If you are particularly vague or boring, I may give you an opportunity to up your game. If you can't, I will no longer reply.

Remember: The reality in online dating is that it's a numbers game. On this site, those number vastly favor the women, as with most online dating sites. Remember, "Dick is abundant and low value" (Google it if you don't recognize the phrase and learn about internet Dickonomics). I've met plenty of people from online dating sites. If I choose not to meet you, it's because I haven't been given a reason to do so, not because I'm particularly cagey, a catfish, or not real. I need to be given a reason to meet you that outweighs my perception of the possible risks. If you want to know how to start, a very good starter is: First, don't be boring.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
2/15/2016 6:47 pm

good info 2 know


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/15/2016 10:42 pm

Low value, that's funny.

Using more than all the road!


Red_Elf replies on 3/1/2016 10:45 pm:
You know it's true. Internet dating sites are a sausage fest. Clever women know how to use that to find what they want.

ReBar100 57M
4167 posts
3/10/2016 7:54 pm

Good to know you are not a catfish. I'd hate to be attracted to a catfish.

Rebar100
Just the right amount of wrong. Occasional participant in various ongoing blogging projects. Rather be naked. The Blog: [REBAR100]


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
3/11/2016 11:55 am

Oh, I'm real alright...sometimes this turns into an actual problem for people. Lo, and behold, not a puppet, either...

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


DEEPERNU 66M
33 posts
3/27/2016 11:50 pm

I think what has happened is that the woman have no idea what the hell they want. See I'm out in this so called younger world EVERYDAY and the guys are not even sure of what to do. But that's cause the women ain't got no idea what to do. See guys in my day and even NOW I'm going to pay for the motel room for the entire weekend. Now one of my co-workers said that she was going to meet a guy, and that she's going to PAY for half the room for the weekend. I'm with younger guys everyday and I hear them tell the girls that they have to feed themselves. WHAT THE HELL are you doing.... I pay for the room, food, Victoria Secret, and rose..... But hey I don't want to go out a'la cart and my parents would kill me. Just drop all of your nowhere near correct rules and be a person. I don't think that you are in a position to tell me nothing if I got all and everything that we need. Oh yeah I almost forgot the woman in my day had a degree of softness and feminine quality and we didn't have to worry about if she was of BIG mouth and quick temper... You know a real woman... Something like what we can't find anymore...


Red_Elf replies on 3/28/2016 12:04 am:
So, basically you want a Stepford mistress? And I'm not a real woman. Good to know!

Jealousy is not a very attractive quality, male or female.

And now, folks, you know why I'm a super villain. What actual human wants to tangle with this confused tangled mess?

londonbridge1992 43M
356 posts
7/8/2016 10:12 pm

Thanks for the useful information, Red Elf.
I will put it to use.
Take care.


Fervent7 55M
457 posts
10/22/2016 4:04 pm

What, you mean the standard, "hey, sexy, wanna fuk?" won't instantly swarm the asker with multitudinous ready takers?

Gasp.


tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
5/18/2017 4:12 am

You are giving good and practical advice.
Ted


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
5/18/2017 8:46 am

    Quoting tedscott40:
    You are giving good and practical advice.
    Ted
Pragmatism is definitely underrated.

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Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


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