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Licking Pussy in a Profile--How do you feel when you see that?  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
3/6/2016 12:48 pm
Licking Pussy in a Profile--How do you feel when you see that?


I see so many profiles where the guys rave about how much they like giving oral. Personally, I don't enjoy seeing that in a profile. It doesn't do anything positive for me to see a guy write that. When I see it, it makes me think the guy, himself, is projecting what HE would like to see in a woman's profile.

That being said, I know I cannot speak for everyone.

If you are a guy, how do you think women feel when they read things like this? How do women respond to it?

If you are a woman, how do you feel when you see this in a profile? Does it make you more, or less, interested in going out with a guy?

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Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
3/6/2016 1:00 pm

I don't rave. I only present myself as who I'm. Well, I do talk about kissing but not as greatest in the world.
Besides, it is just cheap talk. One can rave and claim whatever. Just like women claims some things too.


Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


JPEORIA 54M
287 posts
3/6/2016 1:03 pm

I would rather lick than see someone pic of someone licking.....>>!


andifisayyes 62M
182 posts
3/6/2016 1:04 pm

I wouldn' t want to be with either one of them, but I like looking at the pics, lol.


Nightspectre 44M
8 posts
3/6/2016 1:04 pm

While I have it selected has part of my profile questions I don't have it written out in my profile. However to answer your question I have seen many profiles where women specify that the man must enjoy, or must give oral, or licking pussy. So my guess would be the men who do spell it out are trying to appeal to these women. Many times they may not even mean it but they will put it there to try and increase their chances. me personally i just try to be as honest has possible about my likes and dislikes, and about me. i figure if i need to know about things like oral and sex positions i can read it in the questionnaire if it's been filled out.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/6/2016 1:06 pm

How do women respond to it? Not all women or all men are the same.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


heartshapedcock2 40M

3/6/2016 1:10 pm

I think most women would rather have sex than get ate out. I could be wrong though.


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
3/6/2016 3:32 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    How do women respond to it? Not all women or all men are the same.
Right, but if a guy does this, he may have a point of reference based on his own experience. It may not have been obvious, but that's what I meant.

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Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
3/6/2016 3:33 pm

    Quoting freenez14u2:
    No real opinion but that said I'd have a problem if oral was only a one way street.
Yeah, I was mostly thinking about what they say, versus what happens after. How do you feel when you see that in a profile?

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discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
3/24/2016 1:53 am

Before trying to guess what women like in a profile, I have to consider what they like in an actual encounter.

I know that a lot of women really like receiving oral from a partner who enjoys giving it.

My guess is that some even like receiving oral even if the partner is doing it because they think it's expected rather than because they actually like giving. However, I would guess that there are more women who strongly prefer receiving it from a partner who actually enjoys giving it, both because people who enjoy giving it tend to be better at giving, and because people often get added pleasure from seeing their partner enjoying an encounter.

Some women dislike giving oral, and although they may like to receive, they may like the presumed expectation that they give if they receive.

In short, most like receiving, and prefer receiving from someone who likes giving.

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So, what about in a profile?

My guess is that plenty of other people think that women like receiving oral. Going from that assumption, it's easy to jump to the conclusion that one can improve one's chances with a woman if she thinks one is likely to give oral, give good oral, and like giving it.

Going from that conclusion, it might seem like good self-marketing to say that one loves giving oral, even if one really doesn't like it, and will only do it as much as is necessary to get what one really does enjoy.

That gives women reason to be suspicious. If a woman sees "I love giving oral" in a profile, is it because the person actually loves giving oral, thinks it's good marketing to say so, or both? If it's marketing only, she's not likely to find out until she decides she'd like to receive. She can't exactly check Yelp to find out whether a potential partner is lying.

In a sense, it's like penis size boasting. A lot of guys seem to assume that women like it big, love it huge, and go crazy for it if it's enormous. And if they assume that's the case, there's a temptation to exaggerate, and when they get the impression that other guys are also exaggerating they're tempted to exaggerate even more. And women don't find out how much a guy is exaggerating until they've proceeded far enough to measure it in person.

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So, if a man (or woman) honestly does enjoy giving oral, should he (or she) advertise that? That probably depends on the overall image he (or she) wants to present in the profile, and what one is seeking. Looking for hook-ups only? Seeking a friend-with-benefits? Looking for relationship potential? Looking for a co-conspirator in cheating on a partner? Looking for an unknowing dupe to cheat with? Looking for kink? Looking for swapping? Etc.

What if a man (or woman) honestly enjoys giving oral, and doesn't even expect to receive oral? Should he (or she) advertise that?

Short answer: deciding what to present in a profile is complicated.


IntoAllWomen 36M
2 posts
12/25/2017 9:09 pm

So I scrolled through your entire blog looking for a post entitled Battle of the Sexes, but I must have missed it. This was the most recent post that had caught my eye so I decided to respond.

For starters, I do enjoy orally pleasing a woman, and I am unsure if this is on my profile or not. With that being said, I personally don't enjoy a woman going down on me, so I am not projecting at all. In all honesty, after reading your question regarding how women may feel when reading things like this made me feel like I should reevaluate my entire profile. When I first wrote my profile the only thing I had in mind was being myself, and being honest.

It should be fun rewriting my profile with a women's perspective in mind, but maintaining my honesty.

You have a lot of interesting information in your blogs, so I am sending a friend request so I can read more in my free time.

Cheers!


Red_Elf replies on 3/23/2018 12:26 am:
I probably declined your friend request because I tend to only accept local friends unless I immediately recognize them as bloggers. Seeing as I've become pretty terrible about checking my blog, I apologize if I did that with yours.

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