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Blogs > Red_Elf > Rewriting My Life

First, be not stupid  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
4/20/2016 10:35 pm
First, be not stupid

Okay, I'm not a big fan of judgey words like stupid. That being said, when I look in my inbox, I become intimately aquainted with the enormous appeal of using verbage of this nature. Rather than communicating what you're about and why that might appeal to me, personally, because you've done your homework, I get messages from guys looking for things I'm not.

For instance, a guy who is a dom, and states that he is looking for a young female, a guy 7 years younger than me, hit me up, asking me if I wanted a challenge. Say what?

And then there are the substantial number of guys saying, "nice tits," like I would even care that they've noticed.

There are also guys who right away tell me they suspect I'm not interested because of something obvious (78 years old & living in Arizona).

So, I think it's time to make it clear--if you message me, first, be not stupid.

It's really a shit way to begin, if you catch my drift.
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FunLust16 46M
Ask me for a photo
443 posts
4/21/2016 12:11 am

 So right, there's so many over confident jokers around


Red_Elf replies on 4/21/2016 12:50 am:
So true!

This_dude_onAFF 56M
81 posts
4/21/2016 10:51 am

 I have to admit, when I first joined this site, I had no interest in saying things like "nice titties." However, I eventually learned that a fair number of women on IM respond favorably to that. But I'm also aware that a significant number of women don't.


ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
4/21/2016 9:00 pm

 Sadly the men who will follow your advice are the man who did not need it in the first place . . . the ones who are not stupid.
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