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...and Hot New Guy
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...and Hot New Guy With all the kerfluffle with Mr. Sweet Thing, I was sure as hell looking for other people to capture my attention. Fortunately, as much as i liked him, I never was fully attached to him due to his scarce availability, leaving me the chance to walk away without a real rebound effect. Because I knew this about myself, I had decided a couple weeks ago that "The quickest way to get over someone was to get under someone." In this case, it seemed to make a lot of sense to me. I was distracted by my interest in Mr. Sweet Thing, but I wasn't attached. I needed someone else to capture my attention. So I added another dating site to my possibilities, and started talking to guys on there. There were multiple men who seemed interesting...but the first one I was able to nail down for a date was a trendy 40-something guy with a bit of a Morgan Freeman profile (as in, looking at him from the side, he looks a bit like him). People are amusing...and he's fun...and when we sat down in a spot suitable for talking, we talked for a bit, then I made sure we kissed (I've figured out I get more of what I want when I do some things to make sure it happens). He was clearly thrilled and expressive about it, which was fun...and then we kissed a bit more and I looked up and a young Black couple was walking by, with bemused expressions on their faces, looking at us, looking at his reactions, and obviously getting a kick out of it...and they passed by...and then the guy turned around and said some sort of something to us, not sure what it was exactly, but he was most definitely cheering Mr. Morgan Freemansque along. Well, anyways, I'm all for meeting a guy, seeing if he meets my basic criteria, and then kicking the tires to see what happens in the bedroom, because hell if I'm going to waste a lot of time building a relationship if I don't think there is any compatibility there...okay...I don't want my heart broken in obvious and predictable ways and I don't want to spend a lot of time on something that isn't going to be at all functional...so of course, I went down that path before the end of the night. There's definitely some potential there. He asked some follow up questions about how I am functionally sexually, and I gave him some pointers, because, well, it's not like he's seen my blog. We'll try round 2 tonight. But...wow...THIS GUY is hot, successful enough, and creative, and INTO ME. He had no problem making out in the lobby in front of the security guard, on the street in front of his building, and the like...and he asked me to text him to let him know when I got back home (Lyft ride), and then he texted me on and off for the rest of the evening and made follow up plans for tonight. He's actually attentive to my well-being. Actually, I don't know if I know how to deal with the into me thing. I'm used to, at the very most, curious interest and semi-distracted companionship. Fortunately he is busy and I am busy and so I'll be able to slowly adjust to all this if it does take off.   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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Attentive is a wonderful trait.  My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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