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I will date fun. I do not date man-.
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I will date fun. I do not date man-. So I get a message on another site, “ Hello miss...great profile and pics...very, very cute. How are you?” Curious, I check out his profile and see this, “I’m looking for a friend to hang with…” along with some activities he enjoys doing. So I respond, “Hi Mr. I'm-looking-for-a-friend.” It bugs me he says this on his DATING profile, and then he is flirting with me. Like…dude doesn’t know what he wants? He’s forty fucking two! He responds with, “Lol...I don't think anyone just meets someone organically and say Hi I'm looking for a relationship.” Well, this is a man who really doesn’t know how to hedge his bets or think a few steps ahead of where he is presently. Who, with half a brain, wouldn’t recognize that there is a bit of a fire heating up, and that he needs to respond with some fundamental strategy in mind? Either he is a) not intelligent, or b) incapable of any kind of real strategy or game. Of course, he gets, “I'm pretty straightforward. I'm on here to date. I'm looking for someone to have a relationship with. If I go out with someone I meet here and it's not specifically specified "friend date," it's a date. If someone thinks calling it "friends" is going to get him into my pants, he is sorely mistaken. If that's your goal and intention, make it clear! I'm 44 years old. I don't "hang out" with men I'm interested in like I'm a . I "go out" with men I'm attracted to...on dates.” There are a lot of grievances I can generally come up with for older men, but I must say, being incapable of calling a date a date is not one of them, so put a tally mark on the score board for older men for that one. Dates are dates. I’m not a and I’m not interested in dating . If you aren’t grown up enough to own that you want to go out on a date with a woman, you don’t DESERVE to go out on a date with a woman. I keep my vibrators handy…and I got them from a man who was grownup enough to own that he wanted to take me out on dates. While he definitely has his problems, which is why I’m not seeing him anymore, that was never one of them. If you want to date me, be a grown up and treat me like a woman.   MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=} |
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It must be going around... I just had a guy contact me with "just looking around" on his profile. Who said he had an open relationship to "talk to other people" but wasn't actually meeting. Who was vague about things like where he goes kayaking and couldn't pin down where he lived any further than "in the Philadelphia area." Who was then really disappointed when he was told I don't have the time to "talk" to people who I'm never going to actually meet in person. I mean really.... vagueness is such a huge turnoff.
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I love a women that speaks her mind right off the start. Life is to short to thinking that a first date is gonna make you score.First impressions are a lasting one but getting that 2nd date can move things forward.
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If, as a first meeting, I meet a woman for coffee, I don't call it a date, so sue me.
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interesting
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I don't understand this statement, "In my experience, women who value their availability above my performance tend to be offering availability only, very little by way of their own performance or skill." Can you please clarify? MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}
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Got it.
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Every man should grow up and treat you like a woman, whether he wants to date you or not. IMO men who need to have this explained to them are pathetic. I'm glad you aren't wasting your time with this man-child. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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