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IM giggles...  

redhotfun4you2 61F  
471 posts
9/6/2016 6:04 pm
IM giggles...

I got home from work tonight and checked email etc. and went on IM for a change of pace. I am not certain if I had been on there for 15 seconds yet and I get a ding. I check it to see if it is anyone I know and it is not.

His opening line, "you want to play". No question mark, just the words.

My reply "I don't even know you. Why would I play with someone I have never even so much as had a conversation with?"

His response, "I though people where here to meet and play"

Me: "It may be a sex site, doesn't mean we jump in bed with anyone and everyone"

Him: "ok that all I am looking for"

To which I wished him good luck in his search.

Next ding is from a guy who has been trying to get me to meet him for coffee for a few weeks. It just seems any time I am free he is not or if he is, I am not. Anyway, tonight he messages me and wants to know if I have a few minutes to meet??? Just to say hi??

Now remember, I just got home from work, I just got in my jammies. I really don't feel like going back out, however, I might. I am typing a response and he says, BRB. Ok, I think to myself I will do a little writing while I wait for him to return.


Ding number 3 at least starts with a "Hello, how are you doing?" to which I returned "hello, I am well and you?" A conversation started. We talked about writing, sexual fantasies, blogging. Several topics. All in all an interesting 40 minutes conversation. All this time buddy who is trying to get me to meet him for coffee has not returned… Guess coffee with me is not that important.

cwazywabbit009 59M
6313 posts
9/6/2016 6:16 pm

 I got a ping from a couple 2 nights ago that started off with - "what are you into?
I replied with Hello??
Them - hi
Me- Now isn't that a better way to start?
Them - well we have had a lot of people who have been quite rude and so we get to the point right away
Me- Why sink to their level? It reflects poorly on you.
They apologized and we chatted for about 15 mins and it went nowhere. Looked at their profile, they were looking for women or couples and I pointed that out to him [it was the male typing]. They said they were looking to explore more [ie:MFM] so I told them they might want to change their profile to reflect that. A few minutes later, poof! they were gone lol
Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


redhotfun4you2 replies on 9/6/2016 6:23 pm:
I know, why sink to the level of those who wish not use common manners. I know, I know, we have been down this road many times. Might have to pave that road it is being used so often. LOL.

Not_here2meet 55F
3843 posts
9/6/2016 7:23 pm

 I struggle with the im. It seems, like many things on this site, to have become a crapshoot.

Maybe, if they stopped focusing on monetizing everything on this site, and worked out some of the bugs...they could make it a better place for all of us.

Happy Tuesday
Live life to it's fullest!

If you're bored, Read
Hugs
Gypsy


redhotfun4you2 replies on 9/6/2016 7:42 pm:
I understand this site is a business, however, if things worked properly more would be willing to pay for the service. I enjoy the chat most times, depending on who is chatting and if there is not a bunch of drama going on. We do have some laughs.

With IM the issue I have is the constant dinging. In chat I can chat in the room and everyone sees what I am saying. I am not much for private chat with people I have not had previous conversations with. I find most are rude and crude and I have zero tolerance for that. Be respectful to those you converse with, FFS, would you talk to everyone like that?? I just shake my head and say "NEXT"

Where has the art of conversation gone?? Does no one know how to have a conversation these days??

My rant of the day... sorry

Happy Tuesday to you as well and thanks for stopping by and commenting.

txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
9/7/2016 6:39 am

 good morning.. nice to see your still here.... Always nice to know your alive an kicking..... i understand why IM's get to women when the guys are rude... i noticed a few times when i go on IM that saying " hi care to chat some an see if friends can be made" goes without a reply,,,,,,,, so maybe some guys have better luck in a shock value IM... least it got you to answer...


redhotfun4you2 replies on 9/7/2016 5:07 pm:
Yes I am still alive and kicking. I have just been quiet while I work out some things.

I rarely go on IM because of all the dings, it is irritating. I like the chat rooms better. I have more fun there.

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