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Wondering why no reply!?!? 1st edition..
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Wondering why no reply!?!? 1st edition.. I had written quite a long post about this, then decided to let the images speak for themselves.... I think I was rather nice in the reply to him, actually!  Notice: --Time of emails. --Minutes between emails. --Assumptions. Please do tell me if I am wrong? Edit: It seems that someone has reported the image of the email trail and has been removed. Doesn't surprise me. Here is the email trail in text form: (MaleXXXX) Question for you? 5/27/2016 2:27 am (MaleXXXX) Listen, I get if you are not attracted to me, but its the fact that you can't even give a response! Ok, so I read your profile, so to preach the whole interested in a person who is intelligent, and to not even grant a person the respect of a honest response! Well, add the word ignorant to your profile! Considering you are a master in the art of ignorance! Goodnight! 5/27/2016 2:44 am Me Nice, judging someone without knowing her situation or responsibilities. Additionally, I have hundreds of emails to "sift" through. Yep, I am the ignorant one. Here's your response you requested, "NOT INTERESTED!" Shame on you, sending a "dick" picture without taking the time actually to write me an email. I can only assume that you email ALL women in that fashion. ANY intelligent woman would read right through your bait of, "Question for you?". Obviously, YOU HAVENT read my profile because I specifically state I am NOT seeking NSA /FWB situations. I am VERY clear on that. That being said, why in the world would I respond to you? Get real. STOP using "texting" language in your profile. Write something that actually has something to do with you instead of sex and what you are seeking. I will leave you with ONE simple word even YOU can understand, "BLOCKED!". |
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You had every reason to respond as you did. Block that ignoramus!! I'm still amazed of the stupidity you ladies must endure.
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You did the right thing in my opinion. There are a lot of real bozos here who will write anything; and write things they would never say in real life. The anonymity of cyberspace gives some people virtual brass balls.
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That's was EPIC!! Well done Miss...
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Is posting private communications suppose to instill confidence in an intellectual prowess?
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WOW. What happen to the image. I didn't see it. 😥 Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Is posting private communications suppose to instill confidence in an intellectual prowess? By the way, "Professor", I believe it is "are" vs. "is."
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Nope. Not wrong. Though, that is 5 minutes of your life, or however long it took you to type your response, that you won't get back. It's a shame that so many choose to be rude. Unfortunately, it is not surprising. So many people use anonymity to be mean and abusive. It makes no sense to us. Do people really think they'll find what they're looking for by being disrespectful? It's hard to find friendly people on here, but they are out there! We treasure the handful of "real" connections we've made on here. We try to spend most of our time nurturing those connections. But sometimes, people just push you over the edge, don't they? We understand.
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He deserved the virtual-rolled-up-newspaper-to-the-nose....and you swatted him with it...now, no doggie treats for him! Kudos!
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Very nice response to his ignorant message to you.
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** HI-- BEAUTY (( KISS )) you know the stupid thing !! ,, why ???? here Sooooooooooooooooooo ~~ many ++++ MISFIT !! you had to know what useless !! banter would flow~~~~~~~~~~~~ALL (( B.S. )) &&& ** IDIOTICAL-NESS ** FAN,,,,, DON"T AUDIT LIFE, SHOW UP AND MAKE THE MOST OF IT NOW JOEY @ THE BEACH
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Today's pot-luck! Lucky me! (CoupleXXX) Miss Carpe Diem! Thanks for accepting our request. We've only been on the site for a few days now, and so far, it's not so bad! It's very difficult to connect with like minded individuals, while keeping it from friends and family. We've browsed Craigslist for YEARS and never found a single person to follow through with meeting. Today is actually our one year anniversary! We'll have been together for 5yrs, in December. I have two children from a prior relationship. My daughter is heading into 8th grade, next year, and my son will be heading into 5th. We're pretty down to Earth. Don't get out much, but when we do, it's usually day activities. Beach, hiking, heading to the crazy shops on the north side of Chicago, etc. We own, and operate a decorative concrete company. It leaves us with a lot of downtime, and it can become pretty boring! We are really looking for someone who likes adventure. Such as nature hikes, experiencing different cultures, etc., etc. Life is all about experiencing new things! I used to travel a LOT, but haven't in years. That's going to be changing soon. A new travel companion would be amazing. I'm not exactly sure what else to talk about, and I've probably rambled on long enough! So, again, thanks for accepting the request, and we hope to hear back from you. XXX & XXX 5/27/2016 7:52 pm (CoupleXXX) So, would you like to meet up sometime, or what? This coming weekend is no good, but the following would work! We love heading up to Devil's Lake, in Baraboo. We'll be getting a hotel, and spending the weekend there. We can go for some hikes, swimming, and later on, dinner and drinks. If everything is a good match, we'll take things from there? These chats are so awkward, and horrible for making first impressions. My wife is goofy, and fun, I'm a bit more serious, with spurts of sarcasm. Let me know. At worst, we'll have a decent weekend, and ultimately realize it's not something to repeat. Let me know. 6/4/2016 11:47 am Notice. I haven't even replied yet and he is asking me to meet them for a get-a-way. Me I can appreciate your directness, however, I never, ever rush into anything. If time is of the essence for the two of you, I am definitely not your woman. Good luck- 6/4/2016 6:39 pm "Kind of" gave him the chance to redeem himself. I am sure you can guess what happened (CoupleXXX) Oh, we're in no rush! We have never done this before. Been trying for awhile, without success. I'm convinced each and every "woman" we've talked to, has been a whopper of a catfish! If it's Ok with you, my wife and I would like to take a "selfy", holding a piece of paper, with your username written on it. We'd like you to do the same. At that point, we wouldn't mind taking any amount of time, to ensure everyone is in their comfort zone. If that works for you, it works for us! Talk soon 6/4/2016 8:17 pm Me I know what catfish, I think ( a person who wants $$?). I haven't a clue what "whopped" is. My profile has a "selfie" with my name of in as well as dated, recently I may add. I am not huge on the "or what" part of your email. Me being a single mother and career woman, get quickly pushed away when I read. Along with that, there are real women/couples in the area as I have met. I do not use the testimonial feature for a few reasons but the main one being MY ambiguity. My profile = my rules. Along with that, I belong to other LS websites in which I am verified "real" & have attended events & parties. Honestly, at the end of the day, I really do not care what people think of me or whether I am real or not (not being bitchy, just protecting myself). As I said, I can appreciate your directness and that you two value your time not to be wasted (also not going tp preach how anyone should try and talk to a potential match) as I do mine. Unfortunately, you are in a venue, like most, where sometimes you have to either take a chance and or always trust your intuition. 6/5/2016 10:31 am (CoupleXXX) I believe that proving you are, who you are, is a basic level of necessity, for moving forward with correspondence. Yes, you do have dated photos with your username. All of which, could have easily been pulled from various sources around the Internet. By taking a selfy, fully clothed, even covering your face, while holding a hand written sign with OUR username, cannot be found anywhere on the Internet, thus proving you are, who you are. A catfish is someone pretending to be another. Someone who attempts to come up with viable excuses on why they cannot provide real means of identity verification. It's very simple to provide, and absolutely not too much to ask. So, I can only assume that you are not the person in the photos! Best of luck, with your fishing! Good day 6/5/2016 11:07 am Me Wow, yeah, best of luck to you two as well.... Another one with assumptions. Yep, you got me, I'm fake! I owe you nothing & neither does any other female on this site (I am quite sure this is the male half writing me). I am ambiguous for a reason, which clearly isn't something you can appreciate, which I explained in an earlier email exchange. My "viable" excuses?!, although I have CURRENT VERIFIED pictures on my profile. So, I gather the question is, how are YOUR "verified" photo's different from mine" (not that I see yours on your profile anyway)? I am going to go with because you are a couple. Probably scratching your head on that one. Maturity and impatience will prove you two dateless with any self-assured single females (possibly even couples, if you ever venture that way), I can assure you.... Your profile states you are "laid back" & not pushy, I see more uptight and extremely pushy.... Clearly you have not read my profile in detail. Quite frankly, you are not worth the time nor effort for more explanation (being so tunnel visioned) as clearly we do not have similar conjecture. Typical millennials. YOUR way. Just in case you disagree, here is the definition from the urban dictionary: "Born between 1982 and 1994 this generation is something special, cause Mom and Dad and their 5th grade teacher Mrs. Winotsky told them so. Plus they have a whole shelf of participation trophies sitting at home so it has to be true. They believe themselves to be highly intelligent, the teachers and lecturers constantly gave them "A"'s in order to keep Mom and Dad from complaining to the Dean. Unfortunately, nobody explained to them the difference between and education and grade inflation so they tend to demonstrate poor spelling and even poorer grammar. At work, millennials believe themselves to be overachievers who just aren't understood by their loser bosses. Even Mom said so when she showed up for the interview. They are the only generation in the universe to understand the concept of work life balance and to actually want to find a fulfilling career. All those Gen X losers just don't get it what with hoping to keep their jobs and pay the bills but they are just corporate drone so who cares what they think? They should be smart like Millennials and get Mom and Dad to pay for that stuff until they can work out what they want to do with their lives and then get rich doing it. Well, I've been here at this job for 6 months now and I've been on time mostly so I should get a raise now 'cause I've paid my dues. Did you know we are the most technologically advanced generation, like eva? And smart too. They call us millennials cause we were born before the millennial I think." Maybe I should be scratching my head for having integrity, values, and self-resect.  Possibly I should just throw myself to the wolves and sleep with everyone who shows interest, guessing this guy would definitely settle.
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1 post 6/7/2016 8:39 pm |
Howdy from Texas! Well, this made our night. We may have to share some of the amazing offers and messages we receive. Let it serve as therapeutic for us in the form of comical catharsis and as an educational feature to those whom find confidence through keystroke directives and blatant disrespect. Bravo to you, keep it going, and have fun!
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6/8/2016 10:19 pm |
That is referred to as a "mic drop"!
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....and for entertainment today..... THIS ONE SPEAKS FOR ITSELF, I think anyway. (Couple2XXXX) Would you be interested in a threesome with us? 6/9/2016 9:16 pm (Couple2XXXX) Hi there. We are couple looking for the right girl to have our first threesome together with. We both have had them in the past but first time together. Wanting to get to know someone before jumping in to bed together. From your profile sounds like we have quite a bit in common. We love to laugh, and live in the moments. Looking for someone discreet, clean and willing to get to know us first. Let us know if you would be interested in talking some more. Thanks. -from her 6/9/2016 9:38 pm Notice the difference in time in the emails before I could respond. Me There isn't much to go on in your profile/pictures? Age gap? 6/9/2016 9:42 pm (Couple2XXXX) Would be willing to send pictures after chatting for awhile just cautious with online things. I am 22 and he is 32. Quite an age gap but to be honest you do not have the body of a 45 year old so willing to look past age if there is a connection. Me Sorry doesn't work that way with me. "willing to look past the age gap" I didn't realize you two were the only ones in play..... Wish you two the best. Good luck. Grrrrrr.....Just pull the trigger..... [image]
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6/14/2016 3:54 pm |
A lot of guys just don't get it. I wrote an entire blog because of people like that. I don't know what some think their boorish behavior will accomplish.
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Today's top hit! (I will spare you the entire conversation, but pretty good none the less)  (Couple3XXXX) Thanks Hun. They are getting better by the day. Looked at some of you new pics as well. You have a great body. We really should chat some more. We are all very fit attractive successful people and like to stay discrete. We are very picky and selective and think you are very sexy. Let's chat more and learn more about each other to see if it would be worth meeting. 6/10/2016 5:45 pm (Couple3XXXX) So I am beginning to think you are a big tease and a picture collector. Never respond and are afraid to talk on the phone or text. O well your loss. We are the best looking people on this site as from what we have seen everyone doesn't cut it. Thought you were different. Guess not. 6/14/2016 5:57 pm Me Wow, spoken like a true millennial! Self-serving. Let me try and break this down for you so you can understand: 1. Your profile has NO thought of what your desire/wants/needs. A one line profile, applause. 2. I have everyday responsibilities that take precedence. I'm sorry I haven't responded in "your time frame." 3. I have verified pictures to prove I am who I say I am, do you? No, you don't. 4. Apparently, you haven't read my profile as I CLEARLY stated I do not just give out personal information immediately for safety and discretion. 5. Just because you sent me your contact details does not assure you mine. Humbly saying, I get personal contact information in 80% of the email I receive. 6. Picture collector? -seriously, shaking head- Yep, you nailed me. That's what I am. 7. Tease? Maybe so, however, it's my prerogative to choose who I decide to respond/converse. 8. The claim of, "we are the best-looking people on this site? Hmmm, narcissistic? I will stop right there on that, believe me, trying to withhold on your claim is tough. 9. I owe you nothing. I should really write a book on TRYING to date.  [image]
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The ridiculousness of the offer of money - Makes me Crazy! Hopefully, images won't be deleted! [image]
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.....& another  [image]
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.....aaaaaaaand another  [image]
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I'm like a ninja with the block button!  [image]
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ya know if these weren't so sad , it would actually be really funny. But it is almost tragic articulation of the whole on line dating scene. Almost makes me want to disconnect from the cable and sit down and write an old fashioned letter , you know on paper with a pen and stuff 
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1 post 8/27/2017 11:25 am |
You are smart, funny and sassy - I like that in a woman!
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