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Blogs > Ladywithatti2d > Ladys views and thoughts

PLEASE oh PLEASE  

Ladywithatti2d 83F  
260 posts
1/20/2011 1:05 pm

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1/20/2011 1:09 pm
PLEASE oh PLEASE

Would someone, ANYONE, come up with some logical, feasible explanation of what or what is with SOME people, and I am sure it is not gender exclusive, that they go OUT of their way to be rude and insulting.??

WHAT is with THAT!!! Here is the thing, be it male or female, you come across a profile, photo, something, anything that right that instant grabs you and makes you turn into some alien from another planet, or you are possessed by the devil himself.

You suddenly, start typing, fingers flying over the keyboard, your mind racing like it is competing in the Daytona 500, and all of it that appears is NEGATIVE, Insulting, RUDE beyond belief???

It makes me wonder are you this ignorant in your real life? every day life? Would you talk to someone you passed on the street like that or in a bar or ANY social setting? I mean you see them and just walk right over and light into them with all YOUR negative viewpoints!!. Does the computer afford you such sanctity and safety of hiding behind your keyboard that you suddenly think your brilliant??? That this creature that you have turned into is free to talk to someone you will NEVER, not EVER meet!! in your entire life and vent your venom, and spew vile like it is spontaneous barfing?.

Do you have an ego!! that is larger than the collective states of Texas and Alaska, together that you actually believe that once you inform this person of YOUR! that is ONE person's OPINION, that they are suddenly going to say, "Oh my goodness, I better change my profile, or who I am to make this ONE person happy".

There is so very much in the world that is suffering, miserable, and unhappy, what makes you suddenly decide to ADD TO IT? Does it make you a better person?? Absolutely NOT but it sure lets the recipient know what a rude, ignorant ASS YOU ARE. It isn't the person who GETS your email, if you want to call it that, who looks bad, its YOU the SENDER!!.

Obviously, in your haste to inform others of your view point and opinion you have forgotten that it leaves THEM with the very clear picture of what kind of person YOU ARE!!!. Is that how you really want people to see you?? Is that REALLY who you are? Is that REALLY the kind of individual YOU ARE?? If so, or any part of that is a yes YOU NEED HELP!!!! Please feel free to go get it.

I realize a lot of those charming emails, sent, which are like from other countries, states on the opposite side of the country means you stand a snowballs chance in hell of ever really hooking up with them to begin with, but I guess, just call me DUMB, cause I can't figure out why the hell you people WASTE your time, and energy to reach out, FIRST CONTACT EVER with a STRANGER, and tell them all that????

If you see someone, you obviously have a distaste for MOVE ALONG, go to the NEXT ONE!!! no one will arrive at your house to arrest you for doing so, or give you a report card telling you that you flunk surfing because you remained silent. I promise they won't.

The old saying SILENCE IS GOLDEN!!! is a wonderful thing, and a lot of people really should practice that!!! not just for the person they are contacting but for themself!!!

Annoyed Lady

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