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Emotional manipulation "You're just too scared to fuck," texted a guy I rejected. Everytime a guy tells me this I can't help but burst out laughing. What am I a virgin? I'm very far from innocent. Some of my experiences, would have ya'll blushing.  This emotional manipulation that guys try to pull on me is fucking hilarious, seriously like fall to the ground, holding my sides, I'm laughing so hard I might pee on myself, hilarious.   Can't you do better than that? I call bullshit. Now if I was a different person I would take advantage of a guy's apparent stupidity, but I'm not and I have to play nicely with others.  I'm surprised that some of these guys have already reproduced. Like seriously, a female actually fell for that? Is it the water? No seriously, is it the water? Because the level of stupidity to expect that will work and has worked in the past is astonishing. If done right, sex should be very pleasurable, mindblowing even. So what is there to be scared of? If he's hinting that it will be so good I'll fall in love, that's highly doubtful and very much improbable. There's nothing to be scared of, I just didn't want to fuck you. Is that such a difficult concept to grasp? Must we try to resort to mind games? |
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I can't agree more!! I get these messages about "you won't be sorry" and "just give me a chance to show you babe" and all I can think of is what if I did give in and now I am sorry? Now I am not happy with the performance, but he got the p*ssy he wanted and it no longer matters. I don't fall for that crap and it doesn't interest me when guys think they are so great all women will love their dicks. Negging i.e. insulting someone into having sex with you is also a big turn off and doesn't work. Insulting me only shows me why I should not be around you at all. I love your line "a female actually fell for that?" That sums it up most of the time. Because "wanna f*ck" may have worked once upon a time doesn't mean that every woman is going to just do that along with some of the other jerky stuff they say. Please, feel free to visit my blogs on the types of emails we get on here.... good/bad/and ugly: #1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates #2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates #3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates #4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates I think you will laugh, say he did not write that, and just plain go wha??? LOL Great post!!
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I can't agree more!! I get these messages about "you won't be sorry" and "just give me a chance to show you babe" and all I can think of is what if I did give in and now I am sorry? Now I am not happy with the performance, but he got the p*ssy he wanted and it no longer matters. I don't fall for that crap and it doesn't interest me when guys think they are so great all women will love their dicks. Negging i.e. insulting someone into having sex with you is also a big turn off and doesn't work. Insulting me only shows me why I should not be around you at all. I love your line "a female actually fell for that?" That sums it up most of the time. Because "wanna f*ck" may have worked once upon a time doesn't mean that every woman is going to just do that along with some of the other jerky stuff they say. Please, feel free to visit my blogs on the types of emails we get on here.... good/bad/and ugly: #1...Best Complimentary Emails wupdates #2...Emailslame, boring, or just plain stupidwupdates #3...A polite No Thank You can cause thiswupdates #4...Unsolicited HATE Emails no prior contactwupdates I think you will laugh, say he did not write that, and just plain go wha??? LOL Great post!!
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Maybe mind game is all the game he got. Whatever he has, he is a sore loser. Not a good sign for bedroom activities.
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What's real anymore online? It really baffling that they never change their approach. If something doesn't work change it. But at least they let us know in the door that they're not worth meeting
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Maybe mind game is all the game he got. Whatever he has, he is a sore loser. Not a good sign for bedroom activities. 
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It sounds very immature. I'd be curious to know the age of these guys. People are strange when you're a stranger."
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It sounds very immature. I'd be curious to know the age of these guys.
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Sigh. Yes, there was hundreds of blogs dealing with this. I've personally laughed and shook my head, while reading some. But I thought it was exaggeration, you know like a little flourish, to point out how much of an asshole a person is.
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It's true, I've come to find that even older guys are immature as well as young guys.
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"You're just too scared to fuck," texted a guy I rejected. If he texted that then you rejected wisely. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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"You're just too scared to fuck," texted a guy I rejected. If he texted that then you rejected wisely.
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Nerdygirl honey you are speaking mine and a lot of women on here problems with this site and the men who are on it. Its bad because they cannot take a simple brushoff. And I am one of those women whose shy, so that aggressive shit won't work with me. I need some sweet talking and caressing of the mind. Like you said why keep on with the same approach if it's not working. Smh
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OMG so true. I've been told I am fake and accused of being a man so many times its laughable. Like they don't know and have no clue how real these tits are LOL.
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So I read through the unsolicited hate messages on your blog. My god the shit someone would say to a complete stranger is mindblowing. Smh. Yes, all too often a polite no thank you to even the nicest guy on here gets a woman instantly told she is too fat, ugly, a whore, a c*nt, and/or a pig. If we were all that in the first place why were they contacting us????? LOL If they can't get laid by anyone that is that much of a low life... umm... who is the one with the problem??? LOL I laugh, but it is totally sad as well as pathetic that there are so many out there that do this and make it much more difficult for anyone to find anyone else. We become jaded and much more careful and hoops appear so we can weed out the jerks, and even that doesn't always work.
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That category has always amazed me in my own blog. They don't know me, never chatted with me, had only read my profile (when I had one) and with that they wasted everyone's time sending out complete and utter hatred emails. I am not going to say "Wow, I need to get with this guy!" and I am definitely not going to change who I am and be what they want me to be. The childishness and total disrespect shows only why they are not getting laid. Yes, all too often a polite no thank you to even the nicest guy on here gets a woman instantly told she is too fat, ugly, a whore, a c*nt, and/or a pig. If we were all that in the first place why were they contacting us????? LOL If they can't get laid by anyone that is that much of a low life... umm... who is the one with the problem??? LOL I laugh, but it is totally sad as well as pathetic that there are so many out there that do this and make it much more difficult for anyone to find anyone else. We become jaded and much more careful and hoops appear so we can weed out the jerks, and even that doesn't always work.
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Nerdygirl honey you are speaking mine and a lot of women on here problems with this site and the men who are on it. Its bad because they cannot take a simple brushoff. And I am one of those women whose shy, so that aggressive shit won't work with me. I need some sweet talking and caressing of the mind. Like you said why keep on with the same approach if it's not working. Smh
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That category has always amazed me in my own blog. They don't know me, never chatted with me, had only read my profile (when I had one) and with that they wasted everyone's time sending out complete and utter hatred emails. I am not going to say "Wow, I need to get with this guy!" and I am definitely not going to change who I am and be what they want me to be. The childishness and total disrespect shows only why they are not getting laid. Yes, all too often a polite no thank you to even the nicest guy on here gets a woman instantly told she is too fat, ugly, a whore, a c*nt, and/or a pig. If we were all that in the first place why were they contacting us????? LOL If they can't get laid by anyone that is that much of a low life... umm... who is the one with the problem??? LOL I laugh, but it is totally sad as well as pathetic that there are so many out there that do this and make it much more difficult for anyone to find anyone else. We become jaded and much more careful and hoops appear so we can weed out the jerks, and even that doesn't always work.
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This is just sad at what lengths some people will go through in playing mind games this type of believe I do not subscribe to at all!
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It's so easy to just use reverse psychology, too; idk why all guys don't just employ my handy two step method for Getting Any Girl Ever Always(tm). Regardez- L'Homme: "Pretty woman, you're prolly way too smart and funny to let me sleep on your sofabed for a couple months" L'Femme: " OMG here's the keys and also (usually something about mouthparts)" Cue roses/scene.
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