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I do not mind driving as long as I am going to have fun, not just a meet n greet . its got to be real
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In the past I've taken planes to meet someone as I was wanting the 'experience'. Now I barely want to drive two blocks. When I lived overseas, I lived alone alone so they would come to me....
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A long drive would have to incorporate a weekend or longer vacation. If we did not connect on any level there is items that I can do for fun anyway.
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No shows can be such an issue, I'm generally not going anywhere I wouldn't go anyway. This way, in case the person doesn't come, I can still hang out and get a coffee. Personally (and everyone's mileage will vary on this) I'm put off by guys who claim to be willing to travel an hour, two hours, or more to meet. First, I'm wondering what is up that you can't find a woman closer to you. Is it that you can't or are you trying to hide something. Next, I don't go any farther than a handshake on a first meeting. The first meet is a two way job interview where each of us take the measure of each other. I've had guys who traveled 20 minutes hand me the bullshit line about since we're here , don't you wanna...". No, no I don't.
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It varies with the person. If there is a true connection established over time, chatting, phone, perhaps on cam, then distance is irrelevant. If you just started to chat and want to meet for coffee in the Desert have to drive a distance anyway with the spread out places an hour is pretty normal - last night was abut 45 minutes to meet a very nice bi lady and her and her bf will be at a pool party with me and fwb this weekend.
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The first meeting should never be looked at as a date. It's a meeting. I don't even know if I really want to fuck her. She might look good in a file, but an organic meeting is a completely whole new event. So there is no way I'm wasting the better part of an hour just to meet someone, unless I've got something else to do in that area, or a sure-thing-bootycall already lined up with someone else in that area.
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7/26/2016 8:11 pm |
My philosophy is that unless I might bump into them while looking for a good cup of coffee, then they are probably to far away for it to be casual. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Definitely love the comments here. As for me, the guy has to be geographically desirable. First time meet is just to meet, nothing more. Yet, even though I wasn't drawn to them and the first meet would be the only meet, I have had a few tell me "well, since we both showed up...." Ummm, no. I don't care how far you drove to see me. I'm like, we talked about this...remember?
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Because where I live, would have to drive for a distance.
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60 miles at the most.
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I've got no problem with driving 3 to 4 hours.
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If she's a midget, muscle chick, or fetish chick or something like that, it will be worth driving more than an hour away.
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7/31/2016 11:18 am |
It does vary with the person. If there is a true connection established over time, chatting, phone, perhaps on cam, then distance is irrelevant. I may involve a weekend or a couple of days to check out someone face-to-face, as I am looking for a real connection and life partner. After the initial meet we would have to determine what we want after that. I may involve one of us moving if the feelings for both parties are that strong. I am looking for more than a booty call.
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around an hour or slightly less is good enough limit to go meet someone
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I have driven over an hour to meet someone and it was the best experience of my life
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