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I think I accidentally figured out why guys just send hey as a message.
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I think I accidentally figured out why guys just send hey as a message. I stopped sending messages to women on online dating sites about 2 ago. And I hate to admit it but I miss sending messages. I don't miss the rejection and existential spiral into depression but I do miss crafting messages and trying to find the right words to try to trigger an response. I miss finding clues in a woman's profile to her personality she didn't include in her bio and sending a message teasing or praising her for it. I miss seeing how creative I could be in crafting individual one of a kind messages and I started to get the itch again. With my track record of putting so much effort into my messages you could say I've had my fair share of dates from women I've met online. You could say . But you'd be a liar. I've sent hundreds of messages and received maybe 6 replies weren't scams. None of which lead to a meeting. Two women did reply to one of my messages just to tell me how good my messages was then didn't respond to any other follow messages. Kind of proud about . But back on subject. I was analyzing want I could do to help my cause if I were to jump back into the online dating game when it . "Ooohhh, it's just a meat market!". It doesn't matter what I do or what I write. I could write a message could make william Shakespeare's work seem juvenile and trite, it wouldn't make a difference because it's just a meat market. If my face doesn't make her yoni tingle it's all for not. She's not even going to read the message. Which lead me to the guys send messages of "hey". I used to think they were lazy but now I realize they are genius. They know the game and know their worth. They know it doesn't matter what they say. Their faces make women's yoni's spasm. So why put in more effort than they have to? They've already passed the first round of the audition for a relationship by winning the genetic lottery. Hell, they might even have got the role without even trying because of their looks. Which would explain why there are so many blog posts about guys getting pissy when they're rejected. They're so used to getting what they want without trying they become incredulous when they get turned down. You probably guessed done with online dating for good. I wasn't born with the golden ticket so I have to work on my in real life charm. |
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I have to work on myself but I'm too old so I'll most definitely die alone.
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4/17/2019 1:19 am |
I have to work on myself but I'm too old so I'll most definitely die alone. Hmmmm, the correct opening phrase, there isn't one! I send a msg to see if IM is working, as u know very flaky, and to see if their interested! Also consider most r fake! If I'm really interested I send an EM If we connect, then we can chat!
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4/17/2019 2:48 am |
cherios do not worry you will not die alone... at least one woman will be sure you suffer enough first. like you i feel the need to reply. may it be that twinkle in her eye, that triggers my brain. or maybe a sentence in her bio, that excites my neurons like you my need to arouse, entice, or just infuriate her kicks in. like you i have my share of replies like you when the time to meet arrives a black hole appears but then being older than you... i have looked in the mirror i have had the talk with the face that looked back and we decided i do not want to fuck every woman in the world before i die i just want to die beside the one woman in my life just like women say to each other "you have to kiss a million frogs to find one prince ". so i say to men you may be rejected a million times... but you are looking for "the one". so son i am on letter six hundred thousand four hundred sixty nine... and many, many more letters to go before i find my one my only my last love till then do i write bonne chance  there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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I suppose there are a lot of people (women AND men) who only rely on looks. Hell, Tinder is proof of that; most people on there have zero profile text. But as for me, an empty profile or a ‘Hey’ message doesn’t do it for me.   
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