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40 years ago.....and yesterday  

wickedeasy 74F
11204 posts
7/13/2016 12:37 pm
40 years ago.....and yesterday



It was late and so her friend gave her a ride home. Nina Simone blasted from the radio and her tuneless humming was just enough to get on his nerves…

Lord have mercy. Just stop. You know you can’t sing.

Laughing, she turned and began to squeal along with Nina, just to see if she could get him riled, this man who never seemed to anger but only to smile and laugh and cajole.

As they pulled into a spot by her apartment, he leaned over for a good night hug and the lights flicked on behind them, flashing blue and white, a short burst of siren sound.

He sighed.

Both policemen exited the car, one with a gun already drawn.

HANDS ON THE WHEEL. YOU, OUT OF THE CAR.

She stood on the sidewalk, heart pounding. The cop asked if she was hurt. As she was telling him that her friend was just driving her home from work, the other cop had her friend on his knees on the street with his hands behind his head and his head on the road. She screamed MO…..and tried to run to him. The cop grabbed her arm and pulled and pushed until she was thrust into the back seat of the police car.

They cuffed Moses. She listened as one cop ran plates and his SS#. Mo’s cheek was bleeding; she could see it as she struggled to keep her eyes on him.

For 20 minutes, as people passed, the tableau of her gentle friend pressed against the street was public fodder. When the police uncuffed him and let her out of the car, they got back into their car and left.

They did not apologize.

They did not explain.

They did not even glance at her and her friend.

Moses took her arm and led her shaking to her door. He was the one to fit the key into the lock, to make tea and hold her in his large and steady arms, to soothe her as she ranted and cried bitter tears. When he pulled the quilt over her and sat on the side of her bed, he answered her WHY simply.

DWB, baby, DWB.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
7/13/2016 1:16 pm

Here in Cape Coral Fl. a cop THREW a drunk woman about 20 feet. You can probably look it up on u-tub.
There was a street festival and just about everyone was drunk. But she was being load and yelling at her boyfriend. Yelling... no violence.
The cop just walked up to her and threw her back.
She passed out and the cop made fun of her and said she was just faking.
It's worth looking at.
He got in no trouble. Two weeks off.... PAID!
That's an extra PAID two week vacation. WTF!


wickedeasy replies on 7/14/2016 11:09 am:
this happened a long time ago.

I wonder if my friend would have survived if it happened today

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
7/13/2016 2:54 pm

Oh, shit. This hurts.

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wickedeasy replies on 7/14/2016 11:15 am:
when this happened, I was young and very idealistic. Mo was almost 15 years older than me and he knew what it was to be black in America

he was 6'6" tall, loved jazz, and when my son was born became his godfather. not a single person I have ever known held as much love in their heart as this man.

he passed over a few years back. in a way, I am glad. I couldn't bear to think of him being beaten or killed. and surely he would be because he could not pass a person in trouble without stopping to help

Not_here2meet 55F
3843 posts
7/13/2016 2:57 pm

Oh my gosh...beautiful, just beautiful. Thank you for sharing your soul with me.

Live life to it's fullest!

If you're bored, Read
Hugs
Gypsy


wickedeasy replies on 7/14/2016 11:15 am:
smiles.

thank you for recognizing it

pirate2late 72M
513 posts
7/13/2016 3:02 pm

Evil deeds and evil people...
The more things change, the more they stay the same...

Come check out my blog Echo on the Wind at pirate2late


wickedeasy replies on 7/14/2016 11:16 am:
except now.......now, I don't know if Mo would have gotten up from the street.

christylovesfun 51F  
16880 posts
7/13/2016 3:15 pm

I'm so sorry.

And I'm pissed.

And I'm marching, too.

And I love you!

Age cannot wither her, nor custom stale
Her infinite variety. Other women cloy
The appetites they feed, but she makes hungry
Where most she satisfies. For vilest things
Become themselves in her, that the holy priests
Bless her when she is riggish. ~~ from Antony & Cleopatra


wickedeasy replies on 7/14/2016 11:17 am:
it's why we should all be pissed and marching and standing for our black brothers and sisters.

and I love you too........

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/13/2016 7:11 pm

I think the people whose privilege has sheltered them from having this happen to them have trouble believing this kind of narrative....unfortunately.

Everyone needs to bear witness.


wickedeasy replies on 7/14/2016 11:19 am:
I was privileged. I just happened to have a black friend. and we just happened to be driving in a predominantly white neighborhood.

and that was enough 40 years ago.

now, today....would my friend Mo even have survived?

quietmansect 48M

7/14/2016 9:00 pm

Well written and well said.

QuietMan


bipolybabe69 62F
284 posts
7/15/2016 8:05 pm

Dang! I know this stuff still happens and it makes me sad. And impotent.


39lawless 58F
6864 posts
7/17/2016 11:17 am

I worry about this - I date black men and I worry for them. My black housekeeper - who is family - I worry about her son and her grandbabies.

I've had this idea that I would take care of my village - that would be my contribution to making the world a better place.

I'm quickly coming to the conclusion that I need to widen my scope.

This horrifies me and I can't just sit idly by.

xoxo

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


wickedeasy replies on 7/17/2016 12:26 pm:
look for local groups to join.

this hate has to stop.

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