Double Standards
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Posted:Dec 28, 2017 12:49 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2019 11:09 pm
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Lately on one of my erotic viewing binges, I noticed that I was equally aroused (if not a little more) when a girl on girl lesbian scene popped on the screen, just as much as when it was your typical guy nailing that blonde hottie in the typical dozen positions. Then I started wondering if the same thing happens WHEN women watch porn? Do they get just as horny watching lesbian porn, if they are not lesbian? I know that I'm not aroused by watching male gay porn.. so is it a double standard that women would like lesbian porn?
And what is it about girl on girl that seems so erotic and is actually more socially accepted than guy on guy? For me since I appreciate looking at a beautiful naked woman, having two of them in view is a win win in any book. Plus there is something more erotic watching a woman orgasm that is way more satisfying than watching a guy shoot his load. Maybe its the shallow breathing that leads to uncontrollable screams of ecstasy, that is far more appealing to watch than the sweaty grunting of a dude wacking off.
Sure, I suppose that part of it is my ego, not allowing me to enjoy anything that would be considered competition against my own talents (which is probably another reason why I would struggle in a MFM threesome vs a MFF hookup). But wouldn't those same feelings surface for any woman in the same situation. Also is oral sex for a straight woman more satisfying when they are performing blowjobs vs going down on another woman? Again I luv worshipping the vajay-jay... but don't be sticking anyones junk in my face and expect anything positive to come out of it (no pun intended). So why then do we guys just assume and quite honestly expect our female companions to start drooling the minute they see a lovely bush heading their way.
Maybe these are just part of those life mysteries that I will never understand - but will gratefully keep researching the topic in search of any insights I can gather.  If any you experienced females (straight or not) want to enlighten me on this subject, please leave me a comment. If you want to help with my research  well, I'm always open for a little study time!! 
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The LOST art of the pickup line.
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Posted:Oct 11, 2017 3:08 pm
Last Updated:May 28, 2019 11:08 pm
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Maybe it's my nostalgic viewpoint on life or just the sense that I need a good stiff drink, but the more time I spend in the LesbianPersonals instant messenger system, the more I miss the good ol days of hanging out in a pickup bar. The idea of going out to a bar or dance club with your wingman at your side, fully intent on getting drunk and "hitting on" all the hot women that we see with our best pickup lines and oozing charisma. Granted there were more times that I'd like to admit that I crashed and burned - going down in total flames with my tail between my legs. But that was okay, because 5 minutes and 2 shots later, I'd be right back up on that throwing down my best soliloquies to the blonde or hot redhead two seats down from the girl who just told me to take a hike.
What I am missing while trying to start up a conversation online, is the instant gratification (either good or bad) that you receive from experiencing a face to face conversation. Maybe I'm trying to hard to be unique or different in my messaging, but I don't think a basic Hi, hru - is worthy of anyone's time to open and read... PLUS I'm not much for saying hey babe, look at my dick and let's fuck!
My approach is to steer more towards the funny sarcasm and some how be witty enough to leave a quick one-liner that will hopefully catch the person's eye so they read it and offer back a response. Unfortunately most of the time, I get a "Delivered " alert, but not a read or if I'm lucky a response back. Sure I understand that most women on this site get 10x more messages than any of us guys... and I'm sure being a standard member doesn't help. But if being unique and funny is not enough to peak one's interest, than I'm not sure what is the best way to break the virtual ice and allow someone to get their foot in the door enough to showcase your true personality and hopefully lead to more conversation and ultimately a ride home. Who knows... but for now I guess I'll just have another shot with my wingman, sitting in front of my computer. Bottoms Up!
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Oh for the days of GlamourShots
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Posted:Aug 18, 2017 2:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2017 8:27 pm
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So I've realized lately that as great as I am at directing photo shoots for my marketing job, I suck at taking selfies. Maybe its because I'm my harshest critic or that the content I am shooting isn't truly all that photogenic (add in a heavy sigh for my self deprecation). But for some reason I always hate the way any selfies turnout. I applaud all the aspiring models on this site that are able to turn out not only great face pics, but all the action and closeup shots that keep me and Mr. Pecker hard and happy for hours on end.
But I do have one complaint I would like to get off my chest. Who was the idiot that decided the most seductive look a person can have while taking a selfie was a DUCK FACE??? I mean come on, who really thinks that they look their best, by puckering up their lips and doing an extreme closeup on their face?
Ok, I admit that I may be guilty of doing it as well once or twice... but there are some people that I'm not sure I would recognize if they were ducking it for the camera. Weren't these people brought up in a family environment that they were told that if they keep making that expression that their face will FREEZE THAT WAY? Hopefully they were at least told that if that keep DOING YOU KNOW WHAT their palms will turn green or that IT WILL FALL OFF!!! Consider this your fair warning!
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Discreet dosen't ALWAYS mean Dishonest.
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Posted:Jul 12, 2017 2:57 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2019 11:13 pm
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So I've noticed lately that there is a lot of mistrust floating around this site lately (and the world to be honest). Second guessing has become the norm on any communication or interaction. And to be honest, a lot of it is justified.
A lot of pics are faked (unless we are all budding porn models just waiting for our breakout moment) and there are some misleading profiles ("here for fun" doesn't usually jump right into talks of marriage).
Now granted, as a NON-GOLD standard member, access is limited and quite frankly you almost feel handcuffed (and not in a good kinky way) trying to find things on the site. But it almost seems that any attempt to protect one's privacy or identity - is almost a sure sign that you will get labeled as someone that is dishonestly trying to hide something (which ironically I am hiding some stuff to a certain extinct).
My backstory is probably not too uncommon on this site - newly divorced (almost a year now) with 2 teenagers living in my house (their mother relocated out of state and the are staying here until they graduate). My profile doesn't include a face shot - do to the fact that I really don't want my or anyone they know to find out about my private affairs (seems pretty normal to me). So I am looking to be more discreet in my activities, not in a dishonest way - but more as a safety zone for my family.
Unfortunately, I get the sense that all these factors (divorced male, discreet relations, no posted face pic, and no paid membership) automatically get me tossed into the untrustworthy category. Which in itself is a little discriminatory - since there are plenty of women that have NO pics posted - but yet they are viewed as just being cautious.
My point for all this soapbox rambling is not to gain pity attention from all the sexy women that are surely reading my blog  But, more I guess to bring to light that not everyone on here is looking to hustle someone... and maybe, more than you would expect, there are guys like me that are just normal, sex deprived, closet stalkers - who enjoy the sexual banter of a female counterpart - and have the hopes that someday may actual lead to something more than text on a page. (hopefully before the condoms shrivel up in my wallet!!) 
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When did Pervy become Gay?
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Posted:Jun 21, 2017 6:59 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 2:55 pm
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So I'm having some second thoughts on my choice of user name for this site. When picking a name I thought "why not be original and a little edgy" so I opted for something that I thought truly described my hidden personality... I've always been curious about sex and do find myself at times checking out those darker - less mainstream porn sites - not because I'm into humiliation or zoophilia... but rather, curious as to what it is and why it is such a turn on for some people.
But it seems that more than not people see my name and assume that I must be gay... which is definitely not the lifestyle for me and quite frankly not even hinted at anywhere in my profile.
Now don't get me wrong, as I have nothing against the gay lifestyle as I have many friends that are gay - but I'm just not into another guy's package nor do I have the desire to "try it out". I'm just confused on how either being "curious" or "pervy" would lead you to assuming I'm gay? Plus male gay porn is in no way a turn on for me - BUT give me two hot girls in some lezbo action and I'm all at attention!! Why is that then?? Is it my own machismo that sees a lesbian act and makes me think - hot damn those babes are really horny.. they must want me to fuck them hard! I have to admit that I would be more inclined to take part in a MFF threesome rather than a MMF one - but I just chalk that up to my competitive nature.
So since I'm not planning to switch hit anytime in the near to far future, maybe then I should change me name. Is the usual GuyNxtDoor224 handle more approachable for the female sex? Or maybe something like FootLong4Desire is the type of name that will invite more response to any of my IM attempt to start a chat? Then again, maybe I should just stay Curious and just not as Pervy?
I'm open to any feedback or response that you might have in the matter... just keep the gay psych analysis to a minimum.
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