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Posted:Nov 27, 2013 10:14 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2013 1:52 pm
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Well I am very pleased by what I have found here and who I have met, I wanted to take this chance to talk about another community I have been a part of from time to time that some of you may be interested in. For those of you who like cyber sex and digital flirting, I would suggest looking into redlightcenter also known as the uthervese. Its also a community of like minded individuals who are looking to explore. Its primary difference however is that you create an avatar (which has an impressive level of customization) and that avatar can perform sex acts with other avatars. Id be interested to know if anyone else has ever been on there or can suggest other similar communities
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Its just exploring...
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Posted:Nov 23, 2013 10:45 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2013 5:09 am
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I remember the first time I had a girl play with me anally. I was in college and it was with this girl who I had been flirting with and she came to my house for a party. Eventually we snuck off to my room to fool around. We had both stripped naked (She didn't shave, it was a very full bush and I also found this incredibly erotic. She also wore a sports bra, so I am not sure if she was just more down to earth or didn't plan to fool around). Anyways, in the course of foreplay, she started to finger my anus. While having never experienced this, it was a bit of a shock at first, but I let her continue. She did it for a while as we performed oral on each other and then eventually fucked. I'll admit its one of my best memories to go back on when I need to pleasure myself.
So fast forward to today. Its something I still enjoy, however finding willing partners to perform it is a bit of a challenge. Not sure why, other than the misconception that its a dirty act or it makes one gay. Its just another sexual dimension where one has a lot of nerve endings. Also, there is something I like about being penetrated when typically I am the one doing it.
So the question is, what is the proper way to convince a partner that this in an acceptable act ? What do I tell the women who I am with who are less experienced than me? Or is this a sign that I need to prescreen my partners better to be those who are familiar with with?
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Travel
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Posted:Nov 23, 2013 6:35 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 6:5 pm
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I recently just spent the last week away ( and a few days the last few weeks as well and a few days next week) and I noticed that for whatever reason, I am typically far more sexual when I am on the road. I find myself aroused easier (not a challenge to begin with), I find myself bolder in who I approach, and I find myself more creative sexually. So I am curious why.
I might argue that its a new environment with people I am less concerned about knowing what I do, do we get more adventurous when we know there is not a neighbor who will judge me for who comes and goes from my room, not concerned about getting shot down by those I will never see again? Or is it the change of pace that makes me rethink my norms?
Or has pop culture painted travel and time away from home as a time of awakening and we should expect this kind of stuff? IE, everyone meets their fantasy while on a trip, or that a trip has less repercussions?
What arouses you about travel?
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What makes an expert
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Posted:Nov 12, 2013 2:52 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2013 10:35 am
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So as I peruse the chat rooms, I always see a number of men claiming that they will be the best that a woman has ever had. And that got me thinking, while I claim that sometimes with certain acts, how can one really validate any of that? So I would challenge you readers to make a formula for how much ones sexual opinion is worth.
So lets start with the basics, number of sexual partners. Obviously practice makes perfect, so the variety of partners would help. I am going to weight that at 20%. Then, how many times you have been with each of those partners will establish a rhythm, which will help as well, so lets take the average times you have been with a partner and weight that 10%
Now, its comes down to experience in situations, so count the number of places and positions you have done and weight that for 20%
Next is something more subjective, and that is what you rank with your partners. They may just be talking you up, but there is probably some level of truth. So for each of your partners that have been with over 7 people and rated you in the top 3, give yourself a point.
So add that all up and you get score, I'd be interested to see what you think I should add, or what your scores are
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The shaved debate continued...
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Posted:Nov 11, 2013 5:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2013 10:35 am
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So a wonderful comment came on my last blog post and it got me thinking, and that is, should men these days be shaving? A1CockLover said she preferred a hairy man. So I always thought in some part I was shaving for the benefit of my partner, and vice versa my partners always shaved for my benefit. So I think we need to dive into this.
I would like to believe that shaving is a relatively new concept. Obviously historians can find examples of cultures that may have done it (I heard stories of the Egyptians), but look at any playboy or porno mag would show the practice became common place in the mid 90s. So for my entire sexual life, its been the assumed norm ( I personally believe I started around 19 after reading a maxim article that it made my manhood look bigger).
So when I polled a fellow member about the concept and why she shaves, she said it was for increased sensitivity. However, I realize I get a bit more when I do have some hair, and A1CockLover posted that she likes it to play and tease with. So the question is, is this something that is an inverse between men and women, women get more pleasure from being shaved and men get less?
Or is this an age thing, that is the younger are more concerned about the look of their naked bodies and currently its fashionable to be shaved, while over time maybe its a sign of of maturity, like greying hair.
So my opinion for now that is until requested otherwise, I will continue to shave as it the fashion. But I will also challenge my sexual partners to consider growing a small amount out.
Would love to hear comments, so post away
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Shaved is overdone
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Posted:Nov 10, 2013 8:05 pm
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2015 8:49 am
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So upon a review of my last few sexual partners, I have noticed a trend that needs to be discussed now: The assumption that fully shaved is sexy. While it has its place, I think that since every girl does it, ones loses a bit of individuality with it. If you want me to remember our night, make sure you don't look naked like everyone else. One of my sexiest memories from college was a girl who I fucked that didn't shave at all, just something very raw about her.
Some make the argument that its a simplicity/sanitary thing, and since I am a guy, I really can't speak to that. I can just say when I am performing oral, I like to have a bit of texture on you to play off of, something to show how much I have turned you on.
I'd love to hear some opinions, so please post
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