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Orally Fixated
 
Well this is my first blog. Not sure what these should be like but I'm giving it a try. So, I've been on LesbianPersonals for 6 months now. I have met one person on here and she has been great. I find myself drop-jawed at the times she has told me of her previous LesbianPersonals meetings with other guys on here. Apparently, men are Jerks, Assholes, Inconsiderate, and disrespectful. Oh, and they also don't know what they are doing in bed. I don't know what to say to that because I've always tried to make the other person happy. I'll say it makes me feel proud of the person that I am. I guess I sorta lack some confidence/self image but to her I'm awesome! I enjoy sex alot obviously as I put my name oral a ton but yeah sex is great. What gets me is that she told me that sex was blah to her. She never liked it but that when I had sex with her she tells me that its amazing asks me where I learned this stuff and keeps asking for More! I guess maybe I'm putting this on here to get some recognition and also to say that Ladies, Keep your head up and mind open. Not every guy you talk to on here is lacking what ur looking for. You can find what your Love or even your best fuck buddy or friend but dont write off that oh I met you on LesbianPersonals this is never going to work.
And to the guys, WTF is wrong with you chumps? Here's my best Suggestion for you: Read Men's Health. I've taken alot from there especially in the bedroom lots of good stuff to learn and try. And Please! Stop being assholes, dicks, disrespectful, Selfish, and Whatever the women on here are going to say bad about you. They deserve to be treated right so stop ruining what reputation I could have with them. And same goes to the LesbianPersonals meeting thing don't change how you treat a woman who u meet on here because she says she wants sex. That doesn't mean you can get away with treating her like shit Whether you met her on here or in person or from another site U treat them all the same. LesbianPersonals doesn't give you the right to change the way you can treat Women. Hopefully you can see how u are and adjust accordingly to make her Happy.
Thanks I'm going to leave on that.
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When Does Not Sexy Become Sexy Post 2 of 21
Posted:Nov 9, 2011 2:39 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2014 9:28 am
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Alright updating and I will look to post pics up with my next update. So started at 255 scaled in at 249 yesterday morning. Mostly diet and running on treadmill. Had a bad case of the flu for 3 days, stuff having to take care of in settling in to my new place but as of this post, I am fully able and prepared to take it up notches! Yes not a notch; notches! Going to do some AB work, lift some weights and continue with the running. Proud of myself on the diet, I've had cravings for a sweet, thought of buying a candy bar and then didn't! Drinking more water than ever and even went 4 days now without coffee! I'm really looking forward to having more energy and I'm sure less pain in my back and occasionally in my knees when I drop this weight.
I've made a commitment to not go out to bar until I fit in to a size smaller shirt XL vs XXL which has only been of recent months. I absolutely hate wearing XXL shirts they are just so bulky and have NO Clue! on form fitting the body. Not to mention how you just don't look good in any shirt at XXL. And Variety? Ha! go to a store look at the clothes and watch how its S,M,L,XL....all over but, XXL? Maybe 10% will go that far and the style of that 10%?! May as well stick to T-shirts. So I think I can find some sexiness when this is over just in the clothes I am able to choose from and wear. And in getting fit, maybe the clothes will actually form to my build more adding to the sexiness!

So, good start but much more work to be done I'll update in another 10 days til then!
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When Does Not Sexy turn to Sexy? Part 1 of Ongoing Personal Achievement
Posted:Jan 7, 2011 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2011 11:04 pm
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Alright so here it is my first blog in awhile. So, lemme get down to it. I'm a bigger guy, have been my whole life. I was 232lbs. at 5'7" as a freshman in H.S. Graduated at 275 at 5' 10" I played on the football team and I wish I could say that was behind my weight gain in H.S. but it wasn't. I really had nothing going for me in H.S. no style, glasses,no real look but dork. I was picked on sure, I even skipped school to avoid it. I didn't fit in was a rough stage growing up considering my homelife on top. My mom was a disabled...should say is she's still alive...350lb+ woman. The scale doesnt read out beyond that so I dunno how much she really weighed. But I got my poor eating habits as a / from her. There never was any nutritional foods. Eating half a pizza for dinner was probably a 3-4 time a week ritual. Then it was 2 plates of Spaghetti. Not to mention the candy bars lying around to snack on when the urge arised. So yeah, you should get the picture what lead to being obese. I topped out at 314lbs. my 20th birthday. And that's about the time I took matters in my own hands and began my battle with controlling my weight.
With that all said, I can pretty much say I've never been the one to be told I'm sexy. I did experience a brief period when I had it at 24 years of age til I was 25. I had actually gotten my weight down to 197 in the middle of that year under 20% body fat. But of course it wouldnt last as I suffered an ATV accident that left me with a compression fracture my T10 and T11vertebrae. My back has never been the same. It's not as easy for me to use the gym like I had before the injury. I know my back has never really healed the way it probably should have but bills had to be paid, and I've trudged through whatever tenderness/soreness that appears ever since.
I had a good relationship for 5years that ended a year ago practically to the day. Her and I met during that time I was around 200lbs. We had a together and it was over the year plus of her being pregnant and first 6months of our 's life that my battle with my weight had taken a back shelf to my new life becoming a father. I couldn't make the time to put in at the gym. My weight was 224 prior and as my profile states I moved back up to 255lbs. Do you think it was any coincidence the mother left me as the weight gain was being put on? I think so.
So, I'm single, and looking to get back into a new relationship. But I have to say being in/from Wisconsin vs. living down here the quality of women are far beyond what WI has to offer looks-wise. That goes for the men as well as I've seen in the gym. Think living on a beach has something to do with it? Competition-wise I'm beat hands down by many. And the women I believe to my observation, know they have their pick of whomever they want to bed with. Now, considering my outside looks currently, I dont really stand a chance and thus my entire reasoning behind this blog and the ongoing blogs that follow updating my progress at as JT put it "Getting my Sexy Back"

So if you happened to read my blogs thanks for stopping by and leaving your comments. Heres the first two pics of my Not Sexy self....Rate em if you want 1-10 on a sexy scale and every 10 days I'll be back to post more and see if my ratings jump up. I'm still at 236lbs. So Follow along with me as we shall see just exactly when the line of non sexy is crossed in to sexy.

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Are you a Sextor?
Posted:Mar 10, 2010 7:52 pm
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2011 4:36 pm
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So, Sexting. Do you do it? Whether it be dirty texting or plain dirty pic swapping.
Yes Both Text and Pic
Yes But only Dirty Texting
No
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What else is there to do...
Posted:Feb 25, 2007 10:52 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2011 8:15 pm
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Sitting home bored time to Blog Woohoo!! Now what to talk about. I know Lets talk about Sex. This is a Sex Community so why not I've gotten to experience some great sex Recently with the last Girl I met on here. So, Lets Question all of you this: What Makes Sex Great to you? What would Make Sex even Better to you? What is the Best Position that Gets you both off no matter What?
Some Great ?'s there right? My Answers on what makes sex great to me...Variety. Changing positions during sex keeps it exciting to me. The Woman being a bit aggressive at times. I've had the I'll just lay there and enjoy the show woman and that gets Lame fast. Having her want to be on Top is hott even though it doesn't feel as good usually it helps in the length of sex and she enjoys it more since she can control the movements. Its nice not having to do the work. Being Blown before/during and even after sex. That is awesome. When you are doing it before and keeping it slow it helps me as its like a warmup. I find I'm able to last longer when that occurs. But if you are fast it does the opposite. During is awesome too because its a mini break I'm not doing the work again. After is just whipped cream on top. I've already Cummed yet the feeling of your mouth after I'm spent just drives me crazy.
2nd response to ?'s I haven't really tried anal to much every woman I've been with has not wanted to do it. I'm not even sure if I'd like it but til I try it I'm just going to put this as one that'd make sex better. I think that if the girl I'm with would Masterbate in front of me would help as well. Everyone seems to always be shy to it. I'm talking getting so much into it I disappear from the room. But Usually on the attempts its a few minutes I'm embarrassed come on and just fuck me.
3rd Response to ?'s The one position that seems to be the best for both of us is when I'm kneeling next a bed/couch and she's laying down on the edge of said bed/couch. She's not going anywhere I'm firmly planted on the floor so it's consistent. Guys know this that when You are on the bed The sheets make you slide away and then you have to reposition yourself so its a pause and then going back at it. This Postion it just seems both of you are always in the same spot then its all about what you do with the legs or your arms to add to it. Being in Doggie Style the Slippage occurs as well but its on her part usually. The Ass position has got to be just right and it just seems the girl doesn't get the spot right even when you are telling her which way to move. So Kneeling on the floor with her on the edge of the bed/sofa works best. I'm sure this would apply if you were standing up and she was laying down on a Table maybe? Its just really easy to keep her in place and can reach out and touch/kiss many areas for added excitement. What are your Answers?
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RandomThoughts and Observations
Posted:Jan 29, 2007 12:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2011 8:15 pm
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Hi. I'm just up late and figured what the hell lets write something for the sake of passing time. Yeah, I'm a decent human being as my last blog noted which is cool and all. Things I've come to realize from LesbianPersonals though are, there are very few Women around Milwaukee who are on here. And while You may see New ones all the Time its likely just a Curiousity on a late nite that they happen to make a profile. Now as for me I'm in the bottom of anyone's list well cuz I'm not Mr. Hottstuff. What woman wants to have sex with an Average guy. Now when I say I'm not Mr Hottstuff I'm saying I'm not O.C. Material LOL. But I'm not ur token Big guy in TV just to have one. Average Joe is me. Anyways, back to the subject, I've realized that women on here Live in Chicago LMAO. Just Kidding but they dont hit up the Chat rooms especially the IMs. I wouldn't blame them either, I had a gf before and we tried to look for a partner to Threesome and it was under her profile. 40-70year old men would hit on her! She was 19-20! And it'd be like 6 of them at a time! You've got to be a premium member on here just to do anything. I was a member long time ago and you used to be able to do so much more for free. Now I think I couldn't even wink recently! I've come across the Groups now but I read stuff in there and almost always sounds like nothing is getting done. Here's a Question for you ladies...If I do just happen to catch you on IM what is the best way for me to get you to chat with me? I say HI, What's Up I'm close to you, Hey lets chat, I mean what would you answer too? Its like ur 4miles away from me I just want a chance to chat and I get declined? Chat with me for a min or two and then if your not feeling it say so its not that much to ask. I'm ranting I know I'm off subject.
Stuff I've realized...Yes I've tried some Bi chatting and I'll tell you this. Gay/Bi guys probably Hook up on here twice a week with various Men. If they tried. I've had some close encounters with almost trying something with a guy but That's not me. Was just interesting in seeing that I could hook up with a guy rather easily. Hey for you guys who want a blowjob and aren't having luck with getting a girl do it..If you can take the fact that its coming from a guy trust me u can get ur cock sucked. Now does that make you gay? If u have ur Cock sucked by a guy? and did nothing else? What if U sucked a Cock and did nothing else? Anyways moving on...for anywoman who might come across this feel free to write me anytime. You just may have fun getting to know me. Guys, Good Luck in ur Search. U probably outnumber the Local Women on here that visit daily like 75-1. So, Ur going to have to stand out in some way. and Be very lucky to catch them in a chatroom when you happen to be in one.
Okay, One last thought...I send women emails and you see that they've been online a week or so after you've sent them an email. Why is it so hard for you all to reply? Hit the Quick Reply and with the I don't think we have the same interests or something. Please. It's okay to say no but not having a response at all Sucks okay? I'll write a new blog another day. Leave me all the comments or advice you'd like its Appreciated. Have a Good Week
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First Blog...
Posted:Nov 5, 2006 5:23 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2010 3:24 am
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Well this is my first blog. Not sure what these should be like but I'm giving it a try. So, I've been on LesbianPersonals for 6 months now. I have met one person on here and she has been great. I find myself drop-jawed at the times she has told me of her previous LesbianPersonals meetings with other guys on here. Apparently, men are Jerks, Assholes, Inconsiderate, and disrespectful. Oh, and they also don't know what they are doing in bed. I don't know what to say to that because I've always tried to make the other person happy. I'll say it makes me feel proud of the person that I am. I guess I sorta lack some confidence/self image but to her I'm awesome! I enjoy sex alot obviously as I put my name oral a ton but yeah sex is great. What gets me is that she told me that sex was blah to her. She never liked it but that when I had sex with her she tells me that its amazing asks me where I learned this stuff and keeps asking for More! I guess maybe I'm putting this on here to get some recognition and also to say that Ladies, Keep your head up and mind open. Not every guy you talk to on here is lacking what ur looking for. You can find what your Love or even your best fuck buddy or friend but dont write off that oh I met you on LesbianPersonals this is never going to work.
And to the guys, WTF is wrong with you chumps? Here's my best Suggestion for you: Read Men's Health. I've taken alot from there especially in the bedroom lots of good stuff to learn and try. And Please! Stop being assholes, dicks, disrespectful, Selfish, and Whatever the women on here are going to say bad about you. They deserve to be treated right so stop ruining what reputation I could have with them. And same goes to the LesbianPersonals meeting thing don't change how you treat a woman who u meet on here because she says she wants sex. That doesn't mean you can get away with treating her like shit Whether you met her on here or in person or from another site U treat them all the same. LesbianPersonals doesn't give you the right to change the way you can treat Women. Hopefully you can see how u are and adjust accordingly to make her Happy.
Thanks I'm going to leave on that.
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