Topics and life
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Posted:Mar 21, 2016 5:18 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 2:25 am
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Sorry we have not posted in a bit. We have been busy and not really sure what to talk about again.
We have neen having fun in the lifestyle. We are helping out admin a Kik group as well as School and work for Andrea.
Keep the comments coming. Thanks for reading.
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Adding a second woman
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Posted:Mar 3, 2016 10:04 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2016 3:38 pm
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Are people successsful getting a woman to join them? We see ads all the time and there are several profiles on here that say that they are only looking for woman to join them.
As our topic from last week states we have been somewhat sucessful in adding the second male. There seems to be plenty of single males willing to try.
Thanks,
Marc and Andrea
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Threesomes
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Posted:Feb 26, 2016 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2016 9:43 am
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We may have to put an experience requirement on inviting additional males to our bed. We have done threesomes with 4 different men. 2 have been with men that have experience and 2 with men that did not have any experience. The two with experience went well and we all had fun.
Now the 2 with no experience there were issues. To all single men- out there for the woman to have fun IT MUST STAY HARD]. Her doing oral on you to get it hard and then you cannot get keep it up to "perform" what is the use? We can have sex with each other in our own bed on our own timeline.
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What we want vs. what they want us to want
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Posted:Feb 18, 2016 9:23 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2016 7:32 pm
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We have been chatting with several couples here recently. We have been asked what we want and if we have pictures from all of them. We are looking for separate room full swap. We do not do nude pictures. My wife does not have any desire to be with another woman. Some couples have asked why we are even in the lifestyle and others have called us prudish. (As stated in our last post)
We are always baffled when people get angry because we don’t want what they want. And I mean down right angry about it. Like we have gone out of our way to offend them or something. There’s no rule book or step by step guide for this. Every couple has their own wants, needs, and desires. If we can match up well enough that things work out and everyone can have a good time that’s great. If it doesn’t then that’s fine too. We aren’t going to criticize another couple/ person for wanting what they want. We do not want a single female to join us, we do not mind an occasional single male or a MWM 3some. So what? Why do people feel the need to criticize us for knowing what we want and sticking to it? We do not ask others to change what they want. We are tired of being told that we need to change because we’re doing this wrong. There is no right or wrong.
Thank you for your time and keep the comments coming. We like to hear from you all.
Marc and Andrea
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Meetings
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Posted:Feb 11, 2016 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2016 7:58 pm
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We are always nervous when we meet with new people. There is that thrill and anticipation but also the fear.
Am I or will I be attracted to them? Them to us? Will it be fun or a disappointment? Do they have any weird abnormalities they didn't bother to mention? (Yes we have run into that before. A penis should not face to the side. Nor should one lip be twice as big as the other. Same couple by the way.)
We have friends who claim that they never worry about it but how do you not? Ugh!
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Pics
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Posted:Feb 6, 2016 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2016 9:07 pm
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Why is it when you are on here or other forms of chats if you do not want to share any nudes you are some kind of prude or "nun".
Then they have to continue to run at you till they run you off. Assholes all of them.
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Shaving
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Posted:Jan 30, 2016 11:24 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2016 9:09 am
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Seriously, what the heck is it with everyone shaving? Iam a grown woman. I neither need nor want to look like a 12 year old girl. Been there, matured past that. I have earned the body that I have and am proud of the way I look. Quite frankly even the thought of shaving grosses me out.
And it's not like most people, at least that we have met, are diligent about maintaining it. It is extremely unpleasant to end up with whisker burn around my mouth and I know my husband agrees. Also, it is rather insulting that someone can't be bothered to shave when the date was prearranged. Is it really that big a surprise that something arranged at LEAST 24 hours beforehand actually comes to pass?
Not to mention the fact that research shows that there is a far greater chance of getting an STD when you're shaved. We personally always use condoms except with oral so we have reduced our chances down to our acceptable levels but there are PLENTY of people who don't. I understand making the choice to not use condoms even if I don't agree with it but I don't understand not doing one little thing to increase your safety. Seriously. What the heck??
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Small Community
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Posted:Jan 19, 2016 1:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2016 2:29 pm
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Hello everyone,
We have found that living in a small community makes meeting other swingers and singles difficult.
Funny thing is we went to a passioin party of a couple that we met on here and ran in to the couple that we did our first swap with. The couple we met on here had been friends with the male half for more than 25 years.
The swap did not go well. So it was a little akward. Then human nature takes ahold and you wonder what was said after we left.
Anyone else run in to this?
Hear from you soon,
Marc and Andrea
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New Year
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Posted:Jan 2, 2016 3:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2016 12:14 am
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We have been in the lifestyle for more than a year now. Had some ups and downs. We work a lot but we have made time when we can. To those we have met thank you for your time. To those we have not been able to catch up with lets hope with the new year some additonal time will come up.
We are still looking for topics if there is something that you would like us to talk about.
Thanks to those who read and especially those that take the time to comment. Keep them coming.
Marc and Andrea
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First requests
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Posted:Dec 23, 2015 9:56 pm
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2015 7:56 pm
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oral2plsu2: We have not done anything with the 2 of us and a woman. We have done MWM threesomes but not any WMW.
kzoopair: That is an intersting view of what to write about. We certainly will think about what have said.
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We are not sure what to write about.
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Posted:Dec 22, 2015 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2016 3:54 pm
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If you have any suggestions for us to write about please feel free to give us a suggestion. Leave a comment or send us a message and we will try to oblige
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Holidays
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Posted:Dec 16, 2015 8:55 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 2:25 am
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Man the holidays make doing anything tough. We would love to get together with people but with our odd schedules it has been tough.
We like to chat so send us a mail and hopfully in the new year we can meet.
Hear from people soon,
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New Friends
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Posted:Nov 18, 2015 8:33 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2015 9:07 pm
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We have made some new friends in the last month or so. We would like to thank those we have talked with and those we have met. Been an intersting month.
We like to chat so hit us up on IM.
Thanks,
Marc and Andrea
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