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i am learning
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Posted:May 23, 2014 12:30 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2014 1:28 pm
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I was born in the 50's schooled in the 60's married in the late 60's divorced in the early 70's remarried in the late 70's and widowed in 2006 being raised in the 50's and 60's I was of one mind set as I have gotten older I have mellowed out some learned a lot and am still learning  .I used to be dead set against mixed marriages but I have come to accept them I was not comfortable with the GLBT community but I have accepted them and even participate with them now .and until the other day I had only a cursory dealing which was bad with the BDSM community .in 1972 I was learning how to ride and take care of horses I had always loved them since I was a I was progressing quite well I was up to 3rd level dressage could ride a jump course cleanly quite often and was training for cross country the instructor I had was an older woman who quite frankly looked a looked more like a man than woman but she was good at what she did for several weeks we would talk while doing our cool down rides and I felt comfortable enough to talk openly with her and I mentioned that I was going to a meeting that included people from the BDSM community because I was interested in that then I said it kinda turned me on as an off hand remark. Well about a week later I was cleaning out one of the horses stalls and missed a couple manure piles and threw clean straw bedding over them. well all hell broke loose the instructor whose name was Anna took mr by the arm and showed me what I did before I could react she had me in a position of vulnerability and started to wail on my butt and legs with a crop and said you want to be abused well here you are . when you come back here you will refer to me as Miss not Anna any more .needless to say I did not ever go back I gave up my lessons and did not mess with horses for another 7 years I also never spoke to anyone about that day just told people I was tired of it . that was my experience with that so it soured me on the BDSM community .after 7 years I finally went back to working and riding horses and I still do today but in a totally different style of riding now I ride endurance .but that's neither here nor there any way getting back to my topic I have always since that time been very prejudice against the BDSM community . between the stories I read the videos I saw . and what I heard people talking about did not help my feelings so much to the point I told my that I loved her but she was not allowed in my house wearing a collar from her boyfriend and her boyfriend would become pig food if he ever crossed my doorstep well since I made a post the other day and got such negative feed back that was actually good if you can understand that I now have a somewhat better understanding of some of the premises of the BDSM community the responders explained to me that the collar was more like the wedding ring I gave my wife and that supposedly nothing was done that did not have both parties approval so I must say I have learned and will now look at the community in a different light I will no longer act like a moron as I was told and yes all the while some of the tenants of the BDSM community did excite and arouse me maybe I can follow up on them with a better understanding and I will call my this week sometime and apologues to her and welcome her back if she wants
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HAPPY MOTHERS DAY
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Posted:May 11, 2014 5:18 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2014 12:28 am
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To all the Mothers ,Mothers to be ,Mothers that want to be and Mothers that were Happy Mothers Day you ladies do a job that not enough money can be paid for to raise and nurture the young ones .most of the men I know including my self would not want to take on that endeavor ourselves alone as many of you do .and to all those men ( using the term men loosely) who helped make these women mothers with your few minutes pleasure remember to treat them right with the same dignity and respect you would want for yourself .as in the 40's,50's,and 60's we as boys cut ourselves and become blood brothers so you have done the same by mixing bodily fluids you and your or the lady are blood brothers remember the mother of that should never walk behind nor in front she should always walk at your side as partners for life and in life
Just the thoughts of a crazy old man
Happy Mothers Day 
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continuation speaking of hiding hings
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Posted:May 8, 2014 3:54 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 12:41 am
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lately I have been seeing articles about being googled be fore trying to get to know someone or meeting with them this is a very safe practice or as safe as one can get now a days problem is in my case anyways I don't think anything will come up here but I have gotten to the point where I will tell whom ever I am talking with what to google to see me my family and just about all you want to know about me I have nothing to hide that is why I do that I don't worry because nobody will get anything from me cause I have nothing and I am not paranoid about anything either you like what you see or you don't that is your call I'm not trying to be nasty but I've lived to long and life is to short to worry about anything anymore just want to live it out and enjoy what is left  
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couple funny thing well not so much
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Posted:May 8, 2014 3:16 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 12:41 am
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to all the lovely or not so lovely ladies out there who are coming on this site to find the love of your life or a quick green card  even most of the women who post they are looking for this or that please put up a picture and fill out the questions and answers so some one who actually reads profiles (yes, there some of us males who do that ) so that we can possibly tell something about you other than black silhouette of you and not sure or I prefer not to say those are cop outs which means your hiding something ..
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Fore play and after play
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Posted:May 3, 2014 6:34 am
Last Updated:May 4, 2014 3:40 am
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ln my warped mind just having sex is just that having good sex involves foreplay and sex and great sex is having fore play sex and after play that being said the word sex connotes the screwing part but I really get into the fore and after play fore play can start anytime a day or more before with just a wink a smile or just a light touch it could also be called teasing but it all leads up to hopefully the same result as the time gets closer the actions move forward to the shoulder rub some intimate touching ,kissing ,all the things done before penetration .then you have the screwing or sex now to me one of the best parts is NT rolling off and going to sleep or getting up unless getting up is to get something to eat or drink or maybe even a warm wash cloth ,for your partner then you get to more kissing cuddling and maybe another back rub even if just lying on your side rubbing their back then if you and they like it maybe some deeper more intimate kissing ( can't spell so using these phrases ) but most of you know what I'm referring to t would want to bring my partner down from a wonderful orgasm slowly its just the way I feel
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am i wrong
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Posted:Apr 30, 2014 6:49 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2014 7:34 pm
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in my previous post I wondered about real subs and dooms this is in same context I have had a longing to be taken by a woman with a strap on as my wife did but what I can't stand is the degradation that most women want to go along with it can't anyone have that desire for that with a loving attitude
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i will never understand
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Posted:Apr 28, 2014 11:38 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2014 7:35 pm
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I have been around a long time longer than most people on this site or many of the other sites I came up with yahoo chat and have seen and read and heard many unusual fetishes .but the one that I will never under stand is ( now I expect to get some flack on this ) is why would someone want to be a slave to anyone ,bow down to their every wish even if it causes pain to some of the extremes that they do .do they have no self respect or dignity I wish someone could logically explain that to me . I am all about making my partner feel good but to go to the extremes some of these people do still baffles me
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