so for all the basic members out there you have IM and groups. I am out of membership at the moment and it made me think back when i joined i was on IM daily and i was lucky to talk to a girl maybe 1-2 a week if that, things have not changed much. groups were the only way to go! but now all of the ones i am in have died! why can we go back to the way things where and help the non mems and all the people in between their memberships out! so every who reads things pass it on to two people and join a local group today