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Posted:Jan 26, 2016 9:45 am
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Hey!
Since LesbianPersonals has decided to make it so that standard members can't read messages, I am creating this guest book for folks to comment, or message me!
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dreaming out loud!
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Posted:Sep 30, 2016 6:55 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2017 6:15 am
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This is where my mind is at right now!
a message to a woman! who will take me up on this?
All I can think about is coming to visit your office and pretending we have a meeting then closing your door and pushing you up against it while I start to passionately kiss your my hands grabbing your ass then moving up to your tits. frantically taking our clothes off, I pull you pants down and take you towards your desk and bend you over, I can wait I just need to be inside you, I slide my cock inside you keeping you bent overs I want you to cum on my hard cock, i slide it in slowly back and forth until you orgasm then i immediately cum.
I turn you around and we start to kiss while you slowly stroke my cock getting me hard again. this time we can take the second orgasm slower, I lift you on to your desk and begin to lick your clit, I can feel your clit throbbing and you are so wet from fucking my beard is soaked immediately. I lick your clit until you orgasm. then when you just climax, I start to massage your legs they are shaking for the orgasm I gently bring them back to feeling normal.
I sit in your office chair, you walk over and turn around in front of me so I can spank your ass... oops I left a hand mark. I spread my legs and then guide your hips slowly down on my cock while you stay standing, I am going to control your body this time. I can feel your pussy so wet I pull your hips down further so my full cock is as deep as possible you take weight off your feet so that all that is holding you up is my hard throbbing cock, then I reach around and start playing with your clit, my cock is throbbing inside you, I can feel you about to orgasm I reach with my other hand to grab your tit you orgasm so hard i feel it on every inch of my cock!
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Bondage and massage - Bondassage
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Posted:Mar 31, 2016 10:28 am
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2016 7:23 am
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Found this article and was super intrigued! I know KinkyFem will love this! Wish I had someone to try this out with!!
Once you let go, you begin to find a sense of peace, autonomy, and orgasmic connection to life that eludes so many of us in the modern world.
We’ve all been there, the excitement of the early days of the relationship begins to fade, and the sexual repertoire begins to go stale. It can be disappointing and even scary. Suddenly, you and your partner have to work to keep things exciting, or passionate in the bedroom.
In a world where sex has all too often become boring and routine, this is a crucial stage in your relationship. The actions taken will either lead you to fulfil the potential of your emotional, spiritual, and orgasmic selves, or flatline and fizzle out.
It allows you to explore your desires and boundaries safely, experience a range of new sensations, and discover new and unimagined erotic possibilities.
Bondassage is a gentle (or not so gentle if you prefer..) introduction to the exquisite art of BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission). Many of us are curious about the timeless art of liberation through constraint—and for good reason! Sexual surrender is ultimately freeing.
Once you let go, you begin to find a sense of peace, autonomy, and orgasmic connection to life that eludes so many of us in the modern world.
Surrendering allows us to drop the barriers to real feeling.
All of the senses become heightened. We regain our capacity to bask in the subtle range of sensation—in the sexual experience, and in every aspect of life.
A Step by Step Guide to Bondassage for Enlightened Lovers
#1 Set a Time
Even though five hours of play sounds delightful, it may not be the best idea. Think quality not quantity. Shorter sessions can be better and it’s always nicer to leave your lover wanting more.
#2 Set the Scene
With Bondassage, the atmosphere you create means just as much as the implements and techniques you use.
By setting the scene just so, you create a bubble for the two of you to explore your wildest dreams and have deep connection and intimacy.
You will need:
The Right Temperature: A warm room feels delightful on the naked skin.
Supplies: Sheets (satin sheets are delicious), towels for wiping down your lover after the session, and warm massage oil (I personally love coconut oil, unscented). Tissues, lubricants and condoms, a sarong or blanket, water, chocolate or fresh fruit for aftercare.
Bondage gear and toys: This could mean a trip to the sex store, or you can just buy online if you’re shy. You’ll need a blindfold, restraints for ankles and wrists, rope cut to measure for tying, and some toys for sensation play, like fluffy floggers, feathers, and sex toys. Other items you can use from around the house include: Fork, hair comb, chopsticks, wooden spoon, loofah, ice cubes, silk scarves, makeup brushes etc. Be creative in choosing.
Music: Choose soothing, sensual music, something that promotes relaxation and won’t distract your lover from the experience. Instrumental is always a good choice. Wireless headphones are a delight to use, but if you use corded headphones, make sure the cord will be out of the way.
#3 Have A Pre-Play Discussion
As with any sexual play, it’s important that you both communicate your sexual wants and needs beforehand to make sure your session has the desired outcome. For the person receiving, you may wish to outline your limits, how you wish to be touched, spanked etc.
Be honest.
If the giver does something that you’re not comfortable with, speak up as soon as
possible. Be gentle but clear. You could say something like, “I prefer you not do that,” or if an adjustment, “a little slower please.”
As the giver, be open to the feedback you receive from your lover and thank them.
# 4 Let the Session Begin
Ask your partner to lay face down on either a massage table or bed. Lightly tie their wrists and ankles apart with soft rope or light restraints. Place the blindfold and headphones on and check for comfort.
With bare, lightly oiled hands, softly stroke and rock your partner’s body starting from the shoulders and working your way down and up again. Use the sensation tools and alternate between periods of light sensation play and massage. Visit the genital and bottom area often. Wipe off any excess oil and finish off the sequence with some nice slow flogging or spanking.
Next, have your partner to turn over. Adjust the blindfold and headphones and restrain them again, asking them not to move a muscle.
Begin by using soft sensation play items over the front of the body. Then pour warm oil onto your hands. Slowly and lovingly massage your partner, starting at the chest and working your way down the feet. If you wish to use a flogger but don’t want to get it oily, just cover the area with a satin pillowcase and flog them through that.
Start to pay more attention to the genitals using a variety of strokes, pressures, and tempos with your hands, vibrators, or toys, increasing or decreasing the amount of sexual energy as you desire.
As the giver, you decide whether your partner has a delightful orgasm…or not. As
the receiver, you’ll want to surrender to the giver’s desires.
#5 Care For Your Lover Afterwards
After you finish, cover your lover with a blanket or sarong, remove the restraints, and give them time to ease back into the space. Give them water and perhaps a gift, like chocolate.
Stay present with your lover.
If they give you feedback, just listen and thank them. Praise them for being brave/responsive/fun and give them a hug or kiss, whatever feels right for the both of you in that moment.
A leisurely bath or shower is a lovely way to end the session.
Bondassage brings you back into the body, giving a release from the pressures of expectation and performance.
It offers a safe and healing space to explore the world of sensory play and rediscover your true sensual nature.
Get creative and experience the magic of Bondassage for yourself!
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Egyptian orgasms
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Posted:Mar 8, 2016 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 9, 2016 6:12 am
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I am horny as usually so I started reading about egyptian sex and orgasms and found this written by Drunvalo. Would be fun to try this out and see how orgasmic it is!
“The ancient egyptians believed that orgasm is more than just something that feels good and allows procreation…”
They believed that an orgasm is sacred!
And that if the energy of an orgasm would be harnessed in the right way, it would become a source of infinite pranic energy and thus lead to eternal life.
In this article we will explore the incredible benefits of an orgasm according to the ancient Egyptians and their ways of harnessing its rejuvenating power
3 Incredible Benefits of the [Egyptian] Orgasm
#1 Helps Prevent Physical And Emotional Disease
According to the ancient egyptians the orgasmic release dispels dysfunctional energy from the body which can help prevent disease from manifesting.
#2 Helps Raise Consciousness
They also believed an orgasm opens the higher chakras, and under the right conditions allows a person to begin the process of enlightenment, leading to higher consciousness and into worlds beyond this plane.
#3 Increase Strength and Vitality
They also believed that an orgasm can increase your life force energy and make you stronger, more alive, revitalize your relationships, and perhaps lead you into eternal life.
However, most people are ignorant about what happens to their sexual energy after they have had an orgasm.
According to ancient traditions such as the Hindu, Tibetan Tantra and Taoist the orgasmic energy moves up the spine and out the top of the head.
In a few rare cases, the sexual energy is released down the spine into the hidden center below the feet, the point opposite the one above the head. In either case, the sexual energy – the concentrated life-force energy called prana in Hinduism – is dissipated and lost. It is similar to discharging a battery into a ground wire. It is no longer in the battery and so it is gone forever.
This is what the world’s Tantric systems that I am aware of believe: orgasm and ejaculation brings one a little closer to death because a person loses his or her life-force energy in the orgasm and is made weaker. It is for this reason that the Hindu, Tibetan Tantra and Taoist systems ask the male to avoid ejaculating.
But the Egyptians found long ago, that it does not have to be this way.
Egyptians believed orgasms are healthy and necessary, including the release of sperm in males, but that the sexual energy currents must be controlled in a deeply esoteric procedure that is unlike any other system.
They believed that if this energy is controlled, the human orgasm becomes a source of infinite pranic energy that is not lost. They believe that the entire Mer-Ka-Ba or lightbody (the field of energy surrounding the body) benefits from this sexual release. They even believe that under the right conditions the orgasm will directly lead to eternal life, and that the ankh is the key.
The Egyptians developed a system, unlike any other, to allow them harness this orgasmic energy and use it to empower and rejuvenate themselves.
While the full subject of Egyptian Tantra is incredibly complex, I will share with you one simple sexual technique to control these sexual currents, increase your life force energy, and help to bring strength and vitality into your body and your relationships
#1 .. by observing the flow of sexual energy
The symbol above may look familiar to you. It is commonly depicted as the ankh – the Ancient Egyptian symbol for life. The ankh is key. It relates directly to how the Egyptians believed energy circulates through the body:
Take a look at the graphics below. This is how the ancient egyptians believed energy flows through the body. They believed it comes from the center of the body (a.).
From the front view of a human, they would appear as (b). In the center of the cross there is a hidden energy line coming straight off the page and also moving in the opposite direction away from the reader.
The same energies from the side of a human being would appear different than you would expect. There is another energy-flow ”tube” there circling up and over the head
#2 .. by using the wisdom of the ankh
For purposes of healing, the Egyptians used long rods, often made of wood. These rods had a tuning fork on the bottom end, and the top end had four different types of devices that could be attached.
One of these devices was in the shape of the ankh.
What was discovered is that if you attach the ankh on the top of the rod, the vibration from the tuning fork lasts a great deal longer. The energy wraps around back into the rod along the curve of the ankh, moving downward as it returns, thereby sustaining the energy.
If you apply this idea to the human spine, you can see why the energy of the orgasm enhances the entire human system as the energy wraps itself back around and back into the human meridians.
This is the key to why the Egyptians performed the particular practice of sexual ankhing. They found that if they had an orgasm and let it go out the top or bottom of the spine, the sexual energy was lost.
But if the sexual energy was guided by consciousness to move into the ankh conduit, it would come back into the spine and continue to resonate and vibrate.
The life-force energy was not lost. In actual experience, it seems to increase the energy. One does not feel depleted after sex, but rather recharged.
This technique begins as you feel the orgasm energy building. Whatever you do sexually before the orgasm is completely up to you.
Step#1 Let the sexual energy rise
The moment you feel the sexual energy about to rise up your spine, take a very deep breath, filling your lungs about 9/10th full and hold your breath. Allow the sexual energy of the orgasm to come up your spine.
Step #2 Consciously change direction of the flow
As soon as you feel the energy reach your sternum, with your willpower you must turn the flow of sexual energy 90 degrees out the back of the body. It will then enter the ankh tube.
Step #3 Allow the energy to circulate
The orgasmic energy will automatically continue inside the ankh tube. It will then continue to curve around until it returns to your chest, where it began, only this time in the front of the body. It will often slow down as it approaches its point of origin, and there is sometimes a tremendous jolt as it reconnects with the body.
All of this takes place while you are holding your first breath.
Step #4 Fill your lungs completely
The instant the sexual energy reconnects with its source, take in the full breath. You had filled your lungs only 9/10th full, so now fill your lungs as completely as you can.
Step #5 Exhale slowly
Now exhale very, very slowly. The sexual energy will continue on around the ankh channel as long as you are exhaling.
#6 Relax your breath to normal rate
When you reach the bottom of this breath, continue to breathe deeply until you feel the relaxation begin to spread throughout your body. Then relax your breath to your normal rate. If possible, allow yourself to completely relax, or even sleep for a while afterward.
“Feel every cell becoming rejuvenated by this life-force energy. Let this energy reach down into the deepest physical levels of your body structure, even past the cellular level.”
Feel how this beautiful energy surrounds your very being and brings health to your body, mind, and heart.
Remember, it will take some practice to fully control this orgasmic energy. If for any reason this practice does not feel right, stop and return to normal. It just is not the right time for you yet.
Once it is learned, you won’t ever want to have an orgasm any other way. It’s too powerful and feels too good.
However, you will have to decide for yourself if it is something you wish to practice.
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Some sex positions!!
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Posted:Feb 10, 2016 6:28 am
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2016 9:05 am
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Well I haven't posted a blog about sex positions in awhile, here are some for you to try! and if you want some help with them let me know!!!
The Ballet Dancer
Face him and push him against a wall. While standing on one leg, wrap your other leg around him. Have him hold your leg or your hips for support. This is a very sensual position. It may be a little harder to do if there is a large height difference between the two of you, but try it anyways. It’s worth it.
Reverse Cowgirl
Here is a move you’re both guaranteed to love. While he’s lying down, straddle him but facing his feet. This is a particularly kinky position because you’ll have most of the control, so take advantage by teasing him a little by speeding up and then slowing down. The reverse cowgirl also provides him with an excellent view of your butt.
Spank Me Maybe
This sex position is a great move if you want to give him a little more control. Start in reverse cowgirl and have him sit up with his legs still extended. Lie forward between his legs. Your legs will be extended back while your torso is between his thighs. This move is great for some spanking and hair pulling.
The Om
While he sits cross-legged, sit on his lap while facing him and wrap your arms and legs around him in a passionate embrace. The key is to rock back and forth, not to thrust. This position is great for intimacy and kissing while you rock to orgasm.
Downward Facing Doggie
Yogis and yogis-to-be will love this move. For those who are unfamiliar with yoga, begin in the normal doggie style position and, with your hands still on the floor, place your feet flat on the floor and lift your butt high in the air, creating a pyramid. Have him hold onto your hips while he thrusts into you. Like doggie style, this position is great for deep penetration and G-spot stimulation.
The Swimmer
Lie on your front with your legs apart and arms extended over your head, like you’re swimming. Your man lies on top of you (think missionary, but you’re lying on your stomach and not your back). Bring your feet closer together for a tighter squeeze.
The Basket
Visual stimulation and comfort to help achieve orgasm are easy with this sex position. The man sits flat on the bed, with one leg out straight and the other bent at the knee. Sit on his lap to achieve deep penetration and clitoral friction.
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Magic fingering techniques
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Posted:Feb 3, 2016 6:48 am
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2016 3:08 pm
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Using your fingers on a woman's vagina can reap amazing results — given that you use the right finger techniques. Of course, it's up to you to figure out exactly what your particular woman prefers when it comes to speed, tempo and amount of fingers.
Before you get to work, however, there's one thing that's certain: A woman needs to be revved up and ready to go before you can manipulate her vagina with these techniques. You can't just shove your fingers inside her or rub her clitoris without ensuring arousal first. So, remember to turn her on before you introduce her to your hands.
The rubber
The clitoris is the place to stimulate for most women. When she's adequately self-lubricated, or you've put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Her reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should you go so fast that you end up losing focus.
If she yells out something like "Don't stop!" then don't stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break from the clitoris and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside the vagina at a rhythmic pace. Take cues from her reactions to see if she's one of these women.
The fastest finger
Does your woman prefer to have slow, exaggerated sex, or does she like to hop up and down on you like a bunny? If it's the latter, using your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speeds may be beneficial in the orgasm department.
For this finger technique, you'd be best served to position yourself in front of her vagina (that is, spread her legs open and kneel in between them). That way, you can keep your hand straight and ensure that your finger(s) is (are) going in at full capacity. It also lessens the chances of missing your target.
The helping hand
If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she'll keep getting wetter. While using the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. It's not a race, however; you don't have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she'll let you know.
The screw
In the spirit of the "fastest finger" technique, you'll need to use your index and middle fingers for this one. Again, sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your fingers all the way in, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and comes out. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches orgasm.
Tip: When you turn your hand so that your palm faces up, tap her clitoris with your thumb each time.
The G-spot indicator
Sitting in front of her with your palm facing up, insert your finger(s) inside her and make a "come hither" motion. Your objective is to try to tap her belly button from the inside, in effect, hitting her G-spot. Don't get aggressive right away, however. Start off slowly and, judging by her reaction, keep the same pace or increase speed.
The shocker
If you and your woman enjoy experimenting and you've explored the back end before, this one may be quite enjoyable for her. While you're using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, stick your pinkie finger in her anus (your hand must be sideways — that is, your palm would be facing her thigh). While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously.
Keep in mind that after you place a finger into her anus, you cannot place that same finger into her vagina — it may lead to an infection.
The slider
This finger technique needs good lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Get back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver.
can't put my finger on it
Manipulating the vagina to orgasm is not as difficult as you may think. Once you manage to arouse her mind, her body will follow. And of course, you should encourage her to be vocal about what she likes.
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at the library
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Posted:Jan 21, 2016 10:53 am
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2016 6:34 am
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So I haven't been having a ton of luck on this site, but I also haven't been putting in a lot of effort either, so you get what you give, but earlier this month I had an amazing encounter that I am still thinking about when I masturbate!
I messaged her through chat in the morning and we hit it off well. after an hour we were texting, and trading pictures. It ended up that we were both really horny! but alas she was at work. It turns out we are both into sex in public places and started chatting about that. Well when she told me she works at a public library I was so turned on, I have always wanted to have sex at the library! all those books and ideas and minds its pretty hot!
So she said there was a back room and if I came down we could sneak in there, She had had some pretty poor performances from guys on here so I told her we could start with me making her orgasm and then go from there.
I walked into the library and texted I was there she told me to go find a section and she would come find me, as I walked in and began to walk past the stacks we ended up crossing paths and we brushed elbows and she said she would be right back! so I went and picked up a book and started reading the back of the book, she walked by and said to follow her she lead me to a store room that was slightly propped open.
We walked in and she locked the door behind us, I quickly took my coat off and we looked at each then immediately began kissing, she was a great kisser and it was hot and heavy really quick! I pushed her up against the door and I began caressing her breast and rubbing my fingers over her pants, she immediately dropped her pants and I slide my fingers into her already really wet pussy while we continued to make out after about five minutes she came pretty hard, I had her sit down on a box in the room and got on my knees and began licking her really nice and wet pussy. She came a second time then she asked to suck my cock!
I was so hard and throbbing by this point so I quickly undid my pants and she too my hard cock into her mouth. after a couple minutes I started getting close to climaxing so knowing we had limited time I said, if you want me to fuck you it has to happen now! I bent her over the box and slid a condom on and grabber her hips and fucked her from behind! I could feel her cumming it was so hot! then I sat on the box and she rode me before taking my cock in her mouth before I came all over the storage room floor!
We made out for another 5 minutes before we agreed it was time to get out, I left first and headed straight to the washroom to freshen up.
On my way out I saw her at her desk helping a library patron.
Kind of renewed my faith in this site! and I have been extra horny ever since!!
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Seven ways to extend your orgasm!
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Posted:Jan 19, 2016 1:18 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2016 2:26 pm
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#1 Relax
This is so important. The more relaxed you are, the easier it is to become (and stay) aroused.
#2 Breathe
You can experiment with fast mouth breathing, full belly breathing and full retention. When you are holding a full breath in, send it down to your genitals.
#3 Continuous sound
As you are starting to orgasm, take a deep breath and make a continuous ‘Aaaaaaaahhh’ sound. This is a way to stay focused and open the throat chakra.
#4 Movement
Create gentle convulsions through your spine, move your hips back and forth, side to side, in circles and bounce them on ground.
#5 Express Your Emotions
Many women don’t experience deep orgasms (and some don’t orgasm at all) because they suppress their emotions. Share what you are feeling.
#6 Focus On The Sensations
Some women lose their orgasm because their mind drifts away. Keep focusing on the sensations in your body, remembering that: where awareness goes, energy flows.
#7 Ride the wave
See an orgasm like a wave in the ocean. Ride the wave of pleasure and stay on the wave in order to stay in the orgasm.
I hope these techniques will help you to dive deeper into the depth and potential of your pleasure. Trust that there is so much more to discover if only we start to explore the ocean.
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5 erogenous zones men should pay attention to!
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Posted:Jul 15, 2015 6:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 3:53 pm
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1. The area just above your vagina. No, it's not your vagina or your clitoris, but it's not just a patch of skin that your bikini bottom covers, either—this spot is surprisingly sensitive. Your man can stimulate this area (known as the "mons pubis," or the fatty tissue that cushions your pubic bone) during sex with "a caress, stroke, or otherwise gentle touch," Greer suggests. And guys, if you're reading this: "[You can] also try a few affectionate kisses to give your partner a preview of what's coming next!"
2. The U-spot. A close cousin to the G-spot, this spot is located at "the opening to the urethra, right above the vaginal opening," says Greer. While not all women respond to U-spot stimulation, those who do "enjoy gentle caressing or stroking with fingers or tongue." If it's not for you, just stick to direct clitoral action.
3. Your lips. OK, this might seem obvious, but after a mini makeout session, your mouth often gets left behind for the more obvious erogenous zones. But your guy should bring your lips back into the action as much as possible, because deep kissing helps women get and stay aroused.
4. Inner thighs. They're not just to wrap around your man while he's in missionary position. Your inner thighs are extra sensitive to your partner's nibbles, nips, and licks. On a hot summer day, ask your guy to "trace an ice cube up and down [your thighs] and explore that new sensation," suggests Greer.
5. The nape of your neck. If you're a neck person, you know it. "The nape and back of your neck have so many nerve endings that a light touch is all that's needed to drive [you] and your partner wild," says Greer. If you're not sure about your guy, she suggests running your fingers lightly up and down his neck while kissing. And if he's not paying enough attention to yours, simply tilt your head to the side and offer it up True Blood-style with a sexy "kiss me here" command.
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6 blow job tips
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Posted:Jul 10, 2015 7:52 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2016 1:13 pm
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I was traveling in central America with a girl and we were at a hostel, now hostel sex is awkward, but where there is a will there is a way!
We were hanging out with this gay guy and he pulled the woman I was with away and gave her some sweet blow job tricks, that night, I got the best BJ of my life from her!
I don't know exactly what he told her...
but here are 6 tips that I agree with from the experts!
1. Foreplay: I am constantly surprised to hear students tell me that men don't enjoy foreplay as much as women do. This is simply untrue. Men may never actually tell you that they like foreplay, but your guy will have much more powerful and enjoyable orgasms if you engage in foreplay with him before actually giving him a blow job. The same is true for regular sex. Thankfully, foreplay is pretty easy. Your man will enjoy most of the same things that you enjoy during foreplay.
Think about how you kiss him. Don't just give him a peck on the cheek, pay some attention to the rest of his body too. Not just his neck and cheeks, try kissing him all over his stomach and back as well. You'll even find that kissing his legs, right up to his groin can make for a really hot prelude before you get down to using my other blowjob techniques.
2. From The Base To The Tip: At this stage, your man will be very eager to start getting some oral sex from you. This is perfect. This next blow job technique is the perfect way to transition to giving him an actual blow job. Start by taking his trousers/briefs off so everything is easier to access. Gently hold the base of his penis in your hand and then use your tongue to slowly lick it from the base right to the tip. You can try licking from the tip down to the base of his cock too, but often you'll find it to be a little awkward.
Rather than just constantly licking straight from the bottom to the top, try a few variations of this technique. Try moving your tongue from side-to-side as you make your way from the base to the tip. You'll also find that your man loves it when you pay most of your attention to the top of his member.
3. Not Just In And Out: You'll find that the 2 blow job techniques that I have just described will mostly help for the foreplay part. Now it's time to actually start giving him a proper blow job. One of the major mistakes that girls constantly make is using the same old boring oral sex techniques over and over on their man, instead of using a little variation. The main blow job technique that is used over and over again is called the "In And Out." This is when you simply take his penis in and out of your mouth with your lips wrapped around his shaft.
The thing is that most guys love this if you use it with other techniques like:
Keeping him in your mouth while using your tongue to "Twirl And Swirl" around it, massaging it as you do.
Using your tongue to focus on just the head of his penis.
Giving some attention to his testicles. You can lick them or take them into your mouth and gently suck and softly squeeze them.
4. Give Him A Helping Hand: Some girls think that using their hands is not actually an oral sex technique and is cheating. This is pretty ludicrous as it's not cheating at all. In fact, your man will greatly appreciate it.The easiest way to use your hands when giving him a blow job is to just grab his shaft and slowly massage it up and down like you would when giving him regular hand job. When you combine this with using the "Twirl And Swirl" technique at the same time, you have a recipe for one happy guy.
But that's not all you can do with your hands. Another great blow job technique is to use your hands to massage your man's testicles while giving him taking him in your mouth at the same time.
5. Try Taking It Deep: The first 4 techniques will give you a great start to giving your man more enjoyable oral sex, but don't just stop there; why not learn some more advanced techniques? Giving deep throat feels incredible to your man, but I'm not going to lie, it takes a bit of practice to get it right without it feeling horrible for you. The key is to consistently practice on something like a peeled banana or even a dildo until if feels relatively easy to do. Also, rather than telling your man that you're going to give him deep throat, a better way is to just surprise him with it. Trust me when I say that he'll be pleasantly surprised.
6. End On A Slow Note: When you use all of these blow job techniques, your man is going to have an incredibly enjoyable orgasm. When your man eventually cums, he will experience many things that you experience too when you orgasm. One of these things is the fact that his penis will become incredibly sensitive to touch, just like your clitoris is when you are having a clitoral orgasm. So when your man starts to orgasm, make sure that you are not applying too much pressure to his penis. Instead, reduce the speed of whatever you are doing and make all movements with your tongue, mouth and hands much softer.
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Sex Games
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Posted:Jun 17, 2015 6:24 am
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2015 6:17 am
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a friend shared these with me!
what do you think? what are your favourite sex games?
1. Fantasy Fulfiller
The basic idea behind Fantasy Fulfiller is that you are going to have a safe and fun way to explore each others fantasies. What you and your man are going to do is write down each of the fantasies that you most want to try out on a small piece of paper. Then you are going to fold up each piece of paper and put them all into a hat. When you do this, make sure that both of you put in an equal amount of fantasies.
To make this easier and less awkward, you are going to have 3 hats. The first one is going to have fantasies that are quite tame, things like your guy wearing something sexy or making love in candlelight. The next hat will be a bit kinkier. It could involve things like having a threesome or doing something naughty in public. The last hat will then contain your wildest fantasies.
To play this sex game, you are going to take it in turns to take a piece of paper out of the hat and then try out the fantasy with your boyfriend. You are going to first start on the 'tame' hat, then when that's completely emptied, you need to move onto the 'intermediate' hat, before finishing up with the 'wildest' hat.
While this is a super fun and fair way to discuss and bring up your fantasies with your man, they may not be comfortable with trying out every single one of your fantasies and vice-versa. So this is why you need to use a veto if either of you aren't comfortable with something.
I've found that this really is one of the best sex games to play with your man to discover each others fantasies. A great way to surprise him while playing is to write down one of your fantasies as giving HIM a blowjob. He will be pleasently surprised. If you are looking for tips on how to give your man incredible oral sex, then you will find this instructional video incredibly helpful.
2. Taking It Public
Doing naughty things in public with your guy can be really hot, but it's not necessarily the best sex game for everyone. Some people are uncomfortable with the idea and as well as this I always encourage people not to ever do anything that could be illegal.
The first idea that comes to mind when you think about 'public play' is getting it on in public. The funny thing is that there is so much more than this when it comes being naughty with your man in public. Plus this is usually illegal anyway!
Here are a few things to try with your guy:
Kissing: I know...This is pretty tame and couldn't be more obvious! But kissing in public is still hot. You can give your partner a quick peck on the cheek. Or you can take it up a notch and go for full on French kissing. You can do it at famous landmarks or if you like, you can do it somewhere deserted.
Feels Like I'm Wearing Nothing At All: This next one is a lot kinkier and something that your man can't really do as effectively. The next time you are out in public with your man and are wearing a skirt, take off your panties and give them to him.
Tell him that that, "It feels better this way". He won't mind, but he will be very, very turned on.
3. The Big Tease
The next technique that I'm going to show you really is one of the best games to play with your man. In fact it's something that you should try to incorporate into your relationship whether you're 18 or 80 to keep things fun and interesting. You don't even have to be that sexual or kinky when using this one for it to work well.
The whole idea is that you are going to gently tease and mess with your man all day long. For the purpose of this one, you are going to be quite sexual in your teasing. It could be something as simple as sending him a few texts saying things like, "I'm going to do some really naughty things to you...but not right now" or "I hope you can wait until the end of the day, I got something very hot planned for you!"
Or maybe you are both out in public together. You could try leaning in to your man and saying, "Why are we here and not in your bed right now? I wish I wasn't feeling so horny" or "If we weren't in such a crowded place right now, I would jump you. I hope you don't mind." It's that simple. Then when you finally do get a chance to get physical with each other, your man will be so pent up and it will be a lot more passionate than usual.
If you want to learn more awesome tips like how to talk dirty to your man to keep him attracted to you, build sexual tension and keep him thinking about you, then you may want to watch this video tutorial on talking dirty to learn exactly what to say and how to say.
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Making a video?
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Posted:Jun 8, 2015 6:46 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2015 6:30 am
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I have only ever made videos and then deleted them after, I saw these, what do folks think? have you made a video? do you regret it? would you do it again?
anyone want to make one? he he he
Lights, Camera, ACTION! (Lots of action.)
1. Only do it with someone you trust with your life.
Or at least someone you have incriminating dirt on so you have something to bargain with should they threaten to release your video to the public.
2. That said, you probably shouldn’t make a sex “tape” unless you’re OK with it ending up online.
You just never know.
3. You don’t have to look, sound or act like a porn star or producer to whip out a camera during your next romp in the bedroom.
So, don't stress about "dialogue" or dirty talk — just do your thing. The mere fact that you're recording the act will feel dirty enough.
4. You don’t have to include your full bodies in the shot.
You don't even have to show anything that dirty. Try a cool angle, like from the head of the bed (but remember, never from below lest you look like beached whales) or a close head-&-shoulders crop: the focus can be on your expressions, your sounds and the intimacy of the moment.
Or shoot everything but your faces.
5. Along the same lines of less is more, if you have any body parts you’re self conscious about, then by all means use an item of clothing, a blanket, a pillow, dramatic chiaroscuro lighting or your partner to hide them.
6. If your video camera's got one, turn on its night-vision feature.
It obscures imperfections and creates a funky, sci-fi look. Plus, you can shoot entirely in the dark, which is a tequila-free method of loosening inhibitions.
7. If your squeaky mattress gives the video a slapstick feel, then cut the sound and replace it with your favorite in-the-mood song.
(A million Hollywood directors can't be wrong.)
8. To be on the safe side, consider erasing all incriminating evidence immediately afterwards.
And no, that doesn't defeat the purpose: Creating a naughty video together is more about the process than the end result.
Plus, if you delete it immediately, there's no chance that Aunt Mabel will accidentally stumble upon your "art" when she's nosily scrolling through your camera at the family reunion.
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Survey- top 4 things Americans do to spice up their sex lives
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Posted:Jun 1, 2015 6:51 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2015 5:41 am
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Survey says...
Could your sex life use some new flavors? In a Trojan condom survey found that 81 percent of Americans say their sex life needs some spicing up. So how do you beat the bedroom blahs?
The top four ways people give their bedroom routine a little oomph is through:
1. Spontaneous sex (48 percent)
2. Using lube (40 percent)
3. Having sex in a new, exciting place (36 percent)
4. Talking dirty (32 percent)
The survey also discovered that 72 percent were all for adding a vibrator to their bedroom fun, and 70 percent like the idea of trying a condom that's supposed to enhance orgasm for either one or both parties. So what are all those "new, exciting" places where people thought it was a great idea to knock boots?
Well, 32 percent of those surveyed had had sex outdoors, one in three has gotten it on at the beach, and one in four at their in-laws' house. What? No backseat of a cab for anyone? That's always been my favorite place outside of the bedroom. Do you know how hard it is to be subtle back there? Maybe that's why I like it so much.
And hey, you're not fully taking advantage of this technological age if you're not sexting at least a little bit. Twenty-three percent of Americans admitted to getting freaky with their phones out: Sixteen percent had sent a dirty photo (because no one has learned their lesson about how that can lead to a possible embarrassing situation?), and 22 percent had indulged in phone sex.
So next time you're thinking about doing something sexually that isn't usually your thing, stop thinking and just go with it. We have too many resources at our fingertips that can make our sex lives better, and not using them is a waste. Now go hail a cab.
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