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Posted:Jan 11, 2020 12:03 pm
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Hi y'all!  Been awhile since I posted! Anyway I keep getting asked with a boyfriend who would never understand my "perversions" how do I keep him from learning of them. Well I've learned if I smile at him a lot that helps. It also keeps it from being a red flag if I smile at someone else as he is very used to me constantly smiling. A lot of the bars we go to are country / western types as that is his thing. So I throw on the boots and a flared type skirt that is also quite short with usually a white button down blouse that is just tight enough over my boobs to make them stand out nicely. Country / Western traditional wear for females lol. While there it doesn't take too much smiling and drinks to get him good and comfortable with the atmosphere and increase his level of trust. So when I spy someone sneaking more than the occasional glance at me I make it clear with my own responding smile and glances that I'm interested. It's not hard to do this since this time my bf is either interested in the band, tv, or his friends. So I let him know that I need to excuse myself to either go to the restroom or step outside to make a phone call for work. One quick glance and smile to the other guy, or girl (yes it sometimes a female lol), lets them know they should follow. If it's a girl I simply head to the restroom as it seems completely normal. If it is a guy I head outside and once I am sure he sees where I am I walk around the side of the building. Once around there I wait and I am rarely stood up lol. When the guy comes around I put my back against the building with my palms flat against it which I have learned seems to be the international symbol of handing them complete control of your body. With the button down blouse and skirt for easy access it doesn't take long for them to do what comes natural to men  . The key is that once I have had my fun I have to return back inside in a reasonable of time with that gleaming smile. Trust me. It's truly not that hard to smile when you are getting what you want .
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Posted:Jul 6, 2016 10:21 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 12:38 am
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I love posting in my blog! I have found out so many new things as well as found insights on how others see things that I had never thought of before. Also, through my blog, private chats on LesbianPersonals, ALT, Yahoo, etc…I get to talk to a lot of people who are just grateful to be able to chat with someone who does not judge them for their likes, fetishes, fantasies, desires, and such. I don’t judge in the least because I loooove sharing such things with people. There is NO better way to get an insight into someone than to be able to discuss things openly and freely that one might normally suppress due to societal pressures or just plain shyness. The first things I always tell them is fuck society. Society is nothing but people who are too afraid to be open as the ones they judge. If they call you a freak, you show them just how freaky you can be. If they call you a , you show them the true definition of . If they call you a slut, you own that title like a boss!
I just loooove chatting with people who are uninhibited or trying to learn how NOT to be inhibited. It’s scary when you first truly decide to be WHO you WANT to be instead of WHO you are EXPECTED to be. It’s not like you wake up one day and just say fuck it and you are instantly free of societal pressures. That is how it STARTS but it is only a step on a hard fought journey of self-discovery. Once you decide it is the path you want to follow you have to be willing to go all the way. There is no such thing as partial self-discovery. You are either giving in fully or you are not giving in at all. It’s like a girl deciding whether or not she likes other girls. Kissing is nice, but it isn’t enough to decide. Touching is great but again it is not enough to decide. Having another girl eat your pussy is wonderful yet it too is still not enough to decide. It is not until YOU eat pussy YOURSELF that you “learn” whether or not you like girls. If you find that you get just as excited or more so when you are giving instead of just receiving, it’s a really good indicator that you like girls lol.
So when you decide to throw off the chains / norms of society it is a big deal but you have to remember it is just the beginning of the journey. It takes a lot of patience and a lot of repetitiveness in order to reach your goal of being “you”. You will still feel all that self-consciousness, self-doubt, and reluctance when you attempt to be “you” for a long time. That is where the repetitiveness comes in. You just have to keep fighting through each day and not giving in to what others expect. Easiest way to do it is to take baby steps. Maybe wear your skirts a little shorter and/or tighter than you normally do. Maybe show a little more cleavage than you normally do. Do things like that until you realize that you are no longer “afraid” to do it. Then move on to whatever else YOU decide YOU want to do to be YOU. The key is to be able to own any labels that start getting thrown at you or around about you. When you can do that with any label in any situation, you are well on your way to being “you”. There is no greater aphrodisiac than being able to be your true self and allow that true self to roam free.
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Posted:Jun 22, 2016 7:14 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2016 8:05 pm
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One thing I am often struck by on LesbianPersonals is a lot of peoples’ reluctance to discuss their own sexual desires and/or kinks or their reluctance to ask about mine. I realize that a lot of times this is just simply shyness. I too was shy once upon a time believe it or not lol. So I get it. However, as I know I have stated before this is an adult site and should really not be considered a “dating” site. If you are looking to meet someone to bring home to the parents, you probably shouldn’t look for them on an adult site. Just a suggestion lol. As I have also stated quite often I am a completely open book about my past, current, and hopeful future desires, kinks, partners, acts, etc…It just makes it so much easier to find like-minded individuals when you are open about these things. I would love to see other people be just as open. There should be no fear of judgement on LesbianPersonals. Let’s be honest. We are ALL here because we are “freaks in the sheets” or looking to find “freaks in the sheets” lol. Some enjoy daddy/ role play, some enjoy S&M, some enjoy same sex action, some enjoy cheating, some enjoy feet, tits, ass, legs, etc…The list goes on and on. It’s called a sex drive for a reason, it DRIVES us. It can drive you to drinking, it can drive you crazy, or it can drive you wild. It personally drives me to experiment and to indulge in things I never would have dreamed of and usually deriving pleasure I never would have dreamed of from it. It truly is just sex. It is one of our most base of instincts. There is absolutely nothing morally or ethically wrong with having desires or kinks and there is definitely nothing wrong with being able to share them in a place / forum of people who may shares some of the same. Ask me anything, I will always answer very honestly and in fact, I love to answer questions. It is one of the easiest ways to get to know someone.
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Just odds and ends...
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Posted:Feb 4, 2016 7:01 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2016 10:21 pm
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Sometimes, after a lot of the same comments or questions you just have to sit back and shake your head, lol. I like to promote "thought" and comments in my blog and this post is no different.
1. I am still amazed at the number of guys AND girls who come on LesbianPersonals of all places seeking a relationship. I have been on LesbianPersonals for several years now and it STILL ceases to amaze me lmao. It's like going to an AA meeting and trying to find a future spouse who doesn't drink or has no history of drinking. LesbianPersonals is NOT Farmersonly.com or Farmersonly.com lol, it is an adult sex site. Not saying that you CAN'T meet someone on LesbianPersonals and have it turn into a relationship...it certainly can. However, to come on LesbianPersonals SEEKING a relationship with someone who clearly states they are not interested in such is just baffling lol.
2. I am also always amazed at the ones who come on LesbianPersonals and want to "change" someone or tell them why they are wrong for what they do or what they want. You can see examples of THAT even on my blog here in the comments some leave on my posts. I am always just shaking my head when they do that lol. It is funny as hell! It's like me joining Farmersonly.com and then telling another member they are wrong for liking bdsm lol.
3. And then there are those that are arrogant enough to think and actually BELIEVE that if you don't respond to their message(s) or their chat requests then you MUST be stuck up or even a fake lol. I have been told I am pretty and even hot...but even I don't think that if someone doesn't respond to my message or chat request that makes them a stuck up bitch or fake lol. I mean come on...that is the epitome of arrogance lol when you believe anyone and everyone should be talking to YOU. Get real yourself lol.
4. I loooove when guys or girls try to make their messages or chat requests "stick out" from the others you receive. Whether it be through "shock value" or by simply being direct in what they want from you. I mean if you get multiple messages that simply say "Hi" or "Hey" or "What's up?"...how do you decide from that who may interest you lol?
5. I also love the ones that are unafraid and uninhibited in being honest about their fetishes and kinks. I mean what is the point of lying about or hiding such things on LesbianPersonals? Why would you even be here if you aren't going to be honest about what turns you on lol no matter WHAT it may be? Kudos to those that own their fetishes and kinks.
6. Lol the only other one I can think of at the moment that makes me shake my head is the "pic" thing. You know the ones I mean lol. The guy or the girl that has a random "faceless" pic of a cock or pussy or no pic at all THEN they want YOU to post multiple nude ones of you WITH your face to prove that YOU are "real" lol. However, when you "call" them on it they inform you that they cannot post pics of themselves due to their job, or their marital status, they don't have a way to do it, etc...But, YOU need to do it to prove you are "you"! Yes, that happens more times than I can count lol. All I can say to that is "good luck with that" lol.
So I am just curious what y'all encounter on LesbianPersonals that makes you happy or "shake your head" lol? I love reading your comments and would love to hear you own stories or feelings.
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A little more insight...
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Posted:Jan 16, 2016 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2016 1:01 pm
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I am often asked, “Lexi, no offense intended but, if you are so sexually active, especially with gangbangs, groups, etc…how do you remain std free or don’t you at least worry about it?” Well, truth is not only do I, but EVERYONE should worry about it to the point where they take steps to maintain not only their sexual health, but health in general as we know well now that std’s can affect your overall health not just your sexual health. Now to be brutally honest I, like most others on this site as well as off this site, have taken some ill-advised / heat of the moment “chances”. These chances were usually brought about by equally ill-advised intoxicants, situations, or even sometimes a combination of both. Yes, I worried a lot after those particular chances until I was advised medically that I was 100% healthy in all aspects.
Now all that being put on the table so to speak, I took a step to enjoy my sexual proclivities and fantasies in a safe environment, free of the stds and other inherent dangers of a promiscuous sex life such as my own. I was approached by a friend of mine who was well aware of my professional life as well as my “after hours” persona. She informed me of a “club” she belonged to in a community not too far from where I live made up of professionals such as myself, doctors, lawyers, politicians, teachers, etc…This club caters to adult sexual fantasies of most any types in a safe and secure environment. All members are vetted medically, psychologically, and professionally before they are allowed membership and then medically again before their participation in any of the fantasies. All participants in any fantasies are members and membership to the “club” is extended to professionals by invitation only. All members remain anonymous and the site of the club itself remains anonymous as well. The costs of all this vetting, testing, etc…is part of your dues. Dues are quite substantial of necessity.
After completion of the vetting process I became a member of this club. Since then I have been able to plan and enjoy fantasies I could never have actually realized otherwise. If you have particular “talents” or fetishes that are “highly sought after” in other members fantasies then you asked to participate in others fantasies. Your participation in others fantasies is reflected in your own “dues” which also provides incentive lol. For example, I have never made any attempt or effort to hide that I loooove gangbangs. I love being center of attention whether it be a group of men, or women, or both. The “powers-that-be” in the club are well aware of this and so I am often asked to participate in such fantasies. Needless to say, I usually make sure I am available lol.
My point of all this is that there are ways to remain “healthy” and “safe” and still enjoy being who you are and what you are as well as being able to do what you truly love to do. If you want to be a , be a safe . If you want to be a slut, be a safe slut. That goes for women AND men. Yes men, you too can be just as big of a or slut as us girls lol…and there is nothing wrong with that .
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Posted:Jan 2, 2016 11:41 am
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2016 5:42 am
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I have been asked a few times on LesbianPersonals but MANY times outside the world of LesbianPersonals if I am aware of the fact I am a “” or “slut”. Well…should I say ouch lol? It got me to thinking a LOT about how everyone feels the need today to put a label on other people…especially ones they are jealous of or don’t understand. So I decided to look “into” it a little lol. Dictionary.com defines a as “A woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse…”. It also defines slut as “…a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way”. Soooo….let me compare lol. Am I a sexually promiscuous woman? CHECK! Do I behave in an overtly sexual way? CHECK! Do I DRESS many times in an overtly sexual way? CHECK! Well…it would appear that they would be correct then…I AM a AND a slut! Who knew???
Everybody today has to label somebody else. It is the “in” thing. I like girls in the “biblical sense” so that makes me a “lesbian”. I like guys too so that makes me a “bisexual”. I looove black guys so that makes me a “snow bunny”, “bbc ”, “white trash”, etc…I loooove sex and have it as much as possible with as many partners as I want so that makes me a “”, “slut”, “cum dumpster”, etc…Well lol…I seem to possess an abundance of labels under those conditions and definitions .
So here is how I feel about those labels and my advice to anyone else who is “labeled” because of their kinks, fetishes, or sexual proclivities….OWN those labels! Make sure your picture is next to the definition if you are going to be labeled anyway lol. When they call you by those labels or others…look at them and say “Damn Right”! Don’t shy away from who you are or what you are or what you like just because someone else wants to tell you how you should live YOUR own life! I used to try and “hide” who I was…then I progressed to trying to “change” who I was…then I tried to just “accept” who I was…now…I OWN who I AM and what I like and what I want! You get only one bite at this apple…only one chance to live…so why live that one life how someone ELSE tells you? They have their own life as YOU should have YOURS! My daddy used to say “pick one thing and be good at it”. Well…Lord KNOWS I am sure he did not necessarily mean what I picked lol…but…it was still great advice.
So feel free to “label” me however you feel necessary lol. Chances are, I already OWN that label anyway lol and you are probably just turning me on. I am very proud of who and WHAT I am and what’s more? I LOVE who and what I am! Frankly, many, MANY others ALSO love who and what I am lol . I have gained more freedom, more courage, and more satisfaction since I allowed myself to just be “me” than I ever knew or even THOUGHT possible. I have developed a new thirst and zeal for life that has absolutely invigorated me to my core lol. We are ALL on LesbianPersonals for a reason…EMBRACE what that reason is and just go with it! That is all lol .
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Posted:Dec 1, 2015 9:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2015 4:33 pm
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So after several years of using LesbianPersonals now with an overabundance of positive results and many MANY wonderful meetings, I HAVE found a few “negative” things that really just make me go “hmmm….”. These are normally questions or remarks I receive daily from other LesbianPersonals members such as…
1. “Why are you on LesbianPersonals?” or “What are you looking for?”
Ok, now this question does NOT bother me when it comes from a standard contact as they are unable to view the profiles and such. It bothers me coming from Gold Members as they can see the profiles. What is the point of filling out all those questions and such if people are not going to read them because they can’t be “bothered” to take a few minutes to do so? I especially get immediately turned off when they say it is easier for me to just tell them than for them to go back and read it. Or when they say well it was kind of extensive or too much to read. Shouldn’t a good profile BE extensive by containing everything most people would want to know BEFORE they contact someone? If you contact based on looks alone it may explain why you get shot down so much lol. So now when someone asks me that question I immediately look to see if they are standard or Gold…if standard I will answer…if Gold I simply stop chatting with them. If you can’t be bothered to read it…or worse…if you choose to just IGNORE it…then really haven’t I just learned all I need to know about you?
2. “Will be in your area tonight, tomorrow (etc…) we should meet for drinks, coffee, dinner, or whatever and see what it leads to or if we click…”
This has most always been a “guy thing” in my own experience. Guys, c’mon! Get a grip on something besides your cock for a second! What the hell is the point of profiles, questions, or LesbianPersonals PERIOD in that scenario??? The whole point of LesbianPersonals is to see if you “click” BEFORE you take the time or step to meet someone. If you just want blind dates or random hookups it is 1000 times easier and simpler in a bar, club, mall…etc…BEEN THERE, DONE THAT so I know what I’m talking about lol. Now, that being said…I DO realize there are girls and guys both on this site that would actually do that. If that is your thing, more power to you lol. However, sure would be nice if you would take just the briefest of moments to at least “skim over” a profile to see if that person might actually be even slightly interested in that before you ask. I’m not interested in a blind date, one of many reasons I actually use LesbianPersonals.
3. This is not a question but something I really, really hate just the same lol. That is when a man or woman has a profile not listed as a couple but are actually LOOKING as a couple. I used to do the whole married or attached couple thing but far too often…in MY experience, not everyone else’s…I have found it can complicated or even drama filled very quickly. So I choose now not to the whole attached or married couple thing. That is why it is very frustrating when I spend an hour or more chatting with a male or female only to find out then that they are really looking for someone together, using separate profiles to “increase their odds”. That is just bullshit and conniving from the start in my humble opinion. If you start out attempting to deceive people what kind of reaction do you expect to receive when they find out the truth?
I will leave it at that for this post lol. I love LesbianPersonals and its members and this post is in no way meant to be disparaging against the site or those members who use it as it was intended. It’s a great way to meet new people of similar interests, no matter how kinky those interests might be lol, and I have greatly enjoyed my time on the site and the ones I have met both on the site and off of it. I plan on and hope to have many more wonderful chats/meetings/experiences and all the enjoyment of each.
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Bisexuality
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Posted:Oct 22, 2015 10:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2016 8:03 am
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I generally use my blog in a blanket sort of way to answer questions i may be asked frequently or repeatedly. Lately i have been asked a lot why i am not into women so much anymore. After going back through my profile i can see where some may get that idea but it is patently untrue. I loooove women as much today as i ever have...which is saying quite a bit lol . I guess i don't mention the women thing much on LesbianPersonals because usually when it comes to women i have made my best connections at clubs, bars, or other outings and such. I have met with a few off of LesbianPersonals and had great times but in general it has been easier to connect with them in places i mentioned. Especially gay bars of course .
As a self described and easily proven submissive i of course seem to find myself drawn to the butch type of woman, not always of course but most times. They in fact can be even much more dominant than a male at times. Usually when i go to the gay bars i will inevitably dress in a manner to catch the attention of all the butches i can. Whether it be the short little cocktail mini dress or the short, tight little skirts. Since i have legs all the way up to my ass as my daddy would say lol I can usually catch their attention in those particular outfits. They will ask me to dance or buy me drinks. Once they feel i have become sufficiently inebriated they will begin to let their hands roam whether it be on the dance floor or sitting at the bar or at a table. It almost always starts with the rubbing of my legs lol. I don't stop them though i may play a little shy or coy when the advances start. Sometimes the advances start quickly and quite aggressively lol with the ass squeezing on the dance floor or the grinding against me and such. Usually once they lean in to kiss me and i let them or i don't move their roaming hands off my body they assume they have me sufficiently tamed. At that point I've had quite a few that didn't even speak they just stood up, grabbed me roughly by the arm and led me to wherever they were taking me which usually was the restroom though sometimes it has been the alley outside or their cars. Once they have me to themselves they usually become even more aggressive and dominant as they do what they want to me which many times has led to me leaving without panties lol . Most times they don't want or even expect any reciprocation on my part though when they do they usually make sure to tell me exactly what i'm going to do and exactly HOW i'm going to do it lol. There have been a few times when i have gone to the restroom on my own and when i come out of the stall some butch would be standing there waiting for me and proceed to push me back in the stall as they close the stall door behind us.
Sometimes it can get a little out of hand though like when i return to the bar next time and the butch that had me last time thinks that they own me now and want everyone else there to know it. Usually this is not a big deal but once in a while i may want something or someone different and it can lead to some tense situations lol . If you've never been a woman having two women ready to fight over you...you've missed out lol . It can be quite seductive. Although i have had one time where BOTH decided that they were going to have me together instead of fighting over me lol. Needless to say, THAT was an awesome night!
Let me just say, i realize my lifestyle is not for everyone and i realize that many people judge me for it. Well frankly, there is a reason it is called MY lifestyle...because it works for ME...not everyone else. I live for today and tonight because i am too well aware of how short this life is and I intend to have fun MY way while i am here . Also let me just say, I in no way intended or intend to offend anyone with the label "butch". I have been led to understand that this is an acceptable label but if it is not I apologize for any unintended offence.
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Posted:Oct 1, 2015 10:26 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2016 8:02 am
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So I’ve been asked why such a seemingly “nice and educated” girl like myself, allow myself to be treated as a slut or a or even humiliated. Well, while some people may get upset by the question or the tags, I choose to answer the question in an educated manner.
Yes I am well educated and I certainly like to think of myself as a very nice person overall. However, I don’t believe those things have anything to do with the other part of the question. We all have public personas. These public personas are the way we wish people to see us in our daily lives. Usually friendly, confident, professional, courteous, etc…Then we all have our private personas as well. These private personas are a chance to let our hair down and do things our public lives may not allow. Usually these personas are more daring, less inhibited, and more “revealing” into our true selves. It is these private personas or “after-hours” personas that allow us to indulge in fantasy or secret desires.
In my own life I like to call it the “Alexis by day…Lexi by night” phenomena. My whole day and many weeks of day and night both are spent having to be the consummate professional in charge. Always dressing the part, saying the right things, kissing the right asses, etc…When I’m finally done with the day or the weeks of being Alexis…Lexi allows me the opportunity to be “free” of societal demands and perceptions. A chance to not care about others opinions or my own inhibitions. A chance to totally submit to my own desires. Desires that I am well aware of and some that have surprised me greatly. It is only when I give in to one desire that other desires allow themselves to be known.
I didn’t wake up one day and decide I wanted to do gangbangs, groups, be submissive, used, take 10” black cock, etc…No, it doesn’t work like that lol. It started with allowing myself to give in to small things at first. Small things to many people but to someone like me, a big step. Like when sitting in the stands for a football game under a blanket and my bf started to slip his hand in my jeans…not stopping him. Or reciprocating by giving him a hand job. Much like some people think marijuana is a gateway drug to more powerful drugs giving into one “temptation” can lead to giving in to many others.
The hardest part was allowing myself to give up control. I learned that to truly give in I had to truly give up. Give up complete and total control of myself to whomever I was allowing myself to be with at the time. It involved a lot of trust and no small amount of fear at first. In fact, the very first time I allowed myself to give up complete control I was terrified and shaking like a leaf. I literally had to force myself to continue. That was when I learned that the ultimate control is in giving up control of one’s self. It has allowed me to unlock pleasures and strengths in me that I had never known even existed. It is a private persona or world even that I embrace now with full submissiveness to it. Yes, you must allow yourself to be humiliated, degraded, and used, all those things you fear in order to reach that sexual Zen. If you can’t do that, then it’s not for you.
So you may call me a slut, or , or whatever name you choose. Truth is, I have played those roles well when they have been desired . I am not ashamed, embarrassed, nor repentant for who I am or of the things I do in my public persona, nor am I of anything I am or do in my private persona. I am simply me and I love who that person is…day or night .
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Posted:Sep 6, 2015 2:32 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2016 8:00 am
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So I have been told that my love of sports, especially football in particular makes me somehow less of a "woman" to some guys. Well I think that is absolute bs! As I have clearly stated I was born and raised a country girl which means I grew up being active in sports (as well as other things ). I played everything from basketball to softball but the closest I could get to football was cheerleader and so that is what I did. I love football, especially college football. I'm a UVA and BAMA girl and make no apologies for it! I'm not one of those girls who watch it just for the guys in the tight pants or the hot players. Although, if Jadeveon Clowney, J.J. Watt, or Big Ben showed up on my doorstep I certainly wouldn't send them away lol . I like to watch the game itself with the hits, the big plays, etc...I don't think this makes me less of a woman. I think it makes me more intense if anything lol. So if you are looking for the dainty, sophisticate little filly...I ain't it! I am more of the no holds barred, free spirit filly who isn't afraid to get my hands dirty and I am proud of it.
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A Roman world...
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Posted:Jul 16, 2015 1:14 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2015 10:47 pm
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As I watch all these news stories day in and day out about gay marriage, racial hatred, ten commandments, teacher/student sex, and whatever else that is politically "incorrect" on a particular day...a though occurs to me. Wouldn't it be nice if we could go back to Roman times? Although I was not speaking of wearing togas that would be quite alright with me too lol . I'm talking about their ability to accept sex as just simply sex...a natural part of life. They didn't dwell on race, or gender, or age, or even privacy for that matter...it was just simply an act that human beings participated in. Their society as a whole (yes there were factions in their society same as ours that spoke against it) did not place labels on what was considered a natural act. You did not hear terms like homosexual, bisexual, interracial, , bestiality, or even heterosexual. Having sex did not make you these "labels"...it made you human. What a novel concept when you think about it. To think that if you have sex in a manner that someone else may not agree with or be turned about...you are still simply a human. No shame. No scorn. No labels. It was not until those who were sooo much more enlightened than those came along that they learned they were wrong to feel that way. Hmmm...it seems to me that the "enlightened" folks might want to look at how long the Roman empire existed compared to our own "enlightened" country that very well may not last even to the end of this century as things exist now. When did sex pass money as the "root of all evil"? Why is something so fundamentally natural to our species suddenly so wrong? Society should not make the norms...the norms should make society. Lol I should probably at this point make a few things clear . I do not advocate nor condone pedophilia in any manner. A is a and should be treated as such. I also am not "coming down" on Christianity. I was born into a strict Pentecostal family and I do not make fun of nor do I make light of anyone's faith. I simply like to express my own opinions and let others take them for what they are worth...my opinion.
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Posted:Jul 1, 2015 9:29 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2015 6:09 pm
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I love to be asked questions because I think it is the quickest and easiest way to learn about both people. You can learn as much from the questions they ask as they can learn from your answers. Not all people are willing to ask questions though even though they want to know things so I thought I would post a few of the more common questions with their answers from time to time.
1. “Why are you on LesbianPersonals?” The most common question by far lol . A couple of reasons are the fact that I am quite the worker bee. I work constantly and since my work requires travel that means I am also constantly on the move. It makes it very difficult to have the traditional “dates”. Also there is the fact that I absolutely despise blind dates. I hate spending hours jumping through all the hoops only to find out we have absolutely nothing in common including sexual likes or dislikes. I would rather have an overall idea of who I am meeting to begin with in order to know whether or not there is a better than average chance of it turning into “adult” fun.
2. “Doesn’t it bother you that you may be seen on here by people you know or work with?” Why would it bother me? I don’t hide my likes or dislikes with people who I work with…if they ask. If they don’t ask then I don’t share. It’s simple as that. No “hiding” involved. Besides, if they see me on here then they obviously “desires” of their own lol .
3. “How do you deal with the fact that many people of your own race or even some of your own family members call you and/or consider you a , or slut, or “traitor” because you fuck black guys?” Well, since the beginning of time society has had labels for people they don’t like or do things they don’t like. That’s just life. I find it funny though that I have to fuck multiple white guys to be considered a by my “race” but only ONE black guy to earn that title lol . Truth is I was the stereotypical southern white country girl growing up on a farm. I acted as I was expected to do and said what I was expected to say. It wasn’t until I “removed” myself from that influence that I learned that it was ok to be “me” and it was ok to like or do the things I wanted to do. Of course it bothers me to a small extent now that some of my family members do not accept who I am but as far as my race I consider myself a member of the HUMAN race…not by color classification alone. So they can kiss my white ass lol . Oh and as far as my being called a ? Well I’m a woman who loves sex so that automatically puts me in that category according to society. I look at it a different way…my daddy always said pick one thing and be the best you can be at it .
4. “Why are you single?” Well because I am very happy to be single. I get to enjoy my life as I want to enjoy it without worrying about bothering or hurting someone over something so basic as sex or who I choose to have it with or how many I have it with. I don’t believe in monogamy because I believe it is a true fantasy to think you can be with one person your entire life and not have regrets or thoughts about being with someone else. I choose to be able to act upon those thoughts without consequences to others feelings. I am not girlfriend nor wifey material and I am always upfront and honest about that with anyone I “hook-up” with from the very start.
5. “What are you looking for on LesbianPersonals?” I’m not “looking” for anything. I am simply here to enjoy myself whether it be through online chats or meetings with the right partner(s). Yes, I could go to clubs and such and I have and do. However, sometimes it’s just nice to chat and/or meet with someone who enjoys the same fantasies or kinks as you enjoy.
This is just a few of the more common questions I receive on LesbianPersonals. Feel free to ask me any others that you may think of as long as you don’t mind direct honesty.
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