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Sugar and Spice
 
Variety is the spice of life. Sugar n spice/day n night/ying n yang. My blog is of my opinions and thoughts. If you do not like them do not read them.
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Just a thought
Posted:Jun 29, 2014 12:06 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2024 8:24 am
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So do you ever start chatting with someone, and after awhile perhaps get a feeling the two might be good. The conversation is good both seem to be the same type of person in bed. There wouldn't be no harm in getting together. And they have stated interest in you. Yet come to find out they find a relationship that wouldn't you know doesn't last. Ok, a part of you is glad, yet a part of you is thinking don't come knocking here. They had a chance.
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Like I Say
Posted:Apr 26, 2014 8:42 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2014 2:04 pm
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Always be yourself

So, as I've been reading on here through blogs and such. I've read several times how people hide themselves or whatever. What really is the point?
How can you really meet someone who is hiding themselves? I would always be looking over my shoulder wondering are they lying, do they really like me? So, really either be an ass and be the straight up ass. Or be a real guy and be a straight up guy.

I use to hide my face years ago, before I really didn't know who I was or what life was about. No, I may not know what life is always about. Though I am not afraid to express myself. Therefore I have no reason to hide behind anything. I just choose what I share and whom I share what with. Which is a lot different.

Always be yourself and if nothing else be batman.
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In the Process
Posted:Apr 26, 2014 12:41 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2024 8:24 am
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Alright, I am in the process of setting up a second page where I have decided to start sharing some of erotic writings I have done. I use to share them years ago. So I thought I would start sharing some again.
So hopefully I will blog a bit more. I'm not looking to meet I am staying on the site to blog. There is only one guy I have my eye on, and I've had my eye on him for many years. He knows who he is.
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Find it funny
Posted:Apr 25, 2014 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2014 12:14 pm
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Oh how I find it funny how some guys will have this issue with woman showing off their boobs to other men on cam. Yet they go and put their main image of their boobs.
No wonder so many men on here are such talkers and players. Reminds me I am just fine being single.
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Waiting for Superman
Posted:Feb 25, 2014 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2014 12:16 pm
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Waiting for Superman
By Daughtry

She’s watching the taxi driver, he pulls away
She’s been locked up inside her apartment a hundred days

She says, “Yeah, he’s still coming, just a little bit late
He got stuck at the laundromat washing his cape”
She’s just watching the clouds roll by and they spell her name like Lois Lane
And she smiles, oh the way she smiles


She’s talking to angels,
Counting the stars
Making a wish on a passing car
She’s dancing with strangers,
Falling apart
Waiting for Superman to pick her up
In his arms, yeah, in his arms, yeah
Waiting for Superman


She’s out on the corner trying to catch a glimpse
Nothing’s making sense
She’s been chasing an answer, a sign lost in the abyss,
This Metropolis

She says, "Yeah, he’s still coming, just a little bit late
He got stuck at the Five and Dime saving the day”
She says, "If life was a movie, then it wouldn’t end like this,
Left without a kiss."
Still, she smiles, the way she smiles, yeah


She’s talking to angels,
She’s counting the stars
Making a wish on a passing car
She’s dancing with strangers,
She’s falling apart
Waiting for Superman to pick her up
In his arms, yeah, in his arms, yeah
She’s waiting for Superman...


...to lift her up and take her anywhere
Show her love and flying through the air
Save her now before it’s too late tonight
Oh, at the speed of light
And she smiles


She’s talking to angels,
She’s counting the stars
Making a wish on a passing car
She’s dancing with strangers,
She’s falling apart
Waiting for Superman to pick her up
In his arms, yeah, in his arms, yeah
She’s waiting for Superman...


...to lift her up and take her anywhere
Show her love, oh, and flying through the air
Save her now before it’s too late tonight
She’s waiting for Superman
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Pet Peeve
Posted:Jan 18, 2014 10:15 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2014 2:26 pm
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Happy Saturday
I just have to take a minute to make a little post, about something I'd put under pet peeves. Yet, I kind of find it funny. When I go and open an email with a picture in it, and they send a picture of their face. So many times I get sideways pictures. So many times I want to reply back and say, "you know there is a thing called rotate." Even when using cell phones, one can rotate a picture before uploading.
Am I the only one who finds this kinda annoying, you either have to turn your head sideways or try turning your monitor lol.
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LesbianPersonals Terms of Use
Posted:Jan 13, 2014 2:43 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2024 8:24 am
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So, me being oh so curious of a person I am. I went looking for that little fine print all web sites have, yet most of us choose to just skip right over. I'm going to copy and paste right from a section of the Terms of Use. Some of these I kind of laugh at cause I wonder how much they just let slide.

Your Conduct. You further agree not to use the Services to:
(a) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that is unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, tortious, defamatory, obscene, libelous, invasive of another's privacy, hateful, or racially, ethnically or otherwise objectionable;

(b) harm minors in any way or commit abuse;

(c) impersonate or misrepresent your affiliation with, including acting as an employee of, us or our affiliated entities;

(d) forge headers or otherwise manipulate identifiers in order to disguise the origin of any Content transmitted through the Services;

(e) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that you do not have a right to make available under any law or under contractual or fiduciary relationships (such as inside information, proprietary and confidential information learned or disclosed as part of employment relationships or under nondisclosure agreements);

(f) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any Content that infringes any patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright or other proprietary rights of any person;

(g) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any unsolicited or unauthorized advertising, promotional materials, "affiliate marketing codes," "link referral code," or any other form of commercial solicitation;

(h) upload, post, email, transmit or otherwise make available any material that contains software viruses or any other computer code, files or programs designed to interrupt, destroy or limit the functionality of any computer software, hardware, networks or telecommunications equipment;

(i) disrupt the normal flow of dialogue, cause a screen to "scroll" faster than other users or members of the Services are able to type, or otherwise act in a manner that negatively affects other users' or members' ability to engage in real-time exchanges;

(j) interfere with or disrupt the Services or servers or networks connected to the Services, or disobey any requirements, procedures, policies or regulations of networks connected to the Services, including using any device, software or routine to bypass our robot exclusion headers;

(k) violate any applicable local, state, national or international law, including, but not limited to, regulations promulgated by the U.S. Securities and Exchange Commission, any rules of any national or other securities exchange, including, but not limited to, the New York Stock Exchange, the American Stock Exchange or the NASDAQ, and any regulations having the force of law;

(l) provide material support or resources (or conceal or disguise the nature, location, source, or ownership of material support or resources) to any organization(s) designated by the United States government as a foreign terrorist organization pursuant to section 219 of the Immigration and Nationality Act;

(m) "stalk" or otherwise harass another person or user or member;

(n) collect or store personal data about other users or members without their consent (including, but not limited to, through the use of scripts, bots or web crawlers) or upload, post, email, transmit, chat or otherwise disclose other users' or members' private information; or

(o) disclose any telephone numbers, street addresses, last names, or email addresses in any user or member profile that you crea
te.
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Finding time
Posted:Jan 12, 2014 4:05 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2014 8:32 pm
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First off it's been awhile since I posted anything. Well I just recently got a laptop back. Yippie
Anyway, so a lot of people seem to wonder when I get free time. I almost can't help but sometimes laugh. Even though I am a full time mom and my is gonna be 13. Does not mean I do not find time. Do married people with , not find time for sex? Or, maybe they don't? That is why so many are on here.
No, I do not travel to meet anyone, which means if at a point one wants to meet me and is a gentleman. They will come to visit me. My goes to school. My also goes to bed. We have rules in this house, if my door is closed, it means my must knock. Just like when my closes his door. I must knock to enter his room. That is called respect.
Being a single full time mom does not mean I have no life at all, I am just kind of limited sometimes. That is because I am not always on here looking for some booty call. So, hope this answers some peoples questions.
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Another yr older
Posted:Nov 11, 2013 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2014 2:15 pm
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So as it seems I turned a year older yesterday. And guess what? It sucked. I'd rather be young again. My mother who is still alive again cant even call me. Everything seems to be broken, my vehicle, my computer. I keep trying to figure out how to fix everything but am having no luck. Life is a lot harder with no family around.
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Wrong words and song now in my head
Posted:Aug 26, 2013 5:23 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2024 8:24 am
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So, not long ago I sent off an email that I wasn't to wise in my words. And I honestly could see how he would have felt reading it. Maybe a lot of times I myself to thinking this person actually may just be into me. Then again who knows. Point being, I really am not someone to just send hurtful emails out.

So this song has been popping into my head and not all of the lyrics apply.

Please Forgive Me
by Bryan Adams

It still feels like our first night together
Feels like the first kiss
It's getting better baby
No one can better this
Still holding on
You're still the one
First time our eyes met
Same feeling I get
Only feels much stronger
I wanna love you longer
Do you still turn the fire on?

So if you're feeling lonely, don't
You're the only one I'll ever want
I only want to make it go
So if I love you a little more than I should
Please forgive me, I know not what I do
Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you
Don't deny me, this pain I'm going through
Please forgive me, if I need you like I do
Please believe me (Oh believe it), every word I say is true
Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you

Still feels like our best times are together
Feels like the first touch
Still getting closer baby
Can't get closer enough
Still holding on
You're still number one
I remember the smell of your skin
I remember everything
I remember all the moves
I remember you yeah
I remember the nights, you know I still do

So if you're feeling lonely, don't
You're the only one I'll ever want
I only want to make it go
So if I love you a little more than I should
Please forgive me, I know not what I do
Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you
Don't deny me, this pain I'm going through
Please forgive me, if I need you like I do
Please believe me (Oh believe it), every word I say is true
Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you

The one thing I'm sure of
Is the way we make love
The one thing I depend on
Is for us to stay strong
With every word and every breath I'm praying
That's why I'm saying

Please forgive me, I know not what I do
Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you
Don't deny me, this pain I'm going through
Please forgive me, if I need you like I do
Babe believe it, every word I say is true
Please forgive me, if I can't stop loving you
No, believe, I don't know what I do
Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you
I can't stop loving you
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Comment From Last Blog Entry
Posted:May 12, 2013 7:49 pm
Last Updated:May 19, 2024 8:24 am
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So Dreamon78 left this comment on my last blog. "Many studies show that a large percentage of men that look outside their marriage do so not for the thrill of passion but the need for emotional intimacy."
I thought I would but of course voice my opinion about it. Which, again feel free to leave yours. Yes, I have been married. No I never cheated when I was married. My ex was my first. Before I got married, yes I did sleep with someone else. I could not honestly get married without really knowing what else it was like. At that time I wasn't missing much.
Society can do all these studies and numbers but really how many people are honest when they answer questions? And when they are running these studies they are using a certain group that runs from a very small population. When people go looking outside of a marriage either male/female. It means something is missing. Meaning their partner is not giving attention the way they would like, they are needing some positive feedback to just give them a little push forward. Sometimes, it has nothing to do with sex, just a friendly ear. Yet with that friendly ear comes that connection, that bond. Sometimes not even realizing it is happening. Many guys seem very good at talking about passion yet are not very good at actually doing it. Yet, if there is to be passion one would think then there would be some emotional connection.
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Too Comfortable To Be Passionate
Posted:May 12, 2013 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2013 5:08 pm
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I did not write this article I found it and thought it would be good to post.
So you freely fart in front of one another and one of you is either tweezing their chin or digging for gold when they get the chance. Being comfortable in your long-term relationship is fantastic, right? The worries that come with dating someone new are gone. You don’t have to be perfect and keep the façade going. You know what I’m talking about. When you are first dating someone you want him or her to only see your best side. No dropping bombs in the bathroom, unshaved bikini areas or cranky moods. We want to appear as the perfect partner for that person. Often doing our own research on what the other person likes so we can truly appear to be “the one” to them by reciting their favorite song lyrics or learning to make lasagna just like his Mama.
Luckily in the beginning you’ll be able to enjoy some true passion, along with obsessively thinking about the other person and the taming of your fiery loins. You’re always on. Yes, it is a bit exhausting being the best version of you, possibly – or hopefully you still resemble you at this point. We all play this unconscious game with our beloved in the beginning. But at some point your plan jumps shark. Whether it is a moment you are forced to be vulnerable or your partner has taken the first step in doing so, gradually the masks comes off. It may be in a time of pain; like the death of a family member or your beau rips a big one in bed. The newness of this relationship gets chipped away into something old and familiar. Some people eventually miss the mystery and the façade. They may even cheat in order to feel that intense passion again; while, others envelope themselves in the realness, the true ness of what has become a cozy little safety blanket. Many of these people will say that there’s some passion left. Like that one Saturday night wifey got a little drunk and let you in her backdoor. But many will wistfully talk about the good old days of spontaneous rolls in the hay.
Which is better? Comfort or passion. Do we have to have one or the other? Are all long-term relationships doomed to bed death? I can tell you it depends on the dynamics of your relationship and whether or not you prioritize passion. I think long term monogamous relationships are lovely. And that there is a true freedom to being yourself with that person that you won’t have with anyone else. Yes, some sexual intimacy may be replaced with emotional intimacy but realize it doesn't have to be an either/or situation. There are not only fifty shades of grey in BDSM, but also fifty shades of grey within our relationships. We occasionally just need to remind ourselves to look for a different more passionate shade.
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The Mind
Posted:May 11, 2013 1:19 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2013 3:59 pm
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I almost don't like that saying. "Seduce the mind the rest follows." One can sometimes seduces ones own mind thinking about someone. Which is probably how fantasies come to be. When you actually find someone who seems to be on the same mind level. Communications with this person seem to be English. Yet how does one really go explaining such without scaring them.
Ok Im rambling only cause I'm on my cell phone. lol Ill write more later.
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