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Posted:May 15, 2016 7:26 pm
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A Native American grandfather talking to his young grandson tells the boy he has two wolves inside of him struggling with each other. The first is the wolf of peace, love and kindness. The other wolf is fear, greed and hatred. Which wolf will win, grandfather? asks the young boy. Whichever one I feed, is the reply.
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Dare to dream
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Posted:May 15, 2016 12:54 am
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How beautiful must a woman be before she no longer needs love? How many times does the average man need to see naked porn stars to block the pain of rejection?
No matter how we try to suppress it, our need for love is inescapable. Behavioral scientists have discovered that even people who focus almost exclusively on impersonal sex – porn, phone sex, fetishism, solitary sex, exhibitionism, bestiality etc – are usually driven to their obsession by a need for love. (How cruelly misunderstood many of these people are.) [1]
Being in love, however, is a risky, potentially agonizing experience. We might kiss with our eyes closed, but relationships are frighteningly fragile. Beauty sags. People change. Death or disagreement can so easily rob us of the one we love. The deeper our love the deeper our insecurity.
But if reality is cold, dreams are too hot to hold. Our passions seem so insatiable that we shrink from them, yet still they haunt us. Just for a moment, release the iron grip that keeps your longings suppressed in the dungeons of your mind. Let your longings waft free before your gaze, no matter how unattainable they seem. Dare to see what they reveal.
You burn for unwaning intimacy; a companion who will never fail you; a friend who can always be with you, no matter what the hour or place, the instant you want this special person.
Too often you are misunderstood. You crave a lover who can slip inside your mind; ideally, someone who has not only heard of your every trauma and triumph from birth, but experienced them with you. You need to unburden yourself with an admirer who knows your blackest secrets, yet delights in you with unswerving devotion.
When life’s blows send you reeling, you ache for someone who not only passionately longs to meet your deepest needs, but is always able to. You need a partner so capable that when crisis swallows crisis you can trust your friend to comfort, protect and power you to success. Yet you don’t want to be smothered. On the contrary, you want someone who will nerve you to reach the heights you were born for.
You pine for someone changeless, yet someone you will never tire of; someone who fits your needs so exactly it feels you were made for each other; someone you will be forever proud of; someone whose love for you is so vast that it always satisfies; someone faithful, genuine, open and warm, yet so resistant to the ravages of aging, sickness and tragedy as to seem immortal. You don’t want death to rob you of the one you love, plunging you back into icy loneliness.
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C we find love in porn
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Posted:May 15, 2016 12:48 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2024 4:20 am
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Before we can answer the question of why people use porn, we need to ask what porn is, and who its users are. Although lawyers, feminists, priests, and scientists all have tried to describe it, a satisfactory definition of porn does not exist. Some distinguish between erotica and porn, with porn being more violent, portraying unequal power in sexual relations, or showing activities that are judged to be immoral. The Webster dictionary defines pornography more instrumentally, through one of its presumed functions, as "the depiction of erotic behavior intended to cause sexual excitement."
Porn or not, representations of sexual behavior have existed through the centuries and across cultures. It has been said that pornography documents man's archetypical concern with sexuality. But does this mean that the reasons for its existence, or the functions of porn, have remained the same over time? The answer is no.
The famous Kama Sutra, with its sexual illustrations, is known as erotic literature, but it was mainly used as an educational device, an instruction manual. In the brothels of Pompeii, explicit paintings of sexual positions on the walls served as a menu, so a shy customer could point to an image to indicate what he wanted (etymologically, the word pornography comes from "writings about prostitutes"). In Greece, representations of sexual intercourse could be found on the bottoms of 's plates, so they could have something amusing to look at when they finished their meal. And in Athens, you could find phallic statues of Priapus on street corners, at which women would kneel and pray for fertility.
The modern Western world has removed explicit sexual depictions from everyday life (although allusions to sex are omnipresent), and nowadays the term "porn" is reserved for a more restricted category of sexual representations, one with a narrower function, consistent with Webster's definition -- namely, to cause sexual excitement.
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Posted:May 15, 2016 12:41 am
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television programs, magazine, books, etc. that are regarded as emphasizing the sensuous or sensational aspects of a nonsexual subject and stimulating a compulsive interest in their audience:
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