I had been seeing a woman for about 10 years and she was becoming overly possessive. she knew i was married and always said it didn't matter. i was honest with her and told her that i would not leave my wife. she always said she would rather it that way. we had our relationship and it went well for all that time. then she started having second thoughts about me being with her full timed and started pushing to have me leave my wife and move in with her. when i finally broke off the affair she was incensed and went to my house and threw all my clothes on my front lawn. then she knocked on my door and confronted my wife. my wife and i had a discussion regarding the affair and i told her that the lady was mad because i had broken off the affair. as it turned out, and not surprising, my wife was aware of the affair and chose not to say anything. eventually my friend came to see that we had had a very good relationship and we started seeing each other again but we were never as close as we were before this incident. my wife was never really into sex so she was happy that someone else was taking that "burden" off her shoulders. case closed.
I always wondered if my wife, given the chance, would cheat on me? We were at a party and my wife had a bit more to drink than she usually did and was feeling quite flirty. i asked a friend of mine to see how far he could get with her. so he danced and flirted with her and we kept her glass full. he was a great dancer and really had a way with women.