Sunny Days
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Posted:Jan 28, 2009 10:20 am
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2009 12:07 am
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The sun shines in through the gaps of my metal window shade, reminding me its morning on my day off. A wonderful way to wake up, I'm still left with the conundrum of what to do. It seems Seattle is a difficult place to meet new people, for whatever purpose. Everyone seems quick to smile, when you initiate it, will carry a polite conversation at a bus stop, in the stores, but when it comes to making a connection, people seem ready to go some place else.
I made a very interesting observation the other day. After starting a conversation with some folks at a bus stop, we then all got on the same bus, and nobody sat together to continue chatting. I was going to go move closer to one of the people, but suddenly realized that each of them had something of a dull, cow-like, expression on their face. I was shocked to realize this. Two had put their ear phones in, and were staring blankly at the seat in front of them, and the other guy was sitting in a side seat staring blankly at the ground. Immediately I put on a slight grin, just to make sure the life hadn't been sucked out of my face as well, then continued looking from face to face, all around. The only people showing any expression, or making any eye contact were a couple in the back. It honestly kind of sent a shiver down my spine.
Anyway, this doesn't solve what I'm going to do today, but it does lessen my willingness to just pick a place with a lot of people in the hopes of meeting someone interesting to hang out with. Maybe I'll go for another hike, the solitude there seems slightly more inviting, though Discovery Park is always a nice option as well.
Take care all.
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Fantasy Encounters: Massaging Meeting
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Posted:Dec 30, 2008 10:36 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:41 am
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I think my most basic scenario begins right here, with a post that you respond to. I can tell you are real because you talked about things other than your sexual self, told me your interests, and generally convinced me you weren't a trawler looking to get me to sign up to your site. We chat a little bit through emails, being cautious not to get suckered into something fake or hurtful, but decide to meet up at a tea shop, or go on a walk together.
We talk, just get to know each other a little bit, but the underlying idea is that we both know what we are interested in beyond the conversation. Satisfied that neither of us are pushy, creepy, or stalkeresque, we decide to go private. We end up at either my place or yours, and decide to start slowly, with a massage. You face away from me, and I begin rubbing your shoulders through your shirt. I work my fingers into your muscles, finding where they connect and where they are stressed. I work on your shoulders and back, and as I reach lower and lower, I very politely and slowly slide my hands under the edge of your shirt, as if asking permission to keep going. Your little reactions are what I'm watching for, and thus I slide my hands up, removing your shirt.
At this point you want to lay down, but before you do, you slide your pants off, knowing full well that we aren't here for sex itself, but to experiment and play, while just enjoying the moments as they pass. Before you lay down, you make a quip about the fairness of our respective situations, and I strip down to my boxer briefs as well. As you lay down and get comfortable, I gently reach my legs over you so I can sit on your butt, and work your back some more. As your bra gets in the way of my deep gliding hands, I eventually undo the straps, slightly aroused by the whole process. From there I change my position and sit along your side again.
I'm enjoying giving you a massage as much as you are enjoying getting one, and now I continue down your body, slowly getting lower on your back, skipping your butt, and jumping to your legs. I start near your heels, kneading like a cat, and work my way up to your calves, then knees. As I begin on your thighs, you spread your legs just slightly enough so that I can rub the outsides and insides of the muscles, and my touches very slowly, clearly teasingly, approach your more erotic areas.
I wait a little while, moving past your thighs up onto your butt, where I slide my fingers under the elastic top, and slowly pull your panties down your legs. Obviously we are both turned on, but I don't forget the rest of your body. Though I begin massaging each area, I also make sure to detour back to your shoulders, sides, and legs. My touches are both firm rubs, and gentle butterfly touches that cause goose bumps to rise on your skin.
Not everything is done in silence. Though I'm paying close attention to your body, how you flex or move as I do things, we talk, I make sure you are comfortable, and eventually, you roll to your side where you can see how turned on I am by you. It's clear as day through my shorts, I'm erect, and you already know how embarrassed I am, but there is a spot of precum showing now. I can't help either the fact that it's there, or the fact that I still feel embarrassed by the lack of being able t control it. But before I have too much of a chance to flush and muddle things with words, you are moving on, gently pushing me down, so I can roll over and get a massage from you.
It's all about the touches, and the play over our bodies. Finding where things feel best, and noticing the little indicators. We help each other out by acknowledging the best places, and the ticklish ones, and even the odd stumble of places not as comfortable, or touches that don't seem to work. But we are enjoying it, and eventually we begin to just focus on those specific areas that turn us on.
I've been undressed before I roll over again to face you, both naked, and we lay together, my hands finding their way over your body, arousing, but not coming to rest between your legs too quickly. Up and down your body, around your breast and nipples, cupping, then gliding down between your breasts, over your stomach . . . inside your thighs . . . up from where they meet, over you vagina, slipping in from time to time, finding your clitoris, but still moving on. We now just exchange touches as we like, talking about what really turns us on, taking turns, perhaps demonstrating to one another. By the end we have both came, perhaps more than once, and the concept of time dictates that we move past this play. We dress, and happily depart. Perhaps we stay in touch, perhaps it just seems to weird, but the fact remains that we both got something from the encounter, and that is enough either way.
I hope you enjoyed reading that. I mean, obviously I'm real now, right? Anyway, if you are around my age and interested, please don't hesitate to let me know. There are lots of places where this surly would change given your interests as well, I'm just making up a situation with a generic someone, so don't hesitate to throw ideas or things in there.
As always, take care.
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Tired and Frustrated
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Posted:Dec 14, 2008 9:51 am
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2009 12:08 am
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You know, I'm a pretty sincere guy . . . well, maybe you don't know if you are reading this, but just take my word for it. Sure I'm sitting here on an adult site, and I get horny like anyone else, but I'm still interested in the people, not just about the parts. Well, anyway, when I start conversations up with people, I obviously find something attractive about you, but that's not always enough for me. I want to find out more of who people are, so I try to be honest, polite of course, and chatty. I can't view profiles as a standard member, so I have to get to know people the old fashion way, but just asking questions, crazy.
Anyway, so why am I tired and frustrated. Well, frankly I just got done chatting with another, seemingly interesting person, only to get the sudden line question of doom:
"Hun," some how these people always start with this when they decide to pop the question, "can you help me out?"
Ouch! Yeah, it actually kind of hurts. I mean, I try to put myself out there to find something of a connection, and let's face it, when you are being sincere and discover you have just been toyed with in order to be lured in, it still hurts a little even online.
So, I try not to get angry or attack them for leading me on. I mean, they are still people too, with their own problems and things to deal with. Blah, blah, blah, but by that point, I'm just annoyed and frustrated. So here I am, venting into the blogs about it. Perhaps if you are one of those people, looking to get guys to sign up for something you'll read this and be a little more straight forward, letting people know where you stand. As for the rest of you, the real and awesome people. Thanks for listening to me vent on here, and you are free to let me know what you think. Or just strike up a conversation.
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Anyone Else . . .?
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Posted:Dec 7, 2007 2:25 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2009 11:26 pm
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Okay, so here's the thing. I'm sitting on LesbianPersonals chat, trying to get a conversation going, and no not always about sex, and I message and it sits there and spins indefinitly. I can leave one on the whole bloody time, and I don't get any response, not even a declined or anything.
Next issue, I send a page to someone, it sits and spins until I decide it's not working, then send another one just to be sure, and it immediately comes up with an acceptance. So, now I really don't know what's going on, because sometimes it works, other times it doesn't.
Another one is quitting half way into a conversation. I've managed to get past the first two glitches, and am chatting with someone, then suddenly neither of our chats seem to get through. Eventually, I see an new "incoming chat", and try to start all over again, but it's almost for sure broken and the chat is dead.
So, I'm sure there really isn't anything anyone is going to, or is doing, about this, just wanted to vent I guess. And, if you are ignoring me, I'm sorry if I keep trying to chat, it's really just better to tell me you don't want to so I'm not trying to second guess the system. The last thing I really want to do is waste my time trying to talk with someone who doesn't want to, and annoy them in the process. Take care all.
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Travel Dates
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Posted:Dec 6, 2007 3:58 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:41 am
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In case anyone is wondering, I'm going to be in the Seattle area around the thirteenth and staying until sometime in the twenties. Since I don't normally get any replies to my blog posting, I'm not really holding my breath that someone will speak up who might want to hang out. But, here is the info anyway. Take care.
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Oddly Enough
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Posted:Dec 6, 2007 3:53 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:41 am
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For someone who very rarely shows himself in person to anyone, I sure have become accustom to showing on cam. I started this summer to entice people to chat, but as it started becoming habit, I didn't really think I had been getting into it as much as I was. When I lost a good internet connection, and was forced to put it all away for a while, I found playing "alone" kinda boring. I guess I'm something of an exhibitionist, though I still think showing in person would be even more fun. I think it would be fun to meet someone who would want to just hang out, and watch each other. Think that's odd? No sex, just masturbating and chatting. Well, chalk it up as one of the many mini-fantasies I have.
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Moving to Seattle
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Posted:Dec 3, 2007 8:46 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2007 9:19 am
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I'm going to be visiting and moving to Seattle throughout this month and next and would like to get to know some people and maybe try something new out. Mainly though I would just like to chat, then decide on anything else after that. Wishing you all well, take care.
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Hair, Hairless, or Trimmed
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Posted:Sep 19, 2007 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2008 12:25 am
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This question has probably been posed over and over on this site, but here it is again, though I encourage elaboration. Do you like to be with people who are hairless, hairy, or trimmed? Then, if it's not too much trouble, explain why. What do you like about hair, or no hair? How do you like your partner trimmed? Etc . . .
Personally, I think that any of the options could be interesting on a woman. Hairless and trimmed probably aren't much of a surprise, but I think hair could be very stimulating and could add to moment. I tend to do some trimming myself, but I do find hair at a certain length and type to be very arousing. Anyway, what do all of you think?
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August Travel
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Posted:Aug 6, 2007 3:37 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:41 am
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Hey all, I'm planing a trip to Portland and Seattle at the end of this month, 19 - 25 and wouldn't mind a few distractions from my purpose. If you are interested, let me know by sending me a post, or contacting me other ways (previous post). Otherwise, take care and have fun.
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Just to Chat
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Posted:Aug 5, 2007 11:45 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2008 7:46 pm
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I decided to make a blog post just for replies. Since the IM can be finicky, the chat can be boggy, and the emails on this site unreliable, I decided to create a blog just so that people can contact me if they want to and can't. I mean, I'm hoping people do want to contact me lol. Anyway, I'm not suppose to put contact info up, but since I am pretty comfortable that I have protected myself, I'm going to say that my user name here is standard to anything I'm on, including messengers.
i won't say which one i prefer directly, but You cAn tHeOrize which One.
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Can Standard do Anything?
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Posted:Aug 3, 2007 7:46 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:41 am
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So, I started up on here a few months ago as a Standard Member, sure it was limiting, but I didn't expect it to be full access either. As I started to get used to the site, suddenly things began to change. I would email in problems to tech support, and get the response that it was an intentional "test" to limit standard access. Now, I can't email, not even emails sent to me, can't look at any profiles, and basically can't communicate other than the IM and the Chat (neither of which are terribly reliable)
My question I guess is if anyone knows how us standard members are suppose to contact and chat with other people. I mean, whenever you try to post something with an alternative messenger name, or email in it, it gets blocked. The only thing I can think to do is to make my LesbianPersonals name the same as my alternative messenger names, and somehow try to get that across.
whY Are tHey dOing this tO us?
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Is sex play?
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Posted:Jun 22, 2007 12:48 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 6:41 am
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I thought I would start with the heart of everything. Do you consider sex to be play, is it more serious than that, or is it a bit of both? I'm very interested in the feedback, and the explinations as to why you feel that way. Have a good one.
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To link to this blog (rm_ienpsie) use [blog rm_ienpsie] in your messages.
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