Hmmm
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Posted:Aug 10, 2014 4:52 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2015 7:14 pm
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Feeling lonely doesn't normally get to me but tonight it has.
Obviously I ma doing something wrong.
To independent, to opinionated, to strong, to something...
I don't know ... kinda given up... I look at my single friends who are not capable, who always need my help, who call on my first to change a light globe, to fix problems and to assist when in need ... yet they are always out on dates, people ask them out... they are good looking maybe a size 6-8 at most... and then I look in the mirror and see me...
The truth is I don't NEED anyone to fix things, but I would truly like somebody to share my life with...
So what should I change n my life, how do I attract the right person?
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Yep still here
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Posted:Apr 23, 2014 7:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2014 5:06 am
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Well its been a while since I visited or posted in this space...
Have taken on new challenges in my life, gone back to study,
am working part time and enjoying life in general...
Still missing someone to share my life with - an equal
that is engaged in life, looking for more and wanting
to be the best person they can be.
Have been out on dates, but it seems I am a magnet for
all that is not well with the world. I truly don't have the
energy to be someones Mother and teach them how
to grow up and be a responsible adult. I am not prepared
to deal with drug or alcohol abuse, nor violence, physical
or mental abuse.
It seems my world attracts those that are still waiting to grow up
and should I like someone that may be an equal - they live in
another state - lol...
Oh well just keep swimming as Dory would say...
Still living life, explore the options and searching for
the final piece of the puzzle....
Love and respect to all...
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Ho hum
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Posted:Sep 24, 2013 4:34 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2014 8:06 pm
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Yep still single... you would think I would get use to it
but I haven't... its not that I need someone in my life
I would just like to share it with someone.....
Maybe I ma to fussy, maybe the right person
has not come along or is prepared to give me
some time to get to know me....
Either way still here but not very often.
Hope everyone else is finding someone to share time with.
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Women in their 40's something to think about...
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Posted:May 13, 2013 7:36 pm
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2015 7:14 pm
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Thought for the day that I liked....
Agree or disagree or discuss away.....
Andy Rooney's thoughts on women over forty:
As I grow in age, I value women who are over forty most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over forty will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, “What are you thinking?” She doesn’t care what you think.
If a woman over forty doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it’s usually something more interesting.
A woman over forty knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of forty give a hoot what you might think about her or what she’s doing.
Women over forty are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.
A woman over forty has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn’t trust the guy with other women. Women over forty couldn’t care less if you’re attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won’t betray her.
Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over forty. They always know.
A woman over forty looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over forty is far sexier than her younger counterpart.
Older women are forthright and honest. They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk, if you are acting like one! You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.
Yes, we praise women over forty for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of forty-plus, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some twenty-two-year-old waitress.
Ladies, I apologize.
For all those men who say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free,” here’s an update for you. Now 80 percent of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage.
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Some good news
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Posted:May 9, 2013 5:34 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 12:06 am
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Well I have had a few shitty weeks...
My car was written off by the insurance company...
And i loved my car... so it was hard to let go...
Then I tried for a loan but was knocked back....
The person I was dealing with was useless beyond words...
Anyway 4 weeks of crap, lots of stress and many sleepless nights...
I now have a (new to me) car... one that is reliable,
safe and comfy to drive....
I was also selected to receive a lovely Mothers Day Basket from some complete strangers - which my are to keep safe and give to me on Sunday..... something special for them to share with me. A pay-it-forward good will gesture - with out my would have had nothing to give me as I am flat broke now...
Anyway I may be broke with no money... but with the love of my I have more wealth than many people I know.
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My Birthday
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Posted:Apr 15, 2013 3:45 am
Last Updated:Jan 29, 2015 7:15 pm
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Well its my birthday on Saturday...
Last year barely anyone noticed it go by
I never blew out candles on a cake
and the people I thought were my friends
were to busy to go out....
So a year has gone past and I dont think much
has changed at all.
Except I give less of myself now to others.
I say no more often
I am now with out a car as mine has been in an
accident and the insurance company will not
fix it. Grrrrr Grrrr Grrrrr
So I am not sure where I am at...
But I know as each day passes I am a better person
and soon I will look back on the crappy few years
I have had and know how much I have learnt and
who I can truly rely on...
So Happy Birthday to me...
Another year gone,
still searching for happiness
still lonely at times
But tomorrow is another day and who knows
what it will bring to my front door.
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Happy Easter
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Posted:Mar 31, 2013 5:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 2, 2013 4:21 am
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Wishing everyone a very Happy Easter
Hope the Easter Bunny came to visit and you were
able to take some time out.....
Be safe and have fun
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WOW what a wild few weeks I have had
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Posted:Feb 24, 2013 2:49 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2013 5:30 pm
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But unfortunately for all the wrong reasons..
I thought I met someone that would be nice to catch up with on
occassions - nothing full on just a friend with similar interests.
Whilst I thought there was something between us and he gave every
indication that he felt the same ... at the last minute I am left
wondering why.... apparently even though he said there was, there
never really was, or maybe I just have no idea anymore.
My friends house burnt down - everyone out safely. Have spent
the last two weeks frantically trying to help them. Thankfully they
now have a rental place and donated furniture to get them through.
But was very stressful and emotional for them. Its hard when you want
to say something, or do something to help and really what can you do.
I guess I am just shattered at the moment, very disillusioned with life,
really thought things had changed for the better only for it to all come
crashing down. Surely all this good Karma has to come back to me one
day - was silly of me to think that this person cared and that we could
at least trust each other and share a few laughs.
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Getting Better
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Posted:Feb 4, 2013 12:24 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2013 2:40 am
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I hate to jinx things but I think things are starting to get better.
I picked up some part time work, got an extension on my course
so I hope to finish that soon.
And have a catch up with someone that I hope goes really well.
Staying positive and looking forward to a future full of new
adventures and wonderful memories - what ever it may hold.
Hope everyone is moving forward in a positive way with their life.
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Happy Birthday
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Posted:Jan 10, 2013 3:30 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2013 3:12 am
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Its my babies birthday tomorrow...
Like everyone says ... only seems like yesterday..
I am so proud of all that he has become for such a young age.
He will no doubt grow into the most wonderful man, loving, caring,
has empathy and is willing to help anyone...
Happy Birthday to my baby I love you to the moon and back...
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Here it is 2013....
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Posted:Jan 6, 2013 4:16 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2013 2:39 pm
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So its now 2013....
So much can be achieved, so much can be learnt....
New adventures, new meetings and new memories to be created...
So tell me something that you hope to achieve this year...
Big or small, silly or stupendous it doesnt matter...
For me it is being the best me I can be...
Letting go of the bullshit that has plagued me,
Stop being used by so called friends that only appear when
they want something...
Meeting new people and forming new friendships, whether that
leads to anything further is not the point....
I want to be healthy and happy....
SO HOW ABOUT YOU WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR 2013...
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Happy New year....
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Posted:Dec 30, 2012 11:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2013 4:48 am
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Happy New Year to everyone...
Have fun and stay safe...
Love to hear what people are / or have gotten up to on New Years Night...
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