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Posted:Jan 4, 2014 12:11 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2014 10:00 pm
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I would like to thank Wal*Mart...they are already putting up Valentine's Day decorations and cards and candy. Who the fuck would buy it this early? And why am I thanking them, you ask?
Well, I'd like to thank them for once again reminding me that I am most likely not going to be dating anyone on that day...again. I shall remain a Valentine's Day virgin...just as I am a stupid New Year's Eve virgin. Never had a date, boyfriend, kiss, or sex on either day, ever...
So, thanks Wal*Mart for throwing that in my face. I have to look at that for the next 6 weeks. Awesome.
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Face down, ass up...
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Posted:Jan 3, 2014 11:37 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2014 11:32 am
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I want to talk about sexual positions. What is your favorite? Does it depend on you partner? I know a lot of men like cowgirl. I really am not a huge fan of that one. I've only done it one time, and while I enjoyed it a LOT, I am still a little leery of me being a plus sized woman on top.
My preferences are: Doggie, me bent over nearly anything, missionary, me on my side with the man holding my leg up while he fucks me, and there are other positions that I can't explain, because I have no idea how the hell we got into the position in the first place, but I sure as hell enjoyed it!! And of course, me on my knees with a cock in my mouth...I love that! I don't know what it is about a silky, hard cock sliding over my lips, but I love it. I love wrapping my hands around a nice hard cock, licking the tip, running my tongue over it...geez, I'm making myself horny...or I guess I should say hornier...
Men, have you had plus sized women on top? By plus sized, I don't mean what society and magazines deem plus sized (size 8 ). I mean, large body, belly, ass...all of that. How much would be too much? I know there are men out there who enjoy it, but I'm shy and with years of verbally disparaging remarks made about me from some men....and some women. I've come to the conclusion that if they feel the need to say something mean about me when I have done nothing to them, they must feel pretty poorly about themselves. Sorry, wandering away from topic...
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Well, that's just fuck-tastic!
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Posted:Jan 3, 2014 11:21 am
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2014 5:07 am
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Don't let me putting "tastic" at the end of Fuck fool you. Fucktastick isn't a good thing.
My 2014 is starting out kind of rough. I can only hope it gets better, but it is seriously starting to depress me. For a while, I was talking to a few different guys who caught my interest. Emails, pix, the usual stuff. I hadn't met any of the men, except one. (fantastically HOT -- he was the one I was trying to get together with this weekend)
At the end of the year, it seemed like a couple of men I met while out and about in Billings were flirting with me. But after the new year, it's as if some sort of curtain went up. No flirty banter with those men. No emails from the couple of guys I was emailing.
I don't know what to do about the guy I wanted to get together with this weekend. I guess I'll just wait and see if he contacts me. I hope so, but with the way this year is going, who knows?
What are YOUR rules about contact? (texting, phone calls etc) I never want to intrude into someone's everyday life, when all he wants is a fwb. BUT if we are FWB, doesn't that mean FRIEND?
See, I told you I was socially inept.
I'm the type of person that people who have my number can contact me whenever they want to. It doesn't bother me. If it is the middle of the night, my phone is probably on silent, so you more than likely won't get a response from me until I wake up. But I love hearing from people. The odd thing with me, though, is I'm afraid to text those same people out of the blue (*and by people, I mean MEN).
There are a few other things that are frustrating me, but it's not something I can air out here...just wish I was traveling this weekend. I love hotel sex.
I had planned to pamper myself with a hotel that had a spa tub, so I could soak in it for a while before I invited Mr. Hottie over. I don't see me doing that here...Guess I'll just save the money for another weekend and hope this guy get in touch with me.
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So what?
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Posted:Jan 1, 2014 11:01 pm
Last Updated:Jan 3, 2014 11:23 pm
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So, I didn't get laid on new year's eve...I really wasn't too upset over that. Why? Because I hoped to travel this weekend to meet up with a guy that I'd met previously. I was actually pretty excited about that. But plans fell thru.  It really sucks, because I think he'd be a lot of fun. I decided to leave the planning of the next (if there is one) meeting to him. Usually every weekend is good for me. And I don't want to seem pushy or anything. If he really wants me to come see him, I'm more than willing. But I'm not going to pester him. (That's what I feel like I'm doing if I think I'm texting someone to much.)
So, now I'm left alone this weekend. I'm kind of bummed. This year is not starting out any better than last year was .
Back to Duracell, I guess
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No Strings Attached...
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Posted:Dec 30, 2013 5:14 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2013 7:02 am
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NSA...what does that mean to you?
To me, no strings is just that. We're not attached, we have no say over what the other does. FWB is similar, except you might be friends and occasionally hang out.
With that being said, there are things that I don't believe being in a FWB or NSArelationship. And I use the word relationship, but I use the term loosely. I don't believe that you can have a successful FWB/ NSA relationship. if you have onepartner who is possessive about your time, or who you spend time with. Becomes jealous when you don't text back right away. I want fwb/nsa because I don't want that drama.
Recently, I met a guy who I hoped would become my fwb/nsa guy. But he started putting limits on things before we even met. I couldn't talk to other men, I couldn't have any other fwb at the same time...blah, blah, blah. This doesn't work for me I don't plan to go out and find 14 fwb, but to tell me who I can and cannot do is none of your business as long as I'm being safe and using protection. I'm not the type to be sleeping with a bunch of men at the same time (unless it's planned) but I am independent. Things got so bad, that I never even got around to meeting this man.
Men what do you expect and/or how for with your nsa/fwb partner?
I talked to my former long term fwb recently and he did I made a great fwb. I didn't get clingy, possessive, or bossy . I just wanted his cock and body and the occasional conversion. I still miss his cock and body, but there are plenty out there.
Was I wrong to not even meet this man? Red flags just kept popping up...
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do you have sex?
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Posted:Dec 21, 2013 1:36 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2013 6:42 pm
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I've been talking to this guy for a little while. And we've been trying to meet, but it seems like something always comes up to prevent us from meeting. He works out of town and the first time we were to meet, the bad roads kept him from traveling. The next two weekends, I had out of town guests staying at my home and was unable to meet him. It sucked, but he seemed understanding.
Cut to this weekend. Mother Nature decided to bring my monthly friend for a visit, along with extra heavy cramps. Now, I don't know about you other ladies, but I don't feel sexy during this time of the month, especially with the horrible cramps. I'm talking about the kind where I lay in bed, living on Advil, curled in a ball, nearly in tears. All I can do is sleep. I tried explaining this to the guy, but he still thinks we should meet. He says he'd still be willing to have sex. I could shower, he said. I tried telling him how badly I'm hurting, but I don't think he gets it. I think he thinks I'm putting him off.
I guess I'm rambling. But my question is, would you have sex while on your period or while a woman is having her period?
I'm a big woman, so I already have body issues, without adding my having my period while naked with a man. It just doesn't turn me on. Even if I want having cramps from hell, I don't think I'd want to have sex. The first time I meet this guy, I want to be clean, fresh and feeling sexy. It's that so wrong?
I was going to rent a hotel room and make it up to him next weekend, but now he is ignoring my texts.
What do I do?
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Gently!!
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Posted:Nov 30, 2013 10:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2013 9:21 am
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Guys, I have some advice for you. When you finally get a real woman from this site, and not some bot, to get naked with you, listen to the things she says in bed. She's giving you signals to what she likes, dislikes, what feels good, and sometimes what hurts. LISTEN!! If you don't, I doubt you'll get a second chance to view her naked.
I was with a man one time and things were going great...until he got me naked and went straight for my pussy. Normally I'm all for a guy touching me. But this guy was rough. I went from turned on to just wishing it was over. I asked him numerous times to touch me with a lighter touch, be gentler, I even grabbed his hands and tried to guide him. I don't know what he was trying to do, other than bore a hole through my body, but it was not fun. It hurt. Not just that night, by the next day. He was that rough. I don't know why I didn't just get up and leave. I guess I just kept hoping it would get better.
So guys, if a woman asks you to be gentle or asks something else, as long as it's reasonable, do it!! We know our bodies, we definitely know what feels good and what we enjoy!
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Gently!!
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Posted:Nov 30, 2013 10:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2013 8:41 pm
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Guys, I have some advice for you. When you finally get a real woman from this site, and not some bot, to get naked with you, listen to the things she says in bed. She's giving you signals to what she likes, dislikes, what feels good, and sometimes what hurts. LISTEN!! If you don't, I doubt you'll get a second chance to view her naked.
I was with a man one time and things were going great...until he got me naked and went straight for my pussy. Normally I'm all for a guy touching me. But this guy was rough. I went from turned on to just wishing it was over. I asked him numerous times to touch me with a lighter touch, be gentler, I even grabbed his hands and tried to guide him. I don't know what he was trying to do, other than bore a hole through my body, but it was not fun. It hurt. Not just that night, by the next day. He was that rough. I don't know why I didn't just get up and leave. I guess I just kept hoping it would get better.
So guys, if a woman asks you to be gentle or asks something else, as long as it's reasonable, do it!! We know our bodies, we definitely know what feels good and what we enjoy!
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attraction
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Posted:Nov 25, 2013 9:55 pm
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2014 10:24 am
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Ok, just as I realize that not every man I'm attracted to will be attracted to me and my type (plus-sized, bbw, zaftigue, rubenesque, whatever...) I'm not attracted to older men. I'm not into men over 50 (unless I've contacted you before). It is stated in my profile. Pleaser respect that. If I read in your profile that you aren't attracted to big women, I leave you alone. All I'm asking for is the same thing.
It's nothing personal, I just know what I like and what I'm attracted to. Thank you....
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