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Groups > Local Groups > United States Groups > Indiana Groups > Indianapolis & Vicinity Groups > Indianapolis Metro Area Groups > Indy Sex Freaks

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irie_pirate
Ask me for a photo
375 Comments
 try your other hand?!

just kidding- don't be a hater.

rm_SCreamZzZ_08
221 Comments
 Drexl, it's frustrating huh? understandably! i've had the same problem for years.. if you can rule out anything medical being the problem then just relax and enjoy your newfound abilities.. personally...I have gotten more compliments about not being a minute or 5 minute man than anything....now once you hit the hour....2 hour 3 hour...mark..it definately does get frustrating and make sure you grab some lube( she more often than not can produce enough lube but not for as long as you may be able to go.) be prepared and if all else fails...find other ways to get off... you might also try tuning your brain ...yes...your brain! lol...I've found as I've gotten older...my mental state and current thought pattern affects my libido much more than it used to....different things work for different people...but try concentrating...on what you and /or she is doing...each sensation each touch etc...try different things see what works for you..and good luck!. and if it isn't a medical problem it's a gift!

speedbuggy04
19 Comments
 Sigh...understand. Try to not masturbate so much! I know that sounds funny but one has to back off. Seriously take Mr. Cream's advice and try to just relax and enjoy the one your with and focus on her and her pleasures. Seeing her pleased may be very erotic for you and expedite your release as well as hers.

Cheers to all!

drexl83
Ask me for a photo
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 Thanks for the advice guys... I have tried not jerking off for awhile, but that didn't help either. Does anybody know of any products I could try that would make the feeling more intense so I'd be able to cum sooner?

rm_SCreamZzZ_08
221 Comments
 Drexl, most of the commercial products available are ones that promote stamina and DELAY cumming... which is the opposite of what you are trying to do....My best advice is to get your mind in a place where you aren't thinking!...just concentrating on sensations, the eroticism of the situation and pleasing your partner as much as possible!.. To quit thinking about the frustration you are having by not being able to cum and enjoy the moment! My personal philosophy is to not worry about the finish...concentrate on all the moments during....and enjoy HER reactions to what you are doing...seeing her reactions and that she is enjoying herself WITH you helps the mind relax and eases the anxiety...let your brain go and you should find things better whether you finish or not!!!. good luck!

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