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I've been around the block (having been in bands all my life..), so although I rock, I am relaxed and a little nerdy. And though I put bi-curious for my sexual orientaion, I am actually straight. But like so many straight guys, I love wieners - especially my own. We've been through everything together and he has never let me down. I am a photographer of fine arts, specializing in nudes, and can't possibly deny the beauty of the male form. (God didn't make women beautiful and men ugly). I mean, don't get me wrong, I used to feel gay about this, but when I grew up I finally figured out what all those feelings were about (and it's not sexual ) and it made me a very confident man. The down side is, I have this sort of feeling like I've discovered an amazing secret truth, and it feels like I have a great advantage over guys who are scared of getting this close to their feelings and coming to terms about these things( it used to make me feel uncomfortable to even consider that I might be even a little gay). I feel now that Kurt Cobain was right, everyone is gay, just to varying degrees.
> Also, I have already done everything with a guy that I ever cared to do (hold, touch and suck) but there are many more hetero scenes I'm looking for. For the most part, those things will have to wait until after my girl opens up more and more, so I can someday have her get involved with some girl/girl action, then throw my cock in between them. (Maybe if we hooked up with the perfect couple we could get to that point sooner.)
So me and my straight friends get together for some yanking once in a while. Sometimes a girlfriend will get involved. We're looking for some more decent people to join in. If you feel like hanging with us, give me a shout. THIS IS DEFINITELY NOT A GAY SITUATION, though there is touching and stroking going on. DEFINITELY NO ASS STUFF OR KISSING! I wasn't really curious for this stuff a few years ago, but that's when I chilled with my first dude. By accident. When I was younger I was a real hard head and grew out of that. I guess in college when I was taking photography courses(to raise my GPA) and took pictures of nude people I noticed that guys are beautiful just like chicks, but the curiosity to see a man's hard-on wasn't really strong. After a while I happened to fantasize about things more and more (I saw a lot of penises in my college years) and thought that I would stop being like typical guys who make sure all efforts to get close to them are halted, and be more mellow and let things happen naturally. Well, long story short I did find myself in a situation or two where I allowed things to move along naturally and I had very exciting times. When I was younger my pals and I would masturbate together, but it never really meant anything. We were just young boys who were together, doing everything. Nowadays I have friends who come over to masturbate, but over time I've learned to enjoy masturbating my buds and letting them do me. So now I'm inviting more guys who are cool to hang out. Also, the guys get to bring their girl, if she's cool. Now, I feel like I've done everything I've ever fantasized about doing with a guy and I feel like a real man, for lack of a better way to put it. I feel so free and confident & happy with myself for having the courage a while ago to let myself relax with myself (and others). Now I feel all guys are the way I am , or I was, and that we're all on this path of self-discovery that will ultimately bring us each to the conclusion that we ourselves - and everyone- are being fake and dishonest with ourselves and each other. Now I see how stupid and childish I was and am glad I finally woke up.
The ideal guy for this group is one who is open, like me, but not actually bi-sexual -( which to me, means a man who wants to someday put his cock in a guy's ass, or has already done that, or has had that done to him, or chills with guys who are down with that. (I'm not down with any of that. Though I will admit that the ass is a great errogenous zone, mine is for exit only - and that is the way that the guys that we chill with feel). I think straight guys who are open - and especially those who suck cock - are just hip and not neccessarily queer. I think it takes a strong man to feel confident enough to suck cock if he's straight. I always wanted to try that - even when I was young - just to know what it would feel like , just to know what it is that I'm asking of my woman. I came to find out that it is definitely a pleasurable act for the giver as well as the getter (just like there's a certain spot on the penis that you can stimulate and reach heights of ecstacy, there's one in the back of the throat that the penis stimulates when it's in your mouth. I've seen girl's actually cum from giving a blow job and doing it gets me close to that point too. This is great info, because without knowing that, I might be convinced by a girlfriend that she can go without sucking me. The girls I've been with since discovering all this have been much more open and straight forward about their likes and dislikes with me. There's a lot more meaningful dialog and fun when they know you are free yet still a man of steel. Turns out that women love men who are strong enough and confident enough to test these waters and come out still a man. Girls make you feel like a million dollars when they know you've been around the block and you still want to be with her. Now that's a man who knows what he wants, and it seems that's what girls want; strong men who know what they want and go get it, and aren't ashamed of what their intellectual curiosities reveals to them. My present girlfriend actually thanked me for being so respectful after she sucked me and let me cum on her face, and I gave her a nice sweet kiss afterward. She said with other guys she would never let them come on her face because they wouldn't even kiss her after she just had his cock in her mouth. She was amazed at how confident and relaxed I was to give her a big sweet kiss of gratitude after I had just blown my load all over her face. Why not. How can I ask her to taste my cum if I think cocks and cum are gross. What kind of a person would do that to a girl? I think girls are lucky. I feel it's my duty to show her that I respect her that much. I don't get ruffled by cum.)
This group is perfect for the guy who is reading that stuff I wrote up above about my own feelings and said to himself "That's Me". (There are a lot of guys like us. In fact I've talked to some senior citizens about this - as I was fascinated, I really did some investigating - and they have nearly all said that we all end up understanding those "gay" feelings later in life, but then it's too late then to have any fun about it. They all wish they had explored those hidden interests more. - it seems the smart or well-travelled ones pick up on this earlier on. I lived in Sicily for a couple years and found all the guys over there quite straight yet open. It was a little strange at first, yet fresh - and everyone seemed to be so happy and free and it was really different from America, where you must take advantage of every opprtunity to break down people who feel this way and must always act 'super-straight'.( I think 'acting' straight is a ridiculous notion and an act of desperation - what could be crazier than to be what others think you should or shouldn't be and not what you want for yourself?) People DON'T fit into well-defined cubby-holes, I've accepted that. My girl, however hasn't begun to get hip with all that girl/girl stuff yet. I'm not gonna force it with her. I'm sure my openness about this is making it easier for her to open up herself, and I look forward to the day I can look down and see my girl licking the pussy that I'm coming all over (I want my turn licking a pussy being splashed on, but that's a different story..). If a nice girl or couple inquires, we'll see if we can set up a really hot scene, though what we are really looking for is guys.
My buds and I get together for discreet,easy-going masturbation now and then and just want to invite more horses into the stable. So many guys (especially those with girlfriends) don't get a chance to check out other fun things. So some of them ended up coming over for some yanking and it's been great. Hey, we're just a bunch of regular guys; we love our penises and are proud to show them off and what they can do. And we're all open-minded, so touching is allowed - but not mandatory. A few of the guys in our little group don't want to touch or be touched, but mostly all the guys are affectionate with their hands. It's a great way to open up and learn to be less uptight or hung-up - so drop by.
In the summertime, we can sunbathe on our apt roof. I even set up a little wading pool to cool off in! My girlfriend says her girlfriends should all have their men try this, but of course she's a little apprehensive about bringing it up with people. When the guys all get together, we discuss sex, among other things and there's a lot to learn from each other. Also two of the guys have girlfriends who want us all to sex her (you may have one as well, whom you'd like to bring over - even if she doesn't want sex). Sometimes one of the guys will bring in his gal to show us how he does her - it's so exciting to see the excitement in her eyes when five guys are blowing loads to the sounds of her moaning. It's so much fun, I wish a lady could be there each time, but that's what makes it special. Usually we get together and hang out in our underwear and watch porn and yank off and laugh it up. It's a perfect environmemt to learn how to really masturbate for pleasure (not just simply busting a nut - which is also cool), or to sort out curiousities that we all have; What do other wangs looks like , what do other cocks look like when they cum, what does it feel like to let someone else see me shoot my load? These are usual sentiments which, like others, can be sorted out and understood better in this scene, each of the guys agree. Also, every single guy who came over has reported that not only has the yanking club been good for his mental health, but also the sex drive is increased and almost every guy has said his cock now gets harder than it did before learning to be more open.
This is like a group of guys who build fast cars as a hobby, and get together to bullshit about it, and most of the guys let the others take their car out for a rip here and there. Only we have our cocks, not race cars. As for me, I like to do most of the driving myself, but enjoy someone taking "the wheel" once in a while, so I can relax. I also enjoy helping a bud reach a creamy finish, when inspired.
I figured I'd start a group where the guys can find useful info, and where to go if you need to find a special someone to lend a helping hand or mouth or both.
I'll be putting up posts here as to when my friends and I get together.
Note:
- There are girls involved now and then - but don't join this group for hooking up with chicks, there's million other places to find that.
- There are also guys here - but don't join if you're gay, or bi-sexual, there's half a million places for that. THIS IS THE ONE CLUB FOR THOSE RARE STRAIGHT GUYS WHO ARE MAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT THAT COCKS ROCK!!!!! Topic(s): Advice, Aging/Age Differences, Cunnilingus, Exhibitionism, Fellatio, Games, Group Sex/Orgies, Massage, MILFs, Models/Photographers, Nudists, Open Relationships, Outdoors, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Well-Endowed |
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