Most of my friends would say I have a somewhat shy personality. I'm not a big fan of the bar scene; that shyness thing coming into play. ;-) I like my partners to tell me what to do in the bedroom. I love sex, but I'm more interested in short-term relationships right now, though this may change. I'm willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds, but pain has never been a turn-on for me. At heart, I'm a nerd, into nerdy sorts of things and with a command of way too many bizarre facts for my own good.

My Ideal Person I'm bi-curious, but at this time I'm not interested in exploring that facet of my personality.

Extramarital encounters don't bother me so long as the other partner is informed. I don't want to be a party to deception, though.

Foreplay is important. My last partner wasn't into it, though, so I'm a little out of practice.

Intellect stimulates me. I can be with someone who's not the brightest bulb on the christmas tree, but if I'm to truly find them interesting, they have to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation.