I'm a married white male who has only recently come to accept that I'm Bi. My wife doesn't acknowledge this or approve of a polyamorous life-style so I need to be discreet in my experimentation. I love her very much, but I also want to explore.

My Ideal Person My ideal person or persons are a little forgiving if I don't know all the terms or expected behaviors of someone in "The Community". They can be overweight, or less attractive than magazine models, but what I insist on is that they are intelligent, and nsa. It would be nice if they had an interest in comics, games, scifi or fantasy, but that's no deal breaker. I would prefer to hook up with someone local to me, but I'm willing to drive short distances on occasion.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Stephen Wilson (Porcupine Tree), Muse, Vintage Trouble,
etc.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, friend potential

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Billie Eilish (sp?). Her dusky voice and the bold intelligence
of her lyrics are hot. Also, her eyes are hypnotic and are
perfect with her blond hair.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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