If we met at a party you'd discover the following in relatively short order: -I'm a good conversationalist (not bragging, but it's verifiable) -I ask lots of questions -You feel heard when you talk to me -You feel safe with me, and -I find you fascinating The truth is unless you are a buffoon of epic proportions I will find you interesting, not because I'm desperate, but because I really like people. There is something in every per I've ever met that shines. I'm exceptionally able to find that specialness in everyone I meet. The fact that you're special doesn't mean I'll feel drawn to you, but I'll do the work to see you for who you really are. I'm on this site for the predictable reas, but I want to be clear I'm not a casual fuck. I'm a Man of quality and though I'm interested in sex I seek to add to your life not just make your panties wet. I'm not clingy, however I'm not distant. I'm thoughtful, gentle and kind. People generally like me and I'm sure you will too. I like to live my life in the philosophical "Goldilocks Zone" as planetary scientists might call it. I'm not too much and I'm not inadequate I'm just right. I won't smother you with attention, but you'll know when I'm thinking of you. I won't suck up every moment of your time, but I can be available when you want/need me. I want to treat you well, but I will not be taken advantage of under any circumstances. When we are together you'll enjoy our time and have my undivided attention, but I won't over stay my welcome. I won't be your "boyfriend" because I'm not a boy, but you will feel cared for and thought well of in my company. My only extreme is my sexual desire. If we click I'll be unlikely to be able to get enough of you and I see that as a good thing. If you got the planetary science reference or at least took a second to look it up we'll probably get along just fine so check out my thoughts on my ideal per and drop me a line. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person She holds up her end of any conversation and makes an effort to be anything other than abjectly stupid. She is confident in her sexuality and interested in having her body stroked in addition to her mind. She knows that sexy is not a dress size or a particular weight, but an inner reality and even if she doesn't always feel it she's willing to relinquish the control and let me help her find her inner sexy. To be explicit I like women in all your shapes, sizes and ages all I ask is you share your blessings and beauty with me, I'll remind you often about the fantastic creation that you are. Shapely, Curvy, Fluffy, Fun Sized, Soft around the edges, Thin, Thick, BBW, Voluptuous, Fit and Fantastic, and all the terms I haven't heard yet you are welcome and will be appreciated.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I used to imagine that the pretty plus sized models in magazines
or catalogs would come to life at my command and be indelibly
sexually attracted to me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No celebrity worship makes people dumb. Although I would
not chase Jill Scott out of bed.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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