I'm a smooth, sexy polyamorous bi male who loves oral sex with a passion, and loves being a couple's sexual playtoy even better. I am in a loving committed relationship for the rest of eternity. So if you want to play with me, you have to understand what it is to be polyamorous, and also understand you can only aspire to be a secondary partner at the very best. So, mostly I'm here for the blogging and I love meeting people that way. I am mostly only looking for friends I can go out for a drink or dinner, and I prefer people who like in interesting conversation. If there's chemistry, I don't mind some sensual, mutual pleasure-seeking. I would love to hear from couples, especially bi couples. I enjoy being in groups and threesomes, and I especially love being in the midst of the sexual energy between two loving people. If you're a single man, you probably shouldn't waste your time unless you are the nicest, most interesting bisexual man alive. If you're a single woman, the odds are stacked against you unless you have a very serious boyfriend or you can demonstrate you're okay with being second. Everyone can read my blog if they want to know more about me. I TRY TO ANSWER ALL EMAILS. People really should follow this common courtesy. It may take up to a week for me to think about your message and reply, but I will answer you. I might not answer if you just send me a "what up?" since that is such an open-ended and pointless message, you may as well just wink at me.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for honest, interesting people who are willing to meet a few times for lunch or dinner together to see if there is any chemistry. If we click, we may move on to more intimate things.

I insist on safe sex (as much as such a thing is actually possible), and am drug and disease free, tested twice a year, and I intend to keep it that way.

I don't like people who are pushy or in a hurry. It doesn't mean that if chemistry is there I won't instantly act on it, I just don't want to get emails asking about my plans for tonight. I travel a lot and have a busy career and I need to plan in advance.

I am usually NOT interested in meeting someone for a one-time fling, and there is almost certainly no chance we will have sex within 30 seconds of meeting. I'm not looking to be serviced. But there are always exceptions, if you're really hot and you don't come off sounding desperate.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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