My Ideal Person:
My ideal encounter would be with a sexy (not over 5'8", please) post-op T-girl. She might be afraid of what "straight" men would think of her little secret, but in my mind, it makes her even sexier! I'd treat her like the woman she always knew she was.

I'd be open to a pre-op T-girl, too... I find myself turned on by a guy who presents his "pussy", and that's just the way I'd treat it. I'm NOT, however, interested in being someone's "sugar daddy" and footing the bill for the surgery. Sorry to be so blunt -- I can be the most supportive person you've ever met, but if being female is what you want, you should be committed to it on your own, not looking to someone else for a life-changing handout.

What I like about transsexuals is that they're finding themselves, getting in touch with who they really are inside. So I see a big difference between a true T-girl and a career cross-dresser who just likes wearing women's clothes. Here's the thing: if you want to be a guy, be a guy, and if you want to be a girl, be a girl. Or be a little of both, that's fine too. I'm just looking for someone who's comfortable with their sexuality, whatever it is!