I'm so tired of being bored. I've been divorced for 10+ years & assumed that fun & excitement were no longer possible for me at my age(63) until a chat friend in Oregon told me about this site & now that I'm here I'm thinking maybe, just maybe... I'm healthy, nice looking, have taken good care of my body & I'm every bit a gentleman. I will treat you with respect in both the streets & the sheets. I do not lie, misrepresent or sneak, I don't have to as I'm totally independent & all grown up. I'm seeking someone to be friends with & to enjoy sex with. If you just want to "use" me, that would probably be ok once or twice but I can't immagine it lasting much longer than that. The bedroom(or anywhere else for that matter): if you want to light candles & play with oils & blindfolds then you'll like me. If you want nasty adventure, want me to treat you like my whore or even to take charge yourself once in awhile then you'll love me. Basically, I'm a nice guy who wants to share, who has no agenda, nothing to prove & does not take himself, or much of anything else for that matter, seriously. I've built all the monuements, taken all the ego trips & "banked" all the regrets I intend to so now it's all about smiles, excitement, adventures & maybe some panting & sweating. If you have questions or if you'd like to chat(erotic or friendly) all you have to do is get in touch.
WELL, I FEEL AN UPDATE COMMING ON. This is just the end of my third week here on LesbianPersonals & I know that there's no one left here who can tell me whether or not I'm just wasting my time & money too. Believe me, if I weren't so damned sexually motivated I'd be on E.Harmony or one of those other vanilla sites. But here I am & this is what I have to say about that. I've both sent & received a bunch of emails, I've met several women & I've even gotten laid, whoopee! Hell, I even almost got caught up in a dating "scam". Boring? No. What I'm looking for? No. Everything I've said before this & say next is still the absolute truth. This is new. I would rather not hear from anyone at all than to hear from one more whack job who, after reading my profile, still doesn't get it. It's not that I've got anything against casual sex or sex addicts or one night stands or "likes" different from mine, hell, I'm definately not judgemental. The only people I have a problem with are the ones who don't know what they are & what they want. Son-of-a-bitch but there seems to be a lot of you here. If what I've just said pissed you off, no worries, just keep on truckin' & good luck to ya. But, if you agree or even if you just understand you might want to keep on reading, we might have something in common. If this doesn't work it just might be masturbation for me because I'm just not up for the conventional dating scene & the next time you hear from me it'll probably just be "bye".
My Ideal Person:
Obviously, my intro above tells you a lot about what I'm like & should give you a pretty good idea about what will be nice if you are like. If you want more than variety(nothing wrong there if that's what you want) & think maybe you'd like to spend more than a few hours with me, these are a few of your qualities that I will appreciate, respect & admire. Physically you will be proud of your looks, your hair, your makeup & your smile. You'll want to dress so as to flatter the shape of your legs & your cleavage(the most feminine & sensual part of your body when you're dressed for an evening out). Intellectually you'll be intelligent & educated so we can actually talk to each other. Emotionally, you need to be self-confident enough to be gracious, charming & possess a quick & witty sense of humor. Please don't be jealous or controlling or have expectations or hesitate to make your own choice & don't ever give up your choices.
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My ultimate fantasy is a lover who is beautiful, aware of
it, proud of it & who realizes that beauty is a very special
gift. She's charming, gracious & has a quick &
witty sense of humor (it takes self-confidence to have
a sense of humor, think about it). She's intelligent
& educated so we can talk to each other. She dresses
appropriately but loves to emphasize her shapely legs
& her cleavage which I think is the most feminine &
sensual part of a woman's body. She knows how to keep
her man grounded & yet can lift him into the clouds whenever
it pleases us. Finally, she knows that I respect & admire
her & one of the ways she expresses it is to be so comfortable
in her own skin that she's totally at ease with her fantasies
& desires & feels completely free to act on them
at any time.
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, Anywhere, anytime
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
It's hard for me to fantasize about something that
has no possibility of reality. I'm thinking that as
I get older the fewer fantasy opportunities are available
to me. To me a fantasy is something that could happen but hasn't happened yet & might never happen at
all.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.
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