I'm a 33yo, 5'11", 200lb professional, open-minded, college educated guy with a pretty stable life and a decent career. I've got short brown hair, hazel eyes, and pretty laid back attitude when I'm away from work. (Yes, a bit of extra padding from too much time at my desk and not enough at the gym.)
So why am I looking? Because my wife of eight years took off with another guy about ten months ago and the paperwork's finally done, so I'm (involuntarily) single again. Don't worry, I've come to grips with it quite a while back and gotten on with my life. Aside from occasional acute loneliness, I'm not carting around a ton of emotional baggage about it.
While I enjoy going out, realistically I'm just as happy to crash on the couch at home with someone and watch some crappy B movie. The perfect Saturday is going for a long drive to nowhere through the mountains with the top off the car (convertibles are awesome...) Not much of a sports fan, but I do enjoy minor league baseball and college hockey. Also enjoy the usual stuff - concerts, dinner out at a nice restaurant, movies - along with more cultural things, such as live theater, wine tastings, museums, etc.
My Ideal Person:
I don't really want a serious relationship right now, but I miss the intimacy and warmth of having a woman in my life. A cold winter weekend morning seems like a wonderful opportunity to stay under the blankets with someone, ignoring the concerns of real life and enjoying the moment. I'd really like to find a friends-with-benefits sort of relationship - I want to find someone that I enjoy talking to about anything and could just call up and ask to dinner or a concert/ballgame/movie/whatever, in addition to dealing with our sexual needs from time to time (as well as exploring new things).
(I'll say if it happened to work out in the long term as more than friends, I'm not opposed, but that's not the intention I'm approaching this with, nor do I expect to find it.)
I'm looking for women between 26-38 (though, well, I'm flexible depending on who you are), and I'm okay with whatever your race may be. I'm not looking for someone with the physique of a Greek goddess - cute and proportional is more than fine. There does have to be some physical attraction, but personality really does make or break the deal for me.
More important to me is that you're intelligent, funny, stable, and emotionally mature, able to hold a decently intelligent conversation, and, well, a very healthy sex drive wouldn't hurt. Sex is a lot more fun when you actually like the other person... 
I've also always wondered about being the third for a couple interested in a threesome, but I've never gotten the chance. So, if you're willing to take on a beginner, I'm willing to learn.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Aerosmith, Dire Straits/Mark Knoppfler, Clint Black,
AC/DC, Barenaked Ladies, Alan Parsons (Project
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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