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I am an old soilder who still has much living to do.I am told that i have mellowed since my retirement; which i guess is true since my hair is now worn long and gray ( SOME SAY SILVER!) I have been seperated and finally devorced now for several years and now feel comfortable reentering the dating world without a ton of old bagage. I am not real keen on large groups and much perfer small groups or better yet 1 on 1 interaction. As you might expect honesty and trust are high on my list Please understond though that while i would welcome a long term relationship it is not something that tops my current wants.I love most things outdoors; fishing Valdiez a couple times a year is a must for me. Riding n' rebuilding all types of motorcycles is a life long love.When inside reading, watching movies (i like most all types) and just talking/ listening or shareing quite time togather.
My Ideal Person:
I truely believe that physical contact is oneof the most wonderful experences a man and woman can ever share. To touch and be touched in return : to hold and be held ; to bring and recieve satisfaction all are gifts that ahe best shared. To lounge togather intertwined on a couch while laughing at a silly movie or crying togather with all the sad parts can and should be a important part of a healthy sexual incounter. There are however,surely times that raw passionate sex is simply great! :but even that improves when ideas can be offered and exchanged.Knowing yourself and your partner(s) comes before anything else however. I f we can't be ourselves and confortable togather outside an intimate relationship then i feel there would be little or no hance of hitting it off in one.I wanta partner(s) or man/ woman couple to want to spend time with me reguardless of the activity. I am nonjudgemental and look for that quality in others. I am non-clingy and would certanly hope that would be the case with those i meet. I certenly am open to new ideas and suggestions and conside give and take a healthy part of friendship. About the only thing that i am not, nor will ever be open to is any and all trpes of hurting; be physical,mental or speritual. Life is too short and there are enough hard knocks without adding others. I respict myself and others too much to engage in such things.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: bb king, clapton, all old time blues singers
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: to tell the truth it is a rather bland fantasy ; what makes it special for me is the intimacy ,warmth and closness of the encounter. it's setting is someplace warm(a small beach cottage in hawaii)or someplace warm and toasty in a bitter cold winter setting (a snug cabin herew/ a nice wood fire would do nicely)myself and some very special lady are the only players. for the entire time (day /weekend/whatever)the only clothes worn would be those to heighten the togatherness and pleasure. that in a nut shell is the intire fantasy; togatherness and bringing pleasure to self and partner. buth would to completely open to their own and their partners wants, likes and needs. open to being lead and guided to fulfilling the others desires and helping that special someone acheive total sexual/physical/emotional and spiritual contentment. fantasies don't always have to be complex multi player multi role extravaganies to have meaning
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: Sorry but my celeb is and will continue to be the special lady i am searching for. once we find oneanother we will create our own fantasies.
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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